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Liliy Madigan

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dinosaursandtea · 05/12/2017 12:59

She's taking a Twitter break for her mental health because of the level of abuse she's receiving. She's a teenage girl, FFS - and even if you think she's a teenage boy, in what world does a 19 year old deserve this amount of bullying?

I hope you're all fucking happy now.

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terfing · 05/12/2017 14:00

I'm sick of all the "plopping" on trans threads, i.e. The posters like the op who come and call us all nasty bullies, but then do not actually stay and debate!

ArcheryAnnie · 05/12/2017 14:06

@dinosaursandtea why does Lily's alleged mental distress matter, but ours doesn't? Why are women told to suck it up and deal, but we all have to tiptoe around someone who has stood for public office?

I dare you, watch this video of Helen Steel talking about how male violence has affected her life, and then come back and tell me why Lily's feelings matter but women's don't. I dare you.

KatherinaMinola · 05/12/2017 14:06

Either Lily is a capable adult who is suited to a position in politics and public life or a poor, vulnerable teenager who isn't

Yes, this. The tweets I've seen have been robustly critical rather than hateful or threatening.

You can't do shit-stirring of this magnitude and not expect a little criticism, IMO.

But the last I saw of it, Madigan was feeling "fabulous" again, so no harm done.

KatherinaMinola · 05/12/2017 14:09

This tweet did make me laugh though (re Madigan comparing himself to Rosa Parks):

just like Rosa Parks if instead of a bus in Jim Crow era Alabama it's a modern day north-bound Bakerloo line train and instead of a black woman being abused by whites it's an able-bodied, suited white man in a priority seat with a pregnant woman stood right in front of him

Gileswithachainsaw · 05/12/2017 14:12

So many layers of wrong here. The fact that Tris Osborne is publicly goading both sides of this is also very worrying

Don't get me started on that guy eitger I've been checking the Twitter page and all he has done is ignore the questions just like Lily of course.

No one has an answer about the prison thing for example.

Case by case basis? Either they are women or they aren't ffs

Seems it's all about the solidarity roses Hmm

All people have done is ask reasonable and quite obvious questions and yet again people are just yelling transphobe/bigot etc

Ironically we'd all be willing to listen if there were actual answers and facts...

Yellowrose87 · 05/12/2017 14:17

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ReanimatedSGB · 05/12/2017 14:18

There's a bit of me thinking 'Oh, poor little sod' - but that's partly because I think Madigan is being used, quite ruthlessly; probably does have a few MH issues, and really isn't clever enough to cope with public office. Not many teenagers are (Mhairi Black is a wonderful exception, but people like her are really rare.)

But I also think, well, I've met a lot of student politicos who behave like this, over the years. Noisy, attention-seeking, self-righteous and very keen to go after anyone who puts even a slightly different point of view - but collapses into wailing if an opponent dares to push back. Lessons all student politicos need to learn include: don't dish it out and not expect to get some back.

Datun · 05/12/2017 14:20

Lily’s friends are saying to women, respectively, women you lose, and calling then bitches and cows, and all manner of disgusting things.

A rape survivor urged Lily to stop leaving kisses of the end of all his tweets as, women don’t do that in a professional capacity, lest they be accused of inciting harassment.

The poster was denied a voice due to being a bigoted terf. Lily said they don’t listen to bigots.

He went on to say he can’t wait to get hold of all that ‘pretty contact data’ of women’s emails and names and addresses, tomorrow, that he officially has access to as women’s officer. Because he now has ‘all the power’.

Lily said he was taking a break from Twitter because ‘I’m fabulous and need to continue being so’.

Lily is ill equipped and foolish. But a fool who has been sanctioned and promoted by adult men to represent women.

Lily is wholly accountable for his own actions, whilst he remains in his position.

If Lily can’t cope because he has occupied a position for which he is entirely unsuited, he needs to step down.

Do not give a misogynistic twit of a man power over women and then have the bloody nerve to complain when they object.

sausagepastapot · 05/12/2017 14:21

What can we realistically do about this twat? He isn't open to discussion at all and is just blocking and/or branding anyone who asks questions or states facts as a TERF or transphobe!

"Fabulous'?! Do you, or any woman you know use this term to describe yourself?!

Does anyone know how we can formally express our disgust at this bozo's damaging actions?

catgirl1976 · 05/12/2017 14:21

I do actually think Lily is a vulnerable teenager. I don't want her to be bullied despite her appalling behaviour simply because she is 19. (I'm also fine with using her preferred name and pro nouns just because I'm polite. I'd like to see that respect returned and not be called a TERF or CIS, but hey ho...teenagers)

However I don't accept that Lily is a biological woman.

I don't accept that Lily has lived experience of being a woman.

I don't accept that Lily has women's best interests at heart.

I don't accept that Lily is suitable to represent women in the Labour Party. Not by sex, not by age and not be experience.

