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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

42 year old looking to lose two stone by December. anyone care to join?

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frenchbreadandbites · 17/08/2024 16:50

Currently over indulging k
On holiday and after a stressful four years I'm ready to get fit and healthy and lose two stone. I'm going to start at the beginning of September. Would anyone like to join and motivate each other?

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30freespins · 29/08/2024 05:01

Ooh can I join please? 52, 5’5”5 and was 13st7 last week. I’ve lost 9lbs since 2nd August. I’ve had a rough few years looking after elderly parents (now sadly passed away), dealing with an absolute grabby fucker of a sibling, trying to run a business, supporting kids through exams and combined it all with the menopause 😭 it’s a wonder I’m not sat in a padded cell tbh. My issue is wine, chocolate, a lazy fast food lunch too many times, overeating in general (I love cooking) and eating out. On the upside, hormones all balanced, kids off to uni and they passed their driving test so I have more time to myself. No excuses now as I have a DH with a heart condition so I need to make sure I stay healthy for DC.

What I’ve done so far… thought about weight-loss jabs but decided to spend the money on fitness instead…kick-started with a PT 3 x pw for August specifically lifting weights. I probably don’t need him now. I have all the peloton machines, weights, resistance bands etc at home but tbh I haven’t bothered them too much so decided that would have to change…I’ve also intermittent fasted, preferring to eat in a 6 hour window (12-6) and I’ve cut down to one meal a day in the middle of the day which is mainly a massive salad with a large protein content (steak, chicken etc). Absolutely no processed foods..I’ve even made my own salad dressings and mayonnaise 😂 snacks have been pistachios (in their shell so it is more time consuming to eat them and so I eat less) or fresh fruit only. Water consumption has been high. I have cut booze out Monday to Friday and only drink black coffee otherwise. I am not hungry at all. So that’s a win!

Exercise-wise I am doing 10k steps a day (dog walk plus watching Disney+ Or Netflix on the peloton) and I’m raising the incline on the treadmill by 0.5% every week. Speed consistently set at 3.5mph (5.7kmph) and my goal is 6% incline (at 3.5% at the mo). I wear arm weights.

The biggest issues now are - off on holiday at the end of the week for 10 days. Then DC starts uni, possibly in another country (long story) I’m a big foodie so I will eat BUT I’m determined to keep up the steps every day to offset this. I had my first “ooh have you lost weight?” Comment yesterday so I’m building on that as a motivator. I’m NOT using my reflection in the 3 way mirror in the m&s changing room yesterday (my body looks like a candle left in the sun) nor DH’s ‘helpful’ comment about a bikini I had bought (it’s been returned). I know I’m in denial about my size so I need to not do what I’ve always done and return to old ways of eating and drinking too much! It’s taken a long time to get this big so it’ll take a year to shift I reckon. 10stone is the goal. The other goal is to tone everything (including my face!) at the same time to minimise the loose skin issue. We’ll see…

Sorry for the long, boring essay but I need to stay accountable!

aleesh4 · 29/08/2024 05:27

I would love to join. I am 37, had my beautiful baby girl nearly 3 months ago and have 25 pounds to lose preferably by Christmas. I have my friends wedding beginning of November too.

imfromwales · 29/08/2024 07:53

How do we join

StewardsEnquiry · 29/08/2024 10:09

Hello, I'd like to join as well. I need a 'back to school' September diet after totally going over board with food this summer. I need to lose 1 stone. I started the diet the day before yesterday, when I had a sudden realisation that my clothes were uncomfortably tight.

I'm going to do low carb and I've already lost 2lb in the last 2 days. It always starts really fast with low carb in a really satisfying way doesn't it? I don't really have a goal date in mind. I just need my clothes to fit me properly!

ThisCharmingteacher · 29/08/2024 10:29

So have lost a 1lb in the last 11 days so now 12 st 13lb - went for a really nice walk on Sunday- and went away for a night with my mum and ate pretty healthily - at least it's on the right direction!

Blosssom · 29/08/2024 11:00

@ThisCharmingteacher That is great progress! Well done!

