Many of you are not happy with the law as it currently stands and some have suggested that trans women should never be legally recognised as women. You say this goes against biological fact. This is a position I could never back as a 'trans inclusionary' feminist.
I am indeed one of those people who is not happy with the law as it currently stands.
'Transitioning' is a lie. It is a lie that can help people dysphoric people, but it is still a lie.
I believe that people should be truthful before the law, truthful when competing in sports, truthful in positions of responsibility truthful when making applications and claims.
I think you perfectly and your mates are perfectly entitled to play along with lies to make each other happy, but I don't believe you and your mates are entitled to push others into playing along, or to make the world less fair by competing unfairly in sports, unfairly taking positions of trust, responsibility or representation, making unfair claims to services and support or unfairly using facilities designated for others.
In order to be fair and trans at the same time, individuals who insist on preserving the lie for their own wellbeing (ie never having their actual sex recognised or mentioned or participating accordingly) need to forgo competitive sports, jobs involving performing body searches, intimate examinations, personal care or supporting vulnerable people, forgo using toilets designated for either sex, avoid breaking the law and forgo applying for sex specific services and funding.
I want to protect and strengthen women's rights, services and protections for all females (including those who identify as trans) and that is why I am a feminist.