I have resigned myself to male ob-gyns, as that is all that is available here, and had no issue with my male GP doing my smear (I absolutely adore him as a doctor, he has just the right bedside manner for me).
But as I have taken to saying when it comes to discussions on choices surrounding male healthcare providers/trans in changing rooms etc...
If you don’t like it, take it up with the man who groomed and molested me, the classmates who cornered and groped me, the old men who have groped me on the bus, the loud groups of drunks who’ve shouted filth at me. They have made me feel this way, COMPLAIN TO THEM.