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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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Datun · 05/09/2019 10:17

I'd written the most eloquent post of my life in sky writing.

Gutted.

TinselAngel · 05/09/2019 10:18

I'd was about to go back in time, inscribe a post on vellum, then come back and rediscover it as an ancient text.

BeMoreMagdalen · 05/09/2019 10:22

I actually channelled the voice of the Goddess. Lost forever now.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 10:22

Im sure lang wrote hers in dried weetabix (which sets like concrete) on the side of stonewalls head office

I am waiting with bated to breath to see if i am correct

i would have liked to have seen the skywriting and the vellum 😩

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 10:23

And the YouTube video

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 10:24

I actually channelled the voice of the Goddess

What an actual recording?

Couldn’t that actually kill us!

I suppose not if it’s channeled through you

BeMoreMagdalen · 05/09/2019 10:26

I am actually dead.

NotTerfNorCis · 05/09/2019 10:28

A PBP on Twitter: Well MumsnetTowers appears to have no way for anyone to appeal a permanent ban and wants to silence people who hold views that do not conform to the narrative on mums net. this is what silencing really looks like.

Got to enjoy the irony of a TRA complaining about 'silencing'. Grin

ThePankhurstConnection · 05/09/2019 10:39

It's just coercive control + lipstick. Really: nothing new to see at all.

Succinct - I like it. Might be my new descriptor for this behaviour.

BernardBlacksWineIceLolly · 05/09/2019 10:40

I had derived a simple and elegant proof of Fermat’s last theorem, which I carelessly noted in the margins of one of my posts so I wouldn’t forget it while I concentrated on the thread

Lost forever now

EmpressLesbianInChair · 05/09/2019 10:41

Is the past tense of Bespin Bespunk?

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 10:41

Anyone got a tally of feminists silenced from Mumsnet?Hmm

ThePankhurstConnection · 05/09/2019 10:42

And actually AGP is a suitable subject for discussion on a feminism board

The conflation of enjoying sexual humiliation with ‘being a woman’ is most instructive about how women are seen by parts of society

I completely agree and I feel it should be talked about more not less.

I am also beside myself with grief that I didn't not get the opportunity to see all your works of genius on that thread and of course the raising of the Goddess - I would have had so many questions for her. Sad.

Datun · 05/09/2019 10:43

Mumsnet are on Twitter, Facebook, have an office address, an email address and probably a phone number.

They can't silence anyone.

Datun · 05/09/2019 10:45

That wasn't aimed at you errol, I meant in terms of an appeal. Not in terms of speaking on the actual forum.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 10:47

Somebody could try and start another thread on it? I don't want to be banned.

I will if I can find a recent paper or suchlike as a jumping off point. I had a look on google scholar and couldn't see anything relevant and recent but did find something else which may be of interest.

Cascade220 · 05/09/2019 10:49

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 10:51

That wasn't aimed at you errol,

I never thought for a moment it was. Confused I meant those who've been banned.

BluebonicPlague · 05/09/2019 10:54

NotTerfNorCis

A PBP on Twitter: Well MumsnetTowers appears to have no way for anyone to appeal a permanent ban and wants to silence people who hold views that do not conform to the narrative on mums net. this is what silencing really looks like.

Because there's then nowhere in the whole world where you can go to talk to other people and share opinions.

Oh.

Got to enjoy the irony of a TRA complaining about 'silencing'

YYY. Grin

TinselAngel · 05/09/2019 11:15

I am actually dead

Clearly you are exaggerating now as if there's one thing I've learned from the Thigh ladies, it's that dead people speak in brackets.

Ereshkigal · 05/09/2019 11:17

Empress GrinWine

GirlDownUnder · 05/09/2019 11:46

Empress I do believe you’re correct 🧐 👩🏼‍⚖️

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Deliriumoftheendless · 05/09/2019 13:17

Just remember Bespin is a gas planet.

Make of all that what you will.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 13:20

I was on the star tours ride at Disney over the summer and there was a sign ‘advertising a trip’ to Bespin

I was like oooh look

But nobody i was with cared

EmpressLesbianInChair · 05/09/2019 13:44

Just remember Bespin is a gas planet. Make of all that what you will.

Grin
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