However being a guy, and wearing womens clothes..is a crossdresser, not trans? I wonder sometimes if some of this recent 'trend' to be trans is people feeling ashamed to admit they like to crossdress
I think being a male cross dresser must be extremely hard except for the few flamboyant types like Grayson Perry, Andrew O'Neill and in his heyday Boy George (bless his little cotton socks)
I recall a thread when I first joined MN which was generally pretty unsympathetic (although to be fair the man in question sounded a nightmare no matter what he was wearing) and other threads not particularly sympathetic. (Except of course, small boys in Disney dresses)
I've also noticed a move towards being far more accommodating and sympathetic to cross dressing men.