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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Mick Hucknall apologises to 1000 women he slept with

158 replies

GoldenGreen · 03/12/2010 10:19

www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/celebritynews/8178285/Mick-Hucknall-apologises-to-1000-women-he-slept-with.html

The way I am reading this is he is that firstly he is sorry for being unfaithful to whoever he was with at the time - ok I get that.

But I am finding this a little creepy on other levels because I think if you apologise to your groupies, it implies you think you were taking advantage of them at the time? Or is it that he misled them all into thinking they were his only partner (at a rate of 3 a day, that'd be hard to do).

(please MN lawyers note I am not saying that Mick Hucknall has done anything wrong...)

DP reckons I am overthinking this which is quite possible Grin

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DuelingFanio · 03/12/2010 17:20

why does he feel the need to apologise?
Why blame his mum?

odd.

iTigress · 03/12/2010 17:23

Ewe imo the concept of sex addiction is a crock of shit. It's a handy phrase for someone who fails to understand it's a two-way process though. Addicted to abusing others for own pleasure - oh yes, you require understanding and empathy Hmm

dittany · 03/12/2010 17:25

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iTigress · 03/12/2010 17:26

Just read the Guardian article - it says 3000 women in 3 years Hmm

iTigress · 03/12/2010 17:32

I do think there are men who just love variety, love having sex with women and the intimacy and yes, the 'chase' and can be fairly bemused if they leave a trail of broken hearts behind them. I did have an experience with a guy at college like this - he was gorgeous and an 'artist' type, had loads of women friends and seemed unable to help himself forming often overlapping relationships, and having flings left right and centre. I fell temporarily head over heels in lust with him, and got hurt, and he felt awful but couldn't help himself from chasing the next woman he became obsessed with. I really don't think he was selfish as such - I think of his type as a women-lover, he wanted to 'spread the love' I think Grin He was always a complete gentleman though. More Russell Brand than MH.

SpringHeeledJack · 03/12/2010 17:34

iirc he tried to shag Martine, but she puked in the cab

nice one, Tiff

Smile
bintofbohemia · 03/12/2010 17:37

iTigress - not sure Russell Brand is a gent, have you read his Booky Wook? Put me right off...

Ewe · 03/12/2010 17:38

In the original article on the Guardian website it explains that he was also an alcoholic, he has clearly undergone a lot of counselling/rehab and is just trying to apologise. Better than doing nothing and continuing to behave badly, not as good as not doing it in the first place of course.

AliceWorld · 03/12/2010 17:38

And women too. Some women like to sleep with lots of different men, experiment, have fun, cheat, hurt people. All of it. They're not all crying because a man did it to them.

Some people like to engage in this kind of activity.

droves · 03/12/2010 17:54

So am i right ?
MH HAS SLEPT WITH 1000/3000 WOMEN AND HE IS SORRY?

How many of these women would admit it ?

Hmm
iTigress · 03/12/2010 17:58

Ok maybe Russell isn't a gent. Let me have my fantasy! I do fancy him - saw him at a small gig just before he hit the big time and he flirted outrageously with me Xmas Smile

Anyway I think it's good manners (avoiding gendered adjectives like gentlemanly) to not discuss these things publicly, only shows MH up, not the women. Or shouldn't do.

DuelingFanio · 03/12/2010 18:02

To be absolutely fair to Mick Hucknal he was accused of rape but never properly charged, wasn't he? The case was withdrawn in 24 hours and he was with friends at the time the rape was supposed to have happened.

People are falsely accused and it's really unfair to suggest he is a rapist when no case ever made it to trial/court.

JenaiMarrsTartanFoxCube · 03/12/2010 18:29

We still need to know how many MNers he's shagged. A percentage will do Grin

NonnoMum · 03/12/2010 18:48

Still waiting for that call...

Xmas Angry
WilfShelf · 03/12/2010 18:52

Mick Hucknall chatted me up once. I turned him down.

Lucky escape. For me, obv.

Notevenamouse · 03/12/2010 18:55

and did you manage not to vomit

WilfShelf · 03/12/2010 18:58

Only just. He had a jaunty cap on the side of his head and was carrying a cane. Plonker.

smallwhitecat · 03/12/2010 18:58

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Notevenamouse · 03/12/2010 19:00

jaunty cap and was carrying a cane [boak]

MrsGuyOfChristmasBorn · 03/12/2010 19:00

SMW - exactly!!! Even with a low hit rate, a high frequency of asking will end up with a large total.

MrsGuyOfChristmasBorn · 03/12/2010 19:01

sorry - SWC

Notevenamouse · 03/12/2010 19:03

I still think he must be lying. I mean, even if he asked hundreds or women a day the likely hood of finding three who don't find a jaunty hat and cane repelling is unlikely.

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DuelingFanio · 03/12/2010 19:09

I actually used to quite fancy Mick Hucknall when I was about 17. I thought his voice was wonderful in the early days. Blush

I always thought he had lovely hands in the 'holding back the years' video.

droves · 03/12/2010 19:10

Why was there a news article ..... could he just not have sent a nicely worded letter to them personally ?

. or phoned them ? even a text would do?

No . because figments of imagination dont have letterboxes or phones .

Grin

I dont believe thousands of women had sex with MH .