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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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NeurotrashWarrior · 30/08/2019 18:53

Ah looks like I missed all the fun and a recipe.

Funny how the behaviour displayed is very xy; hounding after women.

Obvs real women don't have the time or inclination to do such a thing.

NeurotrashWarrior · 30/08/2019 18:57

Ps re gussets, here's your comprehensive how to guide for supporting them, bracing your flange and checking your slot is correct. (It shouldn't be moving.)

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NotTerfNorCis · 30/08/2019 18:59

So Joss is back on Twitter.

Very predictable. Feminists who get banned are never allowed back. Shows where the power lies (with the ideology, not with Prior priorself I mean).

zebrasdontwearbras · 30/08/2019 19:26

I've not been active on twitter for a good couple of months - it was pissing me off too much. But I see that I've been hit by that "deboosted replies" thing.

I've never so much as received a warning from twitter, afaik never been reported (certainly never had an email advising me so) - but I'm deboosted.

Nice misogyny, Twitter!

GirlDownUnder · 31/08/2019 01:01

So Joss is back on Twitter

Much paranoia.... apparently we’re insignificant and can mass report enough to get Joss suspended.

mobile.twitter.com/Asian__blondie/status/1167328162696462336

Also my irony meter is now broken 😂

And not at all dodgy that “I have a mate in Twitter who’ll give me the name of the person responsible” spoiler it wasn’t FWR.

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Doyoumind · 31/08/2019 01:31

It's just quite sad imho.

Makes me laugh to see them claim we will be fuming/raging. Yeah, because we really GAS 🙄

TruthOnTrial · 31/08/2019 02:06

Twitter admin sound nice and professional, leaking personal data to 'friends' who then publish it on twatter.

Also, what is it with defending obvious statements to attack MN? All naïve, like, dont know what thats all about?!?

The culture of reverse is a lot worse than children's immature behaviour, and police time must be absolutely swimming in it now.

Had some things happening here recently that have shown me the utter lies and deflection that some think it's ok to use, and how damaging it can be.

I am glad MN saw and acted quickly.

Bespin · 31/08/2019 06:29

GirlDownUnder

I mean you could just not follow her on twitter then you would not have to see her tweets and get annoyed by them.

GirlDownUnder · 31/08/2019 06:40

Morning Bespin

I’m not and I don’t - thanks for worrying on behalf tho.

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Bespin · 31/08/2019 06:51

morning GirlDownUnder

thats OK its just with the pictures and everything you looked concerned about her return.

glad your ok

DickKerrLadies · 31/08/2019 07:16

That's incredibly wise advice Bespin to not look at things that you don't like.

DickKerrLadies · 31/08/2019 07:17

Personally, I found the paranoia and hypocrisy on twitter yesterday hilarious.

It's like accusations against "t**fs" on twitter are admissions of the posters own behaviour.

GirlDownUnder · 31/08/2019 07:26

you looked concerned about her return

Ahhh - I think you’ve miss-read my post. If you read again you’ll see I don’t mention feeling anything re Joss and the screen grabs aren’t from Joss because Joss was on a twitter time out.

Hope that clears things up for you.

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GirlDownUnder · 31/08/2019 07:27

Personally, I found the paranoia and hypocrisy on twitter yesterday hilarious.

Indeed. Hence my need for a new irony meter Grin

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Weezol · 31/08/2019 08:38

Especially the tweet from Trans Inclusive Radical Feminist in the first screenshot.

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 31/08/2019 09:52

Have to say I completely agree with the transinclusiveRF that Twitter really should have an algorithm to identify when people are being hounded.

What a marvellous idea.

GroggyLegs · 31/08/2019 09:56

Those screenshots 😂

It's the MN tfs!
MN T
fs are mass reporting!
MN T**fs do this constantly!

Oh it appears to be a GC man.

Bespin · 31/08/2019 09:59

It's the MN tfs!
MN T
fs are mass reporting!
MN T**fs do this constantly!

this is definatly not ture there's not enough people left on here to do that lol there all on spinster 😔

ErrolTheDragon · 31/08/2019 10:00

Funny how easily the next poster spotted the 'flaw' in that suggestion. Grin

The person identified as responsible for the 'pile on' of reports doesn't sound like a typical MN FWR regular (but if here or lurking, Hi, good to have unwoke Male allies!) let alone a spinster. (Not that I'm on there, nor twitter).

DickKerrLadies · 31/08/2019 10:08

Oh it's so cringey I can barely look.

Maybe that's the new community disruption plan, makes us all cry laughing so we can't see our keyboards.

Themyscira · 31/08/2019 10:08

Last I checked it was perfectly possible to become a member of more than one social media platform at a time, and use them differently, if necessary, as well. 🤷

DickKerrLadies · 31/08/2019 10:09

Apparently, women are good at multi-tasking like that.

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 31/08/2019 10:16

I can’t remember if the discussion about socks was on this thread or the one in site stuff, but isn’t it interesting how much some posters spelling and grammar can fluctuate?

Bespin · 31/08/2019 10:17

Apparently, women are good at multi-tasking like that.

can not beleive you are perpetuating gender stereotypes like that. lol

Cascade220 · 31/08/2019 10:20

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