Interesting thread and she makes a lot of good points.
One thing that I've noticed that connects all of us 'terfs' is that most of us have had some life experience that made us see the misogyny in society clearly and realise that women still have a vulnerable position in society.
For example, I experienced domestic abuse and at one point was told I might need to go in a refuge to be safe. The unfairness of that hit me so strongly, that I, the victim, was expected to go and hide whilst the abuser must be allowed to roam free. It hit me that society considers the rights and freedoms of abusers and rapists as more important than the actual LIVES of women and girls. Once you see something like that you can't unsee it. So many men even when convicted of abuse get short sentences and then are allowed out to terrorise their exes with no consequences.
I think a lot of those women attacking us have never had an experience like that so don't really appreciate things like female-only refuges.
The other group of women who seem to attack seem to be very privileged women who for different reasons, also have no current need for refuges and single sex spaces. Ie, their lives revolve around private clubs private parties, first class travel etc. They don't have to get the bus at night or or worry about weirdos in supermarket toilets, or navigate the world as a single mother.
So one group doesn't realise because of their age and life experiences, and the other group of women doesn't realise due to their wealth and privilege.
Most women fighting against this (although by far not all), who are known as terfs, seem to be middle aged normal working class and middle class women who have had some tough life experiences where they realised that women's rights are only recently won, still not fully won in many arenas, and that we are still very vulnerable to abuse, violence and discrimination due to a patriarchal society.