It is not discrimination to have schemes to encourage groups into areas where they are under represented. It would not be discriminatory, for example to have a programme to encourage men into midwifery, nursing or domestic cleaning. It is not discriminatory to have programmes, as our school does, to support boys literacy. It is not, by the same reasoning, discriminatory to have programmes to encourage girls into STEM.
And you misunderstand the concept of "the patriarchy" if you think it is about individuals or individual action. I will explain this if absolutely necessary, but I think you understand perfectly well, it just suits your agenda to appear not to.
And a workplace bully is a workplace bully, regardless of sex.