Well, I was rather irate with DH yesterday when I reversed out of our drive (think narrow, down-hill AND round-the-bend, so a bit complex, but I manage to negotiate it every day, sometimes several times WITHOUT ANY HELP AT ALL!!) in his precious car. I was half in, half out, when he started gesticulating and shouting. So, I stopped and put the window down thinking he had forgotten to tell me something or summat.
But no.
Apparently I was about to ram the wall.
Except I wasn't. Nowhere near.
But a argument debate needed to be had about it.
He had the good grace to apologise when I came back. And to be fair, he is not usually v precious about his car much as he loves and caresses it more than me and there is never any question about whether I am 'allowed' to drive it.
This was of course in front of witnesses, our friend, who was just leaving which was the whole reason why DH was out there in the first place.
So, yes, more Unpleasantness if clearly needed even in my own family sphere.
My biggest problem with causal, 'well-meant' sexism from 'nice' people is that I often only notice it after the event or am too gobsmacked to think of anything to say.
Note to self: work on quick comebacks.