Fedup, I agree with everything shinyblackgrape has said. She doesnt sound desperately motivated? has she decided to diet by herself? That said, I have never ever went to a meeting at all but find that some really benefit from the accountability of attending a weigh in - so careful that she doesnt get complacent if she doesnt have to weigh in in front of someone each week. If she joins online would she weigh in with you or something (I get my mother to do this with me every Monday)
Alcrowley, dont go and do what most of us do and write off the whole week now, damage control - stick to points today, tomorrow and sunday and it could make a huge difference, better still - pay back 4 a day? could you do that?. If your "good" now you could avoid gaining a couple of lbs by Monday.
So, todays going good. Am still on my 17 points (bold me).
breakfast
2 slices of toast 2pts
10g butter 0.5pts
2 fried eggs 3pts
fried mushrooms 0pts
both fried in frylight 0pts
1 sinless rasher 0.5pts
breakfast total 6points
Lunch
4 wholegrain rivitas 2pts topped with:
50g smoked salmon 1.5pts
tesco extra light garlic and herb cream cheese (30g): 0.5pts
Lashings of fresh lemon juice: 0pts and
accompanied with huge salad of:
lettuce, tomato, cucumber, scallions, celery (mixed in 1 tablespoon of extra light mayo): 0 pts
lunch total: 4pts
So I've 7 left for the day, totm still and I know Im just going to spend it on chocolate.. will see.
Am thinking something like: 2 slices of bread toasted with one slice of extra light cheese melted on top with mustard for tea (3points) and a bag of crispy m&ms (4points) (cos they last ages)
I know, Im eating too much bread and spending too much on rubbish but from experience this is the only way Ill stick to a diet. I should try be healthier but when I do I usually end up caving in completely. Anyway, the fact Im still paying back 4 a day for my blunder doesnt leave me with much scope for nicer dinners that I would usually have. So, trying to fill on bulky things until Monday.
Hope everyone else is doing great!! damn weekend is hell for diets..