I don't accept the Labour Party refusing to hear the concerns of women

I don't accept being called a TERF or a transphobe for speaking out

I don't accept being called CIS

I don't accept an experienced Labour member being bullied out of her position at the behest of Lilly and friends

I don't accept Lily threatening women and doxxing rape victims on social media.

I don't accept the shutting down of debate and the silencing of women

I don't accept that appeals to biology are anti-feminist

I don't accept that we should be re-enforcing gender roles (we should be erasing them)

I don't accept that the current extreme trans agenda is not mysogynistic

I don't accept that it isn't homophobic either

I don't accept that lesbians are bigots if they won't date people with penises.

I don't accept that sex segregation is not right and necessary in some situations

I don't accept that TRAs want access to women spaces on grounds of safety (largely because opening them up to identity rather than biological sex renders them unsafe so this makes no sense at all)

I don't accept the extreme transagenda is progressive - it is fundamentally regressive.

I don't accept irreversible medical procedures being carried out on young children

I don't accept "woman" being reduced to offensive stereotypes around wearing dresses and make up

I just don't.

MentholBreeze · 05/12/2017 14:24

He went on to say he can’t wait to get hold of all that ‘pretty contact data’ of women’s emails and names and addresses, tomorrow, that he officially has access to as women’s officer. Because he now has ‘all the power’.

That sounds very dodgy - mis-use of data is serious, someone needs to have a word with that boy and tell him that the information commissioner doesn't take kindly to that sort of thing.

Sentimentallentil · 05/12/2017 14:25

Totally agree Catgirl

53rdWay · 05/12/2017 14:25

She responded by saying she didn't start representing "them" until tomorrow and would then get her hands on "all that pretty contact data" (e.g the personal data of women who disagreed with her.

Shock Are there screenshots of this? That’s appalling.

I get the impression Lily is a fairly vulnerable teenager who is way way out of his depth here. I don’t think anyone should be bullying him. But definitely Lily should not be enabled to bully and threaten others either, and Labour needs to ask itself some serious questions on why it feels like using a 19-year-old as some pioneering test case here is in any way appropriate too.

hipsterfun · 05/12/2017 14:26

Social media flouncing makes a person look like a bit of a dick, tbh.

Datun · 05/12/2017 14:26

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ArcheryAnnie · 05/12/2017 14:27

This poor girl might end up harming herself.

@Yellowrose87 where were you when Lily bullied a lesbian out of her position? Where were you when Lily was making rape jokes? Where were you when Lily was threatening to doxx women as soon as Lily got her hands on Labour Party confidential data?

Why is Lily's mental health precious but the mental health of the women Lily attacks isn't?

I don't want Lily - or anyone else - to feel bad about themselves. But when you have a grown adult in a position of power, lawyered up and with the support of other people in positions of power (because this is what Lily is, not a "poor girl") attacking women on social media, then criticising her actions is a perfectly legitimate thing to do.

MrGHardy · 05/12/2017 14:27

Please stop. I can’t handle it anymore. I’m so mentally distressed that I can’t sleep or eat or go to school. No one deserves this. There’s only so many times I can read lies or my deadname or misgendering. I’m just a teenager. Please just stop. I don’t want to do this anymore.

Fantastic, actually stay off of twitter and resign your role and concentrate on your studies. Win win for all.

ArcheryAnnie · 05/12/2017 14:28

NB: although I said "her". I do not believe Lily is female in any way.

catgirl1976 · 05/12/2017 14:29

Lily's threatening tweets can be found here

twitter.com/justjane12345/status/937944193997131776

You can tweet @uklabour to complain or you can go on their website for the Head Office phone number or the email for your regional branch to complain.

Sentimentallentil · 05/12/2017 14:30

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Datun · 05/12/2017 14:31

shock Are there screenshots of this? That’s appalling.

Yes. The disgusting misogynistic ramblings of the friend who was complicit in hounding Anne out of her post were sent to the Labour Party.

( about him using prostitutes saying he wants to hit that pussy re random women etc).

The response was that because they are not recent (three or four years ago), they’re not relevant.

Datun · 05/12/2017 14:37

Lily just found that he can’t simply shut women up by calling them bigots.

So he is instantly defaulting to the whining why are you being so mean stance of transactivists everywhere.

It’s a faslight of quite spectacularly floodlit proportions to know that the number one problem women have with him is that he is a man and deciding that saying so means he won’t talk to you because you are bigoted.

nauticant · 05/12/2017 14:41

Didn't Lilly bully the previous jobholder out of her position with a campaign?

No, that's incorrect. This is an assumption people reached and it gets repeatedly endlessly. The position made vacant was not the one Lily Madigan was elected to. They're not suited to the one they got but that's a separate matter.

Sentimentallentil · 05/12/2017 14:41

Well the original poster didn’t come back, now there’s a surprise.

MrGHardy · 05/12/2017 14:42

catgirl your link is too good to be true. Lily is mansplaining rape and harassment to a woman working in that area. No satire could write a better script.