R0wantrees - And it IS important. And lucrative.
Don't doubt that if there was a potential financial loss for MN, the 'debate' would be shut down.
And that's not a criticism of MNHQ, it's business.
MN is hugely influential www.mumsnet.com/info/influencers
MN has run numerous successful public campaigns on issues primarily concerning women. They won't run a campaign apposing self ID because it could result in negative publicity and financial loss.
The ideal situation for MN is what they're doing now. That's what a very publically visible and influential business does if they have any sense.
I like MNHQ. I respect the owners and their business. I don't feel I have any 'say' in how it is run (lots of MNetters think differently). I don't have to be here, it would be no loss to MN if I wasn't.
So in being here, I am accepting their practices, views and the decisions they make.
But I can't believe that any company inviting Paris Lees as a guest at their blogfest has the interest of feminists or women in mind. Particularly as SO many posters objected and were basically told that they could like it or leave. Which is true (and I agree with MNHQ stance on complaints about how the site is run, it's free. We don't have to be here. It isn't 'our safe space' or any space that we should feel a sense of ownership over. We don't.)
But to now suggest MN is some bastion of womens rights is just inaccurate.
On an individual basis in terms of staff they may share some views, but as a business, they are motivated by money and publicity (which raises money) - as any business has to be.