That was brilliant
I was screaming Pullllllllllllllllllll at the radio.
DD1 best friend is a transboy. I'll call them Tom. Last time I ranted about them I used the "incorrect" pronouns, and got deleted.
Here are the facts about Tom
Their dad died (strange circumstances) when they were 13.
They have always been pressured academically, in the 11+ exam they threw up and failed, despite being gifted.
They have a history of self harm
Their brothers also self harm
Their middle brother was always seen as the clever one
They are extremely high achieving academically
They are into anime, and like many teens spend loads of time on the internet.
Gender Incongruence happened at in year 8, no mentions before.
They have been diagnosed with anxiety, and often carry around comforters (teddies etc)
They are under CAMHS
They are an extremely kind, caring, individual. An extremely loyal friend to DD. They always share a room on trips etc. I am genuinely terrified that the only thing holding Tom back from demanding irreversible medical changes is the fact that they have a sensible, kind (but gc) group of real life friends. I'm terrified once at university they'll be lost.
I want to burn the binder they wear. Present how you want. Live how you want. Just don't hurt your own bodies.
I don't think Tom wants to be a man, whatever the hell that even means, they just don't want to be a woman.
It breaks my heart.
Marcus what you have done protects every child like Tom.