I woke up in the middle of the night starving?! Was up for an hour just feeling hungry. And now as I'm on my fasting plan I am still not eating until 12 so I am about to keel over.

Maybe I overdid it yesterday, a long walk, a modest portion of chicken pasta for lunch and a tuna sandwich for dinner. Or maybe my body just needs to get used to this new regime.

StewardsEnquiry · 29/08/2024 15:44

@imfromwales Just by posting here! Congratulations, you are a member. What is your situation?

StewardsEnquiry · 29/08/2024 15:49

@aleesh4 congratulations on your baby! What is your diet plan?

@30freespins wow that's really good progress through August! A good start. 10 stone is my goal as well.

StewardsEnquiry · 30/08/2024 07:59

Good morning! I had another good day yesterday. I stuck with the plan and drank a lot of sparkling water.

I'm so annoyed at myself though, for needing to lose weight again. I yo-yo dieted through my 20s but I had it together through my 30s.

I know a stone isn't a lot in the grand scheme of things but I was such an ostrich about it, with my head well and truly in the sand. Chips and lattes and hot chocolate and wine and beer and sandwiches and crisps - all without any care!!

And now, my bra doesn't fit well. I have bits of boob trying to escape out the side and bottom. My thighs are rubbing at the top. My jeans are digging in when I sit down. My t shirts are too short. My pyjamas are starting to gape.

So it's an emergency! A diet emergency!

lorisparkle · 30/08/2024 08:28

@StewardsEnquiry it is so frustrating - my clothes are all too tight and as I refuse to buy a bigger size I have to lose some weight!

ButtonNoses · 30/08/2024 10:56

Hello everyone it was my weigh day today! And I lost 3 pounds! My goal by Christmas Day is 12st 5

so my stats are:
23 August: 14st 5
30 August: 14st 2

StewardsEnquiry · 31/08/2024 09:44

@ButtonNoses well done! What a great first week. What plan have you been following?

I had another good day yesterday with no eating problems but since I started I haven't been out for any meals. I've had total control. I don't have much planned over the weekend and next week we are back to school and work.

My long running problem is deciding and remembering what to take with me to eat for lunch at work. I quite often completely forget to eat something until it quite late because I'm so busy and then I buy something ridiculous and unhealthy, or I pick and snack on all sorts in the evening while the dinner is cooking because I'm so hungry.

Weeteeny · 31/08/2024 11:22

I'm chuffed with myself I started at 16 13 and now 16 4! I've cut out snacking, alcohol, and am trying really hard to eat a balanced meal with protein and veg. Minimum carbs..so far its working! Though I expect weight loss will alow down this week and it's beginners luck.
Have also been trying to keep active , am heading out a walk around local reservoir that will take couple of hours this afternoon and is hilly so will get my heartbeat going! Ia spurred on by a conformed date for my wedding in Dec! Feeling g positive today! Well done everyone

Rhinohorn · 31/08/2024 12:13

I'm in. I want to lose 2 stone by Xmas day. I've been ill & in hospital, lazy, over eating/eating through boredom.

I'm 46. Weighed myself today. 12 stone 10. I was previously 11 stone. I need to sort this out as it's making me feel so very very down.

IF, eating window 12 - 7pm as much as I can. Significantly reduce alcohol/takeaways. As much walking as I can. Tracking calories/miles/food
If I lose the 2 stone then I'm rewarding myself (can't reveal what as it's outing, but it's a £400 treat for myself).

We've got this !

Rhinohorn · 31/08/2024 12:33

Also following the rules:

If it's not on my plate, then I can't eat it

If I can't quantify it (ie measure it out with scales or spoons) then I can't eat it

I can't eat out of the snack cupboard. It's not my cupboard. Likewise the bread drawer. Its not my drawer.

Midlifeshenanigans · 31/08/2024 12:57

I’m in- starting tomorrow so I’ll weigh myself in the morning but need to lose at least 2 stone

ChokeToDeathOnThreePoundsOfMeat · 31/08/2024 14:37

I’m in. I’m 43, think I’m 12st (last weighed myself a few days ago). I’m 5’3” which puts my bmi at about 30. And I suspect I’ve hit menopause.

