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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout

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miri1985 · 07/07/2018 12:58

twitter.com/hashtag/getthelout?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Ehashtag

www.facebook.com/346828442474237/posts/403582420132172/

These women are bloody brave, if I was wearing a hat I'd tip it to them

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Moonkissedlegs · 07/07/2018 17:09

Trans women are women. Trans women who are only attracted to other women are lesbians. Lesbians who sleep with trans women are still lesbians.

Nope. Nope. And erm... nope.

Repeating something over and over doesn't make it true.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:09

You've got to love the irony, if nothing else.

Classic TRA reversal. As predictable as night and day.

Linning · 07/07/2018 17:10

@YourMajestyJ

Sigh. if you are going to quote me at least quote the full sentence, instead of picking the bits that suit you.

@SuperLoudPoppingAction

I agree but it doesn't mean people don't feel that way. A lot will say it's just "what they are attracted to", and in a way I can kind of understand it (I mostly date caucasians myself, though of course wouldn't rule out anybody else), it's interesting though because I wonder how much of our attractions is rooted to the environment we grew up in. I grew up in Europe in a very white environment and I wonder if my main attraction to caucasian is linked to that, and having grown up with the (low-key enforced idea) that white is "the goal". I have had some interesting chats with girls I have been on dates with about that and it does seem like people have a pattern regarding who they date (most girls who go on dates with me have been almost exclusively, or exclusively in interracial relationship for example).

So I do think our "tastes" and what we are "into" are probably rooted learnt behaviours instead of actual personal tastes and preferences.

HerFemaleness · 07/07/2018 17:11

Yy to this. Interesting how some posters continue to dance around this.

Indeed. You either accept and acknowledge that lesbians are same sex attracted, i.e they're females who are attracted to other females. Or you're a homophobe.

Agerbilatemycardigan · 07/07/2018 17:11

Have been following it on Twitter. Anne Ruzylo was there and was tweeting.

They were told to leave, they refused, so lay in the road for 10 minutes. Then told they could 'join in' at a distance

LangCleg · 07/07/2018 17:11

And believe it if PN could have pretended more people supported it they would have done. But that was beyond even their levels of disingenuous misleading spin.

Indeed. Remember the days upon days of criticising the wording of the Wings Over Scotland poll that got a 25% assent rate? Just a few months of increased public awareness later, Pink News couldn't even manage wording to beat it. And I'm sure we all know that they would have if they could have. Public support, never high to begin with, is in a death spiral.

NotTerfNorCis · 07/07/2018 17:11

sweetlouise3/dinosaurs If the rest of the world support trans ideology how come 82% in a recent poll commissioned by Pink News said they don't support self id? And that was in Britain, a liberal country.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:11

Nope they are bisexual or pansexual.

Not sure why I am even acknowledging "pansexual" as a thing. Bisexual obvs. Check me into the nearest gaslighting deprogramming centre!

Datun · 07/07/2018 17:12

You’re a minority, you realise? Obsess in your previous forum as much as you like, the law is developing without you. No one cares what you think.

I wish that was true. Because then they wouldn't try and shut us up.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 17:13

Sigh. if you are going to quote me at least quote the full sentence, instead of picking the bits that suit you.

You're not sure if you would date a male or not. There was no need to quote the rest to point out that you're not a lesbian.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:13

Ooh really NotTerfnotCis? 🍿

Jollygrandma · 07/07/2018 17:14

So proud of my courageous Lesbian sisters. Wish I could have been there.

TellsEveryoneRealFacts · 07/07/2018 17:17

i mean you couldn't make it up...

Lesbian women displayed signs that define lesbian women, and were told to take them down at the lesbian, gay and bisexual march in case they upset the straight men who want to pretend to be lesbian women.

Aye right.

Agerbilatemycardigan · 07/07/2018 17:17

dinosaursandtea

See you frothing like that and seething with rage tells women all they need to know. We don't want that kind of sentiment around us when we're naked!

Or even when we're fully clothed

NotTerfNorCis · 07/07/2018 17:17

Ereshkigal Yes they headlined it as only 13% of Conservative voters support self id but the reality was 18% of the population supported it, so 82% don't!

Halfeatentoast · 07/07/2018 17:17

Wow! Amazing!

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 17:18

implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/uk/ This is a good set of tests of implicit bias.

I personally, as a white person, don't think it would be good enough to just accept myself as racist. I would prefer to unpick any hateful thoughts that were in my head.

I'm totally fine with other forms of bias eg a bias against going out with a man, or an overly feminine woman - those don't harm anyone. I feel like racism is a harmful set of ideas for me to go about with, as a (mostly) white person.

I don't think it's the same issue if someone who isn't white has race-based preferences but I would tend to agree that it would probably come from society rather than something innate.

PlectrumElectrum · 07/07/2018 17:27

You’re so fucking desperate to be the most oppressed that you can’t see you’ve become the oppressors.

DARVO I believe.

rinabean · 07/07/2018 17:27

These women are brave and they're making a difference. We wouldn't be seeing such a response from misogynist homophobes if they weren't doing something powerful that might put a halt to their lesbophobia.

Nobody makes such a fuss about people who really are "losing"!

pachyderm · 07/07/2018 17:31

I cannot believe the fucking idiocy and abuse I've seen on social media, from straight women* thinking they can lecture lesbians on inclusivity. The treachery of it is appalling. And the stupidity.

CosmicCanary · 07/07/2018 17:32

Oh pride!

If your pride does not include lebians then there is nothing to be proud about.

Linning · 07/07/2018 17:33

YourMajestyJ

I would not date someone with a penis, but yes I would consider anyone who has a vagina, if I was attracted to them.

Sorry if I annoy you and keep on calling myself whatever I want but do feel free to go in the streets and protest against me, I also happen to refer to myself as 'cis' sometimes, so you might want to get offended about that too and add that to your banners (just an idea) ;)

@SuperLoudPoppingAction

I will look it up, thank you!

I think this topic is a tricky one, because most people who have a preference for a certain race, will not consider themselves racists as a lot of them genuinely have no bias against other ethnicities (that they are aware of) in any other aspect of their life. They do not believe black people are an under race or that white people are better than black people, they just don't find themselves attracted to black people and a lot of them will also not be attracted to other features, blond hair for example so they won't think there is any difference between not being into blondes and not being being into "black".

I have to admit though, that even as a person of colour, it is hard for me to actually dissociate and figure out if it's actually racist not to be into black people or if in fact not being into blondes and not being into black is similar.

That's why I don't feel offended or think badly of someone who wouldn't be into me based on my skin color.

So yeah, interesting topic but complicated one too!

ILikeyourHairyHands · 07/07/2018 17:36

If trans women's penises are all womanly-like, and lesbian friendly, why can't they just play with each-other's lady-peen, in a lesbian way?

'Cause you don't really see much of that do You?

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 07/07/2018 17:36

You bigoted pieces of shit.

Nothing like a bit of reasoned argument, eh, Dinosaur? I hope MN let your post stand. So illustrative.

Mogleflop · 07/07/2018 17:38

Men have wanted to fuck lesbians since the dawn of time, and now some of them have found a way - while destroying people who object at the same time.

This isn't progressive. It's homophobic.

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