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Trans people to be JAILED in Alabama town if they go to "the wrong toilet"

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katmanwho · 28/04/2016 16:53

Unbelievable. There has been a lot of hate recently in North Carolina with the bathroom bill. But this has got a lot worse. [ www.al.com/news/anniston-gadsden/index.ssf/2016/04/oxford_passes_law_aimed_at_tar.html]

So a transwoman will have to go the male bathroom. A transman in the female one. There's been cases of butch women being hassled already in female toilets.

Oh - and if you're in North Carolina and witness someone who you think is in the wrong bathroom, you can call the hotline.

Meanwhile, a convicted sex offender (who is also Ex Republican House Speaker) is allowed to go the male bathroom with boys.

The only good thing about this bill is that it's made people react to the discrimination and to show that many people think this is discrimination. Just like in the 60s. Apparently trans people are sexual deviants.

This is the real effect of hate.

Trans people to be JAILED in Alabama town if they go to "the wrong toilet"
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user7755 · 28/04/2016 19:48

What I am supporting is for people to be open minded and sensible, not to buy into the sort of hysteria that taking a few cases and quoting them as though they are common place causes.

I'm supporting equal rights for people, regardless of gender or identity.

Just as difficult situations are managed in other settings, a tricky situation like those you describe could also be managed, through environmental organisational and relational approaches.

(and I don't know why I didn't just hide this like I normally do with trans threads because they are so ridiculous, and now I'm out)

ApocalypseSlough · 28/04/2016 19:49

Penny Flowers
It's so close to home isn't it.
User my take on it is not so much that there are predatory transwomen, rather there are predatory men who would pretend to be trans.

claraschu · 28/04/2016 19:49

How can they tell what genitals people have?

I have been called "sir" many times, because I have small breasts, dress in jeans and sweatshirts, and don't wear makeup.

exWifebeginsat40 · 28/04/2016 19:52

how is it that people currently know anything about the genitals of someone using the same public loo? and how do you propose this is policed going forwards?

and are we really simplifying men to the extent that they are all incipient sex offenders and predatory to the extent of gaining entry to women's toilets?

OddBoots · 28/04/2016 19:52

Given the state of American toilet doors I'd imagine this is an even bigger concern there.

MailonlineEffOff · 28/04/2016 19:53

Equality can be four types of loo, standard male, standard female, disabled and unigender. Why does equality have to impinge on one groups rights when a fourth space is the answer?

PinkyOfPie · 28/04/2016 19:54

If people really can't see this is men taking yet more rights and spaces away from women, and having the 'protection' of being trans (therefore anyone who reasonably objects is labelled a bigot) I really can't help you. I can't believe people are allowing men to ride roughshod over women's rights and feelings so easily.

exWifebeginsat40 · 28/04/2016 19:54

falsely gaining entry to women's loos, I mean

scatterolight · 28/04/2016 19:55

Surely the end point here is that we're going to end up with 4 categories of public bathrooms? Men, Women, Trans Men and Trans Women. There is just no other solution. Would the trans lobby be happy with this or would they find something about it to be offended by?

PennyDreadfuI · 28/04/2016 20:04

You're not supporting equal rights though, are you, user. If that were the case, you'd be fine with a safe (toilet) space for transwomen, just as women have. So, a transwomen toilet. What you're supporting is women having to share private, safe spaces with men, against their wishes. How exactly is that equal?

Mind you, this is coming from someone who thinks that men living in women's refuges is no more than a tricky situation. Would you like to go to your local refuge right now and tell the frightened women and children there to quit it with the hysteria when you say that men will be joining them?

MailonlineEffOff · 28/04/2016 20:05

There are so many types of gender, I think there needs to be a gender mixed loo. The rest of us can use a male, female and disabled loo as usual. Like people with disabilities folk, the various gender folk will have to queue up when more than one comes along at once.

Toria2014 · 28/04/2016 20:06

Did I just see what I thought I saw?! A bloke with a beard and presumably a penis saying that he is a woman????

And people are so eager to be seen to be tolerant they are falling over themselves to accept it?!!

Has the world gone fucking mad!!! Shock

Its like the Emperor's New Clothes. Fucking ridiculous.

PennyDreadfuI · 28/04/2016 20:10

Toria that's EXACTLY what you saw. And yes, he has a penis.

And we're bigots if we don't want to share a toilet/communal changing room with him and 'women' like him, apparently Confused

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2016 20:14

toria - yes

And stonewall transgender adviser and "lesbian" Alex Drummond

And here's paedophile rapist "Davina" Ayrton

I don't believe that any of the right on "live and let live" types would actually think "there's a woman, just like me" if they saw either of those naked in their changing rooms or showers, or next to them in a hospital ward.

Trans people to be JAILED in Alabama town if they go to "the wrong toilet"
Trans people to be JAILED in Alabama town if they go to "the wrong toilet"
PinkyOfPie · 28/04/2016 20:21

Interestingly the women falling over themselves to welcome men into safe spaces never consider that the NHS have same sex accommodation for good reasons - and are very strict about keeping mixed sex to a minimum.

So I ask transactivists - are the NHS discriminatory bigots too? Or are you happy for a male patient to be on a women's ward in the bed next door when women have problems relating to their vaginas?

PinkyOfPie · 28/04/2016 20:23

I'd also like to ask transactivists their views on the cotton ceiling which is essentially a movement by men TW to coerce lesbians into having sex with people with penises. Their logic being there's "nothing male about their bodies" apart from the cock and balls so lesbians should accept them as viable sexual partners?

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2016 20:23

pinky- unfortunately the NHS aren't strict enough. A group I'm in was contacted by a very distressed woman on a psych ward who had a 6'4" man in the bed next to her. When she objected she was told he had every right to be there because he was trans.

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2016 20:24

The cotton ceiling, or "corrective rape" as I like to call it.

Toria2014 · 28/04/2016 20:27

I am stunned.

Hairy, beardy men, with cocks, flouncing about demanding to be seen as women. You couldn't make this shit up.

What is the end game here, I wonder.

When are people going to stop tip toeing around for fear of being branded intolerant or bigoted, or discriminatory? Why is it always the ones who scream intolerance that are the most intolerant of all?

I am comfortable with being bigoted in this instance. Its madness, pure and simple.

Toria2014 · 28/04/2016 20:31

Makes me think of The Life of Brian.

"I want to be called Loretta"

MorrisZapp · 28/04/2016 20:34

Of course it's madness. I'm really concerned though as I've seen pro trans memes on my FB feed for a while now, shared by liberals like me who believe in equality. They haven't thought it through, they just think it's a natural progression of gay rights.

PinkyOfPie · 28/04/2016 20:35

Hermione that's shocking! This is what I mean by TA saying "fuck everyone else's rights, our importance must be placed on playing pretend with an adult".

I works for my local NHS trust and luckily they have high same sex rates and I've never heard of a situation like that. I'm sure it won't be long though Sad

PinkyOfPie · 28/04/2016 20:38

They haven't thought it through, they just think it's a natural progression of gay rights.

Absolutely, as ridiculous as it is I feel nervous to share my true feelings!

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2016 20:38

pinky it was incredibly distressing for her. Her delusion was that men were trying to kill her. She had to be sectioned and couldn't see her husband or father, but was forced to share intimate space with this man. Horrific.

HermioneWeasley · 28/04/2016 20:39

toria I'm with you. If understanding facts and biology makes me a bigot, then so be it.