I'm trying low-ish carb. Alternating low carb days with days of higher carbs but still not too many calories. Sort of like carb cycling maybe? Supposed to help if you get bored with a particular WOE, which I do.
Can’t do full keto as I’m on medication that makes metabolic acidosis a major risk with a keto diet. Probably explains why I felt so shit when I tried it previously.

Am also ramping up the exercise. Dog walking, attempting running (so far have mostly failed, but I’ll keep plugging way) & sit-ups, planks, cardio games with the Switch if the weather gets really crappy over winter, etc. I lost quite a lot of weight with that, many years ago before I had DD.

Jeds55 · 31/08/2024 15:12

I'm in too please
42, 5'4 about 10st 7lbs. Will weigh properly when I start.

Annoyingly I can't start on the 1st (secretly yay! Eating everything tmrw)so will start on Monday

Lost most of the bsby weight after dd2 then put back on almost a stone.

Goal weight - 9 st 7lbs
Calorie counting, IF and attempting to get back into regular running.

Midlifeshenanigans · 01/09/2024 08:17

Weighed in at exactly 11 stone this morning. At 5’ 2 I need to lose st least 2 stone.

qwerty1972 · 01/09/2024 08:41

Good morning, Everyone!

1st September weigh in

01/09 - 10 stone 12 lbs

Two stones down by Christmas would take me to my ideal weight.

Water at the ready, walking app at the ready - here we go.

ElaineMBenes · 01/09/2024 08:49

Checking in!

I can't weigh myself as I'm in the process of moving house and my scales ( and feels like my life! ) is in storage.

Before the move I was 13st1lb so I'm going to use that as a starting point.

I'll be tracking my calories and upping my exercise.
Good luck everyone 🙌

Blosssom · 01/09/2024 09:09

Good morning everyone

Starting weight today: 79kg. This is actually 3kg less than when this thread started mid-August so I'm pleased with that.

Goal weight by October half term: 75kg.

Goal weight by Christmas: 70kg.

I'm especially looking forward to wearing many of my nice clothes again. I was looking in the wardrobe this morning and thinking how I only use about 20% of what is in there now.

Off for a walk before the rest of the household wakes up!

frenchbreadandbites · 01/09/2024 09:15

Morning Ladies! Sorry I've been AWOL!

Love seeing all the check ins already!

I've been doing a soft launch for the past two weeks and staying in a calorie deficet for the past two weeks. Haven't done much exercise! But for some motivation I just weighed myself and have lost 5lbs!! Not sure how much of that is water weight but I'll take it as a win.

So my starting weight is 10st 3 this morning.

Just a reminder of the 'rules'
2l-3 litres of water a day
10k steps four times a week
Track calories (I have been tracking everything apart from cups of tea and it really helps)
Join the what's app group if you'd like more regular chit chat and recipes

chat.whatsapp.com/CInU4brkHLeFTJsBWTta4x

This months physical goal is walking/running 31 miles this month. Or doing 3/4 30 mins exercise of choice each week.

I'm starting Jillian Michael's Beginner Shred on Tuesday. If anyone fancies joining me.

Loads of luck we've got this!

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IOnlyNeedTheSilence · 01/09/2024 09:26

Midlifeshenanigans · 01/09/2024 08:17

Weighed in at exactly 11 stone this morning. At 5’ 2 I need to lose st least 2 stone.

It's so weird! I'm a similar height to you and weigh 11st4 right now, and can't imagine being two stone down.

I think I'd look close to death!

Funny how our bodies and healthy weights are all different. I think if I get to maybe 10st7 that's the lowest I could go, just naturally for my body type.

Rowgtfc72 · 01/09/2024 09:32

Morning!
Weighing in at 15st 5lb. Thankfully less than I thought it would be but I have tried to be good this week.
I can do the steps, count the calories and walk a mile a day. I'm lucky if I manage a ltr of water a day so will give that a go.
Taking my arthritic hip and knees to the doc this week and my dodgy achillies will be tagging along. It's stopping me doing the miles I normally do, and that's my best way of losing weight.

Best of luck everyone.

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