This has kept running round my head, and my position has changed.
One of the things about seriously dysfunctional families, that may be difficult to believe if you don't come from one(I do), is the power of denial, silence, secret keeping and fear.
My father was arrested, charged, found guilty, of a much less serious offence, and I knew literally nothing. Living in the same house, in my late teens. So yes, it's not impossible that Any simply didn't know. Or ,was whilst still a child, unable to go against the family narrative.. The feelings of shame and danger ,denial and fear in a dysfunctional family are such that speaking out or rocking the boat may be literally terrifying. Aimee was, remember, still a child. As an adult I've often been called brave.,by lots of different people. But I was never brave enough , as a child, to stand up or speak out about things that I knew were wrong and cruel.
I dislike nearly everything that Amie stands for and has done in relation to the trans and women debate.
But don't blame A for having a total utter depraved shit for a father. Cause that's just the straw that some of us got.
Never thought I'd be posting a defence of a transactivist. But, so he we cannot know what A knew, and we definitely know A is a victim in this situation, judgement and speculation is unseemly.