Reading this thread is making me go through stages of grief.
It actually breaks my heart that trans-activists think that any gender-critical woman would be happy about the revelations of this weekend.
I am so upset and angry.
I hate saying: "I told you so," in the context that our instincts were right about these dangers. Because it means an innocent person has been gravely hurt at the hands of narcissistic adults with poor judgment.
Safeguarding failures, victim-blaming, and people in power trying to minimize the gravity of the case while washing their hands of responsibility do not make me feel any form of joy. Quite the opposite. This is a tragedy in the truest sense of the word.
Thank you to all you brave posters for doing this work.
Especially amalfimamma for the dogged research, and amalfimamma and boreofwhabylon for reporting the appalling breach of anonymity...
And I agree with LangCleg - the overreaches, cover-ups and borderline-fascistic tactics of the most extremist trans activists risk provoking the ire of some very unsavoury characters on the far-right. And then trans acceptance will take many steps back. This could be a very dangerous situation. TRAs should theoretically prefer to have a talk with the mothers, lesbians, transsexuals, and middle-aged ex-Guardian readers who still wear Birkenstocks who just want to meet to ask some questions about keeping their kids safe. Not the white-supremacist uniformed violent crazy men who I fear might jump in if this escalates....