Speaking as someone who has friends who enjoy BDSM as an important part of their relationship, as someone who thinks that the idea that BDSM should be banned is insane, as someone who has campaigned for the rights of sexual minorities for decades, I would just like to make the following point:
People who enjoy a bit of spanking / creative roleplay in the bedroom / that kind of thing, especially if they are lesbian, gay or bisexual should avoid the NSPCC like the plague.
Just being involved with this organisation may adversely affect your reputation and may compromise your ability to find work even more than had you been involved with say, Kids Company.
This whole debacle not only shows the NSPCC to have not the first idea about child protection and safeguarding, it also shows that the NSPCC, by their frankly batshit insane response to this situation, is contributing to the astroturfing of LGBTIwhatever communities in such a way that makes them even more vulnerable to abuses than before the NSPCC got involved with protecting and apologising for the fetish toilet wanker.
NSPCC, you have not only lost the plot re child safeguarding and protection, you are promoting an impression of the gay and BDSM communities that is deeply offensive to anyone who has had even the most fleeting involvement with such communities.
Your defence of the fetishistic toilet wanker is homophobic and many would argue kink-phobic as it portrays someone who goes into a toilet at a children's charity in full on fetish wear, during work time and who makes a wank amateur porn film in those same toilets as being in some way representative of the BDSM community. He is not representative at all, just as he is not representative of the gay community.
I cannot speak on behalf of the BDSM community / communities as I no longer have contact with them but if you think for one moment that most people who enjoy a BDSM lifestyle would support your deranged narratives claiming that fetish wank man is being bullied you are in for a rude awakening.
What is most odious to me is not the unpleasant photos I have seen of toilet wank man in his tight fitting rubber outfits - I am an open minded person and I understand that what appears grim and unpleasant to one person may appear beautiful to another - it is the NSPCC's response to this disastrous clusterfuck, a response that demonstrates, without any shadow of a doubt that the NSPCC needs an urgent review of its staffing, training, procedures and practices.
When a charity whose entire premise is based on child protection demonstrates that it has lost its way in such a profound manner it is time to either shut it down completely or to subject it to a thorough clean out and remove not just the bad apples (of which there seem to be many) but the roots and branches supporting them.