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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lesbians protest at London Pride #getthelout

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miri1985 · 07/07/2018 12:58

twitter.com/hashtag/getthelout?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Ehashtag

www.facebook.com/346828442474237/posts/403582420132172/

These women are bloody brave, if I was wearing a hat I'd tip it to them

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YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 16:56

I have said in my first post that I have no idea whether or not I would date a (post op) trans person myself

I missed that. So you're not a lesbian.

PlectrumElectrum · 07/07/2018 16:56

All it needs is a collective understanding that lesbian means same-sex attraction.

Yy to this. Interesting how some posters continue to dance around this.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 16:57

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 16:58

See, now, I think it is racist to outright refuse to consider a woman of colour as a partner, if you're a lesbian. Because women of colour are a subset of women.

It's different from butch/femme to me. Butch is about how you present yourself to a degree. Being a woman of colour is immutable. Like being a woman is immutable.

I just can't imagine saying 'ok only white women for me' - I'd find it bizarre. A woman of colour might be tall or short. She might be curvy or slim. She might be a feminist or not. She might be left-wing. She's not somehow on the 'undatable' list because of her melanin quotient.

CosmicCanary · 07/07/2018 16:59

Woop woop

We did it!!!!

SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 16:59

lesbian = adult human female

not hate speech

hth

Datun · 07/07/2018 17:00

Again, pressuring anyone into doing something they don't want to do is NOT okay, there is no arguing that, and nobody would say the opposite (or at least certainly not me).

I hear what you're saying Linning and this may be me being pedantic, but I'm not hearing you say that lesbians can refuse to date every transwoman on the planet, on the basis that lesbianism is same sex attraction.

This might not be what you are doing, but I have heard too many mealy mouthed people say that refusing sex with someone is fine, but the implication is that it's on an individual basis.

That's not what lesbianism is. It's discriminating against men and transwomen on the basis that they are a different sex.

This is the problem with claiming that men can be women. It fucks over every single sexual orientation, including heterosexuality.

That has to be a line in the sand. And sexual orientation is it.

prawn

I think Fairy has been banned.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:01

Oh dinosaurs. You don't like women standing up for themselves do you? I hope they don't ban you, your posts are gold.

CosmicCanary · 07/07/2018 17:01

Sorry dino did you say sonething?

dinosaursandtea · 07/07/2018 17:02

Trans women are women. Trans women who are only attracted to other women are lesbians. Lesbians who sleep with trans women are still lesbians.

You’re a minority, you realise? Obsess in your previous forum as much as you like, the law is developing without you. No one cares what you think.

LangCleg · 07/07/2018 17:02

A lesbian is a female homosexual. Lesbians collectively make up a class of human beings defined by their sexual orientation. It has nothing to do with identity.

Everybody, everywhere, every time, can refuse sex with anyone they like. This is called consent. This is called preference. This is an individual thing and it is fine. But it has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Sexual orientation = preference.

If you are not a female human being whose sexual orientation is exclusive to other female human beings, you are not a lesbian. You can't appropriate a sexual orientation as an identity.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:02

All it needs is a collective understanding that lesbian means same-sex attraction.

That's it.

Anyone who is trans can come out to say that on their social media.

This.

YourMajestyJ · 07/07/2018 17:03

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LangCleg · 07/07/2018 17:04

You’re a minority, you realise? Obsess in your previous forum as much as you like, the law is developing without you. No one cares what you think.

Actually, "your side" (how childish that we are reduced to this) comprises 18% of the population. Even Pink News says so.

TransplantsArePlants · 07/07/2018 17:04

dinosaurs

If you say so, it simply must be true

TopBitchoftheWitches · 07/07/2018 17:06

Dinosaurs

Explain to me how science is wrong?

I keep waiting for an explanation.

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 07/07/2018 17:06

I think a lot of lesbians who don't see an issue with this are lesbians who are comfortable with a feminine identity.
I am a feminist. I see femininity as part of our oppression as women. It's important for me to live a life adopting as little of that as possible - just what's needed for me to survive.
If someone tells me my being a lesbian means I'm a feminine human who likes other feminine humans, I feel like this describes David Bowie more accurately than it describes me.

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:07

Trans women who are only attracted to other women are lesbians.

Nope. They are straight.

Lesbians who sleep with trans women are still lesbians.

Nope they are bisexual or pansexual.

LunaTrap · 07/07/2018 17:07

Dinosaurs why do you continue to persist in misgendering the great deal of transwomen who acknowledge they are not actual women? You constantly deny their identity.

Sarahconnor1 · 07/07/2018 17:08

You’re so fucking desperate to be the most oppressed that you can’t see you’ve become the oppressors

You've got to love the irony, if nothing else.

Datun · 07/07/2018 17:08

dinosaursandtea

See you frothing like that and seething with rage tells women all they need to know. We don't want that kind of sentiment around us when we're naked!

Ereshkigal · 07/07/2018 17:08

Even Pink News says so.

And believe it if PN could have pretended more people supported it they would have done. But that was beyond even their levels of disingenuous misleading spin.