I can't believe this thread, and that I'm reading it on Mumsnet.
Why are people sending each other PMs by the way, surely MNHQ can and will just read them? So is not secret really.
Wherever this other place is, it's going to be compromised pretty soon. Do you know who the Mods are...? I mean, you do know that they lock threads on here when women talk about being women - which I can't actually see why we aren't entitled to do since every day on Twitter and other boards, bile against women is uttered and there doesn't seem to be anyone saying hmmm, stop repeating yourselves.
I can't think of an explanation as to why in the face of all that, women aren't entitled to be fed up and repeat a mantra against it.
I'm not sure it makes sense any longer to keep Feminism section open. Reminds me a bit of that "ok you women have talked long enough, shut up now I want to watch the telly" kind of thing. There are lots of people out there who don't like women talking.
Such a shame this is all lumped together. I'm anti Self-ID but not anti-Trans.
As a black woman I'm also sick of Self-IDs aiming to co-opt our terms, our struggles, referencing us as if they give a shit what we go through or have ever stood in solidarity with us. As if we are a subset of women and won't be affected by all this. Just fodder for their "right on" soundbites
The entitled arrogance and privilege is astonishing.
I would never say a Transwoman who has transitioned is not a woman. I do believe some of us are born in the wrong body as it were, and if they want to correct that in order to be happy then its their absolute right
But I'm not going to be silly and lie in the emperor's new clothes style, that a man dressed as a woman who thinks he is a woman today, is a woman.
How would I even be able to tell the difference anyway...? They could be a drag queen for all I know.
Let Self-IDs campaign for their own spaces.
According to SIL, who is Trans, she feels endangered by the aggression of the privileged few who want to rule the many on this subject, and are troublemakers. It's not biological women shes bothered by, and I understand entirely why.
Having said all that I don't feel women will come out the losers in this eventually. I'd like to think most people out there have common sense. You can't tell people blue is yellow and force them to believe it, you'll get folks backs up and there'll be a backlash.
Many of us have had to fight for our spaces. Let Self-IDs fight for their own.
I'm thinking about the whole civil rights movement today. It was never about removing people, it was about fighting for human rights, and space. The engineered madness of today, this 'move over so others can take your place' attitude..I can't fathom at all why despite it being so wrong, there's such a huge effort by the many led by the few, to condone it.
How have people been so easily and steadily manipulated? Strange.
FWIW I'm not sure I'd blame MN entirely for all that's happening on this board because it's pretty apparent they're not pulling the strings, they're being controlled and it won't be by a woman that's for sure