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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout

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miri1985 · 07/07/2018 12:58

twitter.com/hashtag/getthelout?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Ehashtag

www.facebook.com/346828442474237/posts/403582420132172/

These women are bloody brave, if I was wearing a hat I'd tip it to them

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R0wantrees · 07/07/2018 23:25

Gay Star News 2/7/18

"Pride events across Britain are calling for a public apology from leading LGBT charity Stonewall, GSN can exclusively reveal.

They are also demanding the charity changes its ways, with one Pride accusing it of ‘acting like the bloody LGBT police’. Other Prides accuse Stonewall of taking credit for their work but failing to support them." (continues)
www.gaystarnews.com/article/pride-stonewall-support-apology

Ofew · 07/07/2018 23:26

I wonder how many of the gay men at Pride would be happy to have sex with a transman with a vagina? Or would agree that not being happy to do so is transphobic?

The fact that we are even having to discuss this is misogyny in action, because there will never be any expectation that gay men should have sex with transmen.

FloralBunting · 07/07/2018 23:26

bespin, I'm afraid you're talking to a person who believes in absolutes. I do indeed accept that there are women who hold the philosophical belief that transwomen are women and therefore define themselves as lesbians if they sleep with a transperson with a penis.

They are wrong. The protected characteristic and therefore the legal definition of 'lesbian' is a woman attracted exclusively to her own sex. Transwomen are not of the female sex. Therefore they are not lesbians, however much pleading, coercing, wheedling or wordplay happens.

SisyphusWasGenderCritical · 07/07/2018 23:28

Wow, this is inspiring stuff.

Blythe, I think I have seen you before defending Maria and I so admire your courage.

Full coverage here and the commentary is hilarious. 'This is the front of Pride March'. Those Fucking Lesbians.

www.facebook.com/pinknews/videos/10156656388026518/

So proud, and thank you

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:29

Ofew having meet a number of men that are gay who have trans male partners I would say that there are a few. but you are going to tell me there bi so would. you tell them that if not then stop doing it on here.

ErrolTheDragon · 07/07/2018 23:29

we don't get to decide on what other people say they are

We can't decide what other people say they are. We can decide whether we believe them or not - this is where having objective definitions is vital.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:30

again FloralBunting would you tell them in real life they were not who they said they were. I am genuinely interested as a lot of people say stuff on here and then in reality don't

bd67th · 07/07/2018 23:31

Here's the tweet with the photos of the flyer in: mobile.twitter.com/isacsohn/status/1015582961020887041/

UglyCathKidstonBag · 07/07/2018 23:32

we don't get to decide on what other people say they are do we?

If it is based on fact why not?

A trans woman might identify with women, that doesn’t mean they are a woman. I have had colleagues who have patients arrive in distress swearing until they are blue in the face that they are one sex when they are the other, until it is explained to them their sex determines their treatment and could be life or death. Why do my colleagues not get to decide (what is plainly obvious) in that situation? Why do students working in the team report them for that exchange?

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 07/07/2018 23:33

your tone is very aggressive

Dont be silly

There were smiley faces and a cat for fucks sake

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 23:35

look if you want to tell other woman they are not something they say they are then that's upto you, your tone is very aggressive. if debating a point is goading then no one can debate any point you make. if you want to close a debate by not letting others have views fine

Sexual orientation is a protected characteristic under law and is defined as being based on sex.

There is no debate to be had.

WappersReturns · 07/07/2018 23:35

The story has been posted on snopes Facebook with a "this surely can't be true" caption. I've just been told in the comments that homosexuality is "at best an outdated medical term" Sad

thebewilderness · 07/07/2018 23:36

It isn't a question of telling others what they are although the TRAs do that to women constantly. It is a question of refusing to believe anything anyone tells you.
Women are under no obligations to share anyone's beliefs about themselves or anyone else.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:36

Rufustheyawningreindeer you were looking at the wrong post there 😉

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 23:37

Ofew having meet a number of men that are gay who have trans male partners I would say that there are a few. but you are going to tell me there bi so would. you tell them that if not then stop doing it on here.

Again with the homophobia, they are not gay.

FloralBunting · 07/07/2018 23:37

Oh, right. You're asking if I would challenge a woman who claimed to be a lesbian but had a male partner? That would rather depend on the context. If she confided in me that she was married to a man but was closeted, then obviously, no, I wouldn't because her circumstances clearly would be socially complicated.
But an ostensibly out woman in a relationship with a man? Yep, the eyebrow would be arched and I'd probably have a conversation about it. Because there is nothing wrong with being Bi. It's not a dirty word. There is something wrong with pretending not to be Bi for some strange inclusive kudos reason.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 23:38

This might be instructive

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout
Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout
thebewilderness · 07/07/2018 23:38

Dont be silly

There were smiley faces and a cat for fucks sake

How do I adorable you? Let me count the ways.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:44

and that woman was in a relationship with a trans woman and clearly stated to you she thought they were a woman what would. you say then?

FloralBunting · 07/07/2018 23:44

Anyway, I've stayed up way past my bedtime and I really do have to get up at six, do a 9 hour shift and then come home and do all the shitwork in the home until I collapse in to bed again, and hope that my bastard period doesn't make a surprise appearance because I've run out of the big thick pads. Because, you know, womaning is such fun. I'll check in tomorrow at some point probably.

KBO, you fabulous women!

UpstartCrow · 07/07/2018 23:45

Pack it in. You're just being goady, picking on one poster and demanding she answers a ridiculous pointless 'question'.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:47

Night FloralBunting hope work is not too bad. or hot if you remember would love to know what you wouls do.

CrustyCob · 07/07/2018 23:47

@littlebrowndog
Yep back,
I miss the Lesbian Avengers.
But good to see their spirit is still about Wink

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:48

Upstart Crow please read the thread it was a whole discussion in both directions about this topic.

Rufustheyawningreindeer · 07/07/2018 23:48

Im fairly positive that floral doesn't give a shiny shit what you would love bespin

Id put money on it Wink