@Datun
Except I have just said the opposite and that nobody should feel pressured to have sex with anyone they do not want to have sex with.
Of course lesbians/women/men have the right to refuse sex and to date anyone they do not fancy being with. I am a woman of color, I am well aware that it is a turn off for some. Does that make those people racist? no. it just means they aren't into me, and it's okay, they don't have to be. People can refuse to date anyone they don't want to date for whatever reason they see fit personally.
I have said in my first post that I have no idea whether or not I would date a (post op) trans person myself (the same way I am not sure I could date a butch lady etc...) , and I definitely wouldn't let anyone pressure me to, if I wasn't 100% confident that it is something I want to do/that I like the person.
So I would never tell women who to or not to date.
Again, pressuring anyone into doing something they don't want to do is NOT okay, there is no arguing that, and nobody would say the opposite (or at least certainly not me).