Here you go @OvaHere.
I've never talked identity politics or feminism with this particular friend, so I replied saying "I find it absolutely amazing that at Brighton Pride, the poster doesn't have the words "lesbian", "gay" or "bisexual", but there you go. I'm actually not represented in the people that are welcome there! Pride has definitely changed beyond all recognition."
I was wondering how she'd react, as we've never really talked politics, but she agreed with me and said she didn't feel represented or at all - she's also a lesbian. I think we need to have a little gender critical chat, me and her!