I feel sorry for any of your kids. The fact that you'd never accept them, no matter who, or what they are, suggests that many of them would be better off in care. At least they would be allowed to be themselves there
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My child has the freedom to be whoever she wants. She dresses like a boy (jeans and jumper [hmm), has short hair, likes sport and plays rugby.
She is comfortable knowing she is a girl. She understands she doesn’t have to like make up and dolls to be a girl. She understands her ability at sport and maths doesn’t make her a boy.
I feel sorry for the children of parents who are so constrained by gender stereotype that the think liking pink and glitter actually means they have a female brain. That is not allowing them to be themsleves, that is allowing them to believe their preferences make them into something they aren’t.