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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout

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miri1985 · 07/07/2018 12:58

twitter.com/hashtag/getthelout?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Ehashtag

www.facebook.com/346828442474237/posts/403582420132172/

These women are bloody brave, if I was wearing a hat I'd tip it to them

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Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 22:51

There's a lot of pretty desperate hyperbole being churned out all over the place today. The very notion that LGBT will turn on lesbians as some kind of punishment for what was a peaceful protest is stretching things a tad, dontcha think?

This. The flailing tantrums do not surprise me, either on Twitter or MN.

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 22:58

For so long, the general public has been pressured to buy into transactivist rhetoric on the basis that they must do so in order to be 'pro lgbt'.
It's often a huge relief to know that there are lots of lesbians and gay men who don't believe it's possible to change sex.
Hopefully this protest has spread that message still further.
You don't need to agree to give up single sex spaces in order to prove you're open minded.

FloralBunting · 07/07/2018 22:58

bespin the LGB community has certainly had its fair share of intramural controversies, yes. I'm particularly familiar with the unpleasantness around Bi people.

That has bog all to do with Lesbians being able to say what being a lesbian is without fear of reprisal, coercion, etc.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 22:59

I've had a deletion, and an e-mail informing me of such, for stating that lesbians are same sex attracted, and that to attempt to redefine that is rapey and homophobic (it is.)

On this of all threads... Seriously?

Men calling themselves lesbians, labelling us "TERFs" and transphobic because we are not attracted to them, threatening us with rape, murder, sexual assault, telling us to go and die, as well as inciting all of that against us, all because we are not attracted to men, is rape culture ffs.

This is the feminism board on a site aimed at women.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:01

FloralBunting there are lots of lesbians who identify as such who have slept with trans woman does that invalidate there identify do they have to turn in there lesbian badge or can they continue to identify as lesbians

UpstartCrow · 07/07/2018 23:02

Lesbian is not an identity. And it is a protected characteristic.

thebewilderness · 07/07/2018 23:03

Their identity is just as valid as the men who identify as "nice guys", bespin.
I should think you would know that.

littlbrowndog · 07/07/2018 23:03

Nopes bespin. Badges turned in.

Address. Later to where they must return them

thebewilderness · 07/07/2018 23:03

Lesbian is not an identity. And it is a protected characteristic.
A fact which the TRAs at Pride seem to have forgotten.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 23:05

FloralBunting there are lots of lesbians who identify as such who have slept with trans woman does that invalidate there identify do they have to turn in there lesbian badge or can they continue to identify as lesbians

A lesbian is a female homosexual.

Transowmen are male, so any woman dating or sleeping with one isn't a lesbian.

You've just shown yourself to be every bit as bad as all the other TRAs. Take your homophobia elsewhere.

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:07

Lesbian is not an identity when you tell someone you are something you identify as it to them this does not change who you are.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 23:07

Handing out leaflets that explicitly accuse the trans movement and LGBT politics of coercing lesbians to have sex with men (not just some nasty TRAs mind, the whole trans movement) and that refer to ' so-called "trans women" ' at the very front of a parade intended to celebrate inclusivity and diversity seems calculated to cause maximum negative publicity.

Very few transwomen speak out against this behaviour.

Both Stonewall and Diva magazine, plus countless other LGBT organisations and groups all say men can be lesbians.

littlbrowndog · 07/07/2018 23:07

The bespin is just doing the goading tbh 😎😎🐈

littlbrowndog · 07/07/2018 23:08

The identity goading 😎😎🐈

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:11

look if you want to tell other woman they are not something they say they are then that's upto you, your tone is very aggressive. if debating a point is goading then no one can debate any point you make. if you want to close a debate by not letting others have views fine.

CrustyCob · 07/07/2018 23:12

Pride has ceased to be a radical gathering definitely.

I've been going for decades, and seen it commercialised and hijacked.

Young Lesbians shout out about the constant harassment they face, and the vitriol shown against them, speaks volumes to me, about what is really going on.

Lesbians being required to have leaflets vetted on a Pride March. FFS.
Thought police or what?

What a load of bollocks, literally.

I'm all for a #GetThe L out demonstration.

pachyderm · 07/07/2018 23:15

Bespin, as Datun says, words have meanings. A man is not a woman. A woman who has sex with a man is not a lesbian. You do not get to redefine words like "woman' and "lesbian" to suit yourself.

littlbrowndog · 07/07/2018 23:16

Who u speaking to bespin ?

FloralBunting · 07/07/2018 23:17

I think everyone else has answered adequately, bespin. Lesbian is not a 'lifestyle choice'. I used to think I was a lesbian, because I only fancied women, and was hugely conflicted over the matter, especially when I became religious.
But in my latter years I have been attracted to some men, so I don't stubbornly cling to the lesbian label because it's no longer accurate. It would, in fact, be a harmful lie to call myself a lesbian when I would quite happily roll around all night with Aidan Turner as Mitchell the vampire as easily as I would do the same with Heather Peace.

Sexuality is exclusionary. Homosexuality is exclusionary. Lesbians don't do penis. It's the definition of the orientation. It's not a secret club, just like woman is not a secret club. You don't find the secret password and get in. You are... Or you aren't.

SuperDandy · 07/07/2018 23:18

Eresh I'm really not in cahoots with any friends, real or imaginary, it's all my own work. You can keep levelling anti-women at me, but that does not make it true.

I'm simply saying that if you (as in the protesters) head out with a leaflet that uses the term "so-called 'trans women' " for a parade intended to celebrate trans people as part of the pride gang then you are offering yourselves up to be referred to as transphobic.

Likewise throwing a whole movement into a strong accusation of coercing sex, when the message I keep seeing again and again here is that it's just the TRAs or AGPs you're angry with and concerned about. It doesn't make sense, and it's not surprising to see it getting negative coverage.

I would have the same opinion if it were male protesters.

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout
Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:20

but can you except that other people do see trans woman as woman and therefore there difiniton of themselves is correct to them even if you don't think it is we don't get to decide on what other people say they are do we?

R0wantrees · 07/07/2018 23:20

Independent article:
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"A spokesperson from the Metropolitan Police said: "A small group at the front of the Pride in London parade were dealt with quickly and safely by event organisers at 1pm on Saturday. Police did not need to intervene. No arrests were made."

One of the protesters told LGBT outlet PinkNews: “We want to get the L out of Pride, a man cannot be a lesbian, a person with a penis cannot be a lesbian.”

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/anti-trans-protest-london-pride-parade-lgbt-gay-2018-march-lesbian-gay-rights-a8436506.html

thebewilderness · 07/07/2018 23:21

I do not think the people who wrote the leaflet are the only one who do not agree with Stonewall that cross dressers and fetishists are actually gender reassigned.

littlbrowndog · 07/07/2018 23:22

Yeps. Crusty. They sold their souls out t9 the corporates

Bespin · 07/07/2018 23:23

littlbrowndog I hope we can all agree in that bit