Fascicle re "Why do you think there's any sleight of hand involved? I think most people don't give it much thought but if asked, my money would be on the general public expecting those who are transgender to e.g. use the toilets that reflect their identity, not biology at birth." i was going to reply but can I just say WeDoNotSow at Mon 09-May-16 16:15:15.
Re "I find that idea pretty repugnant – defining and segregating others on the basis of individual difference. Something we've moved away from as a society."
WHOEVER is segregating the trans community on anything other than safe and private spaces which are segregated by sex, it is not me!
I don't care or mind if trans women are sitting with me in all the normal places of life, working alongside me, shopping alongside, campaigning alongside, I am not attempting to segregate on supposed gender or sex in general area of life at all. I am asking for the existing spaces that are segregated on SEX to continue and if a trans woman has had her sex legally changed by operation then that is fine.
WHY is this issue so important to trans people. It i snot about safety because we are constantly being told being around people with penis is not dangerous, and anyway safe spaces are offered to trans people who reject them. Trans women are very keen to be in women only spaces because this validates their identity. I don;t think it is women's job to validate anyone else's identity. i don;t go to the female loos to feel like a woman. I am more than happy to use an individual gender neutral toilet. The idea we want to segregate trans people away is totally misrepresentation. If we have got away from 'segregating others' why do we have male or female toilets at all? Or individual spaces for men and women in prison or shelters? Why do we have clubs like Guides and Brownies for girls, why do we have women's or men's groups, like slimming or swimming or whatever clubs?
I am guessing were we to do this as a society trans people would be the first to complain because they don't want a totally unsegregated society, they want to be included in female only spaces or male only spaces. So if you are arguing for not segregating on any grounds you may find you are not speaking on behalf of trans people at all. (Which of course would be true anyway as trans people might have very different views on a variety of things - something I would want to respect and understand as I don't dislike trans people at all, but that doesn't mean women and girls should be 'guilted' into giving up hard won rights to privacy.
I'm also curious how far you would like to take this not segregating anyone? School, all the years and age groups in together? sports clubs and activities, the novices in with those who have participated for years and years and honed their skills, boxing, all the weight classes together?
You know there are lots and lots of cases for not segregating people, for including in education, in decision making etc etc. These are all things women and feminists have been fighting for. Why must the trans fight basically come down to which toilet or shelter or prison to use?