Well the thread was much more entertaining thereafter; all I'll add is that I'm awake cuddling my baby son.
I had a non invasive prenatal test when i was 11 weeks pregnant. It was just a blood test where they found some of his dna.
The unique dna code that had been formed when he was conceived. That had the code for xy, male.
Did I receive even one pink card of congratulations? No, because the gender stereotyping starts then. (Sometimes before but I'm too tired)
He's big and healthy. Would strangers ever call my big healthy daughter a 'bruiser?' No. But they do my son.
This is the problem. Rigid gender stereotypes. Like Barbie and GI Joe. Telling him he has to be and look and Wear and like certain things to fit in. He can grow up to be and do what ever he wants but he will always be male.
Gender dysphoria is very different. And very rare.