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A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

LOSE IT! May 2022

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TheRealHousewife · 28/04/2022 06:26

☀️THE SUMMER COUNTDOWN THREAD ☀️

Fresh new month, fresh new start, fresh new habits. Jump right in to reset & refresh to become a healthier version of yourself in time for a Sizzling Summer!

As no one size fits all, members need to follow their own way of eating to LOSE or MAINTAIN. This thread aims to offer guidance, support and a bit of hand holding.

We generally have WOW (Weigh On Wednesday) day each week. However post and share your progress as often or as little as you prefer. Do what works for you.

The important thing is not to think of it as a diet (based on deprivation and unsustainable) but more a way of life (sustainable & enjoyable).

I calorie count based on a lower carb Mediterranean diet. I intermittent fast and generally eat twice a day.

Are you in😊 What food plan will you be following? What do you want to change and why?

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TheRealHousewife · 29/05/2022 18:05

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Graphista · 30/05/2022 01:29

Sorry for not posting regularly need to do better! Keeps me accountable

Mostly been doing well...until today when yo! Sushi bit me on the arse! Although...just totted up cals and less than 1000 and everything else I've had today tots up to under 1600 cals which is usually fine for me, might feel I've overdone it as one huge meal rather than 3 smaller ones 

Been as low as 13 st 3 in past week but tonight 13 st 6 

Will aim to get that couple lbs off before wow!

Nsv - size 18 jeans now baggy on me! Nice as an nsv annoying in terms of kept having to readjust them!

Definitely on an almond/nuts kick rather than crisps, even though technically more calories I think that they are helping and are healthier

@SunshineCake fluid retention in the medical sense is where the fluid stays in the cells in the body and isn't properly drawn out by the kidneys to be passed to the bladder and peed out. Lots of different reasons this can happen.

And I agree, some days we are more hungry than others that's normal

As mentioned before endo here and bloating could be a real issue, when I was slim I could look normal one day and 5 months pregnant the next!

What I really don’t like about the book though is how some posters on MN seem to have turned it into gospel.

Yes this seems to happen on mn, certain people won't hear that their belief may be incorrect or just work for them when it comes to weight loss/healthy eating. There's one poster who thinks nobody over the age of 5 should drink milk!

I'm old enough (as several of us on thread are) to have seen weight loss fads come and go several times before. I remember carbs being "evil" late 70's and potatoes written off as "fattening" then it was all fat was bad for you and eggs were demonised! Now we're back to carbs again. When ultimately it comes down to cals in v cals out, there are some nuances for individuals but that is basically how it works.

I'm very against meal replacement as it's not healthy, not real food or nutrition and not sustainable, they also tend to be sweet tasting which means the users palates become more attuned to wanting sweet tasting food.

@Flowers111 I agree emotions are a huge factor in over eating, I think it's outrageous that under eating is recognised as a Mh issue but over eating is not. My experience of ww was very much that most members had emotional reasons why they over ate, I would say 80-90% also had some trauma in their past usually some form of childhood abuse. Discussed this with the leader on occasion, she had much more experience than me of course and she said she's amazed there's not more research into links between child abuse and over eating.

A lot of members would be clinically obese and clearly a few oil free recipes were not going to help them.

Don't agree with this. The weight didn't go on overnight it isn't going to come off overnight and lower cal recipes and eating ARE precisely how to lose the weight. It's no different for those of us who are obese than it is for those with less weight to lose to reach a healthy weight. It just takes us longer.

I find alcohol the worst for causing food cravings

That's cos it fucks with the pancreas/blood sugar levels I also struggle with this

@GonnaGetGoingReturns re snacks - plan for the snack attack with low cal options in your bag. I've treated myself to a new cool bag from primark which I am planning to use for town trips. I also have a new larger handbag for cinema and I take my own popcorn and other low cal treats instead of buying the cinema high cal ones (cheaper too!)

@Benjispruce4 wishing you a full and speedy recovery

@CrimsonAlligator - a belated happy anniversary

I also used to do meditation/mindfulness thinking I need to try it again

but my favourite is a black silk one (no intentionally kinky) Grin

Love that comment! I've a few sleep
masks too but must admit were originally bought for ... non sleep purposes Blush

HouseofHolbein · 30/05/2022 07:26

Just checking in 😊 been awol due to work and also having a bit of a social life 🤣🤣

weight is up and down as usual… up today which I think is from Saturday nights jaegerbombs 😭😭 did lots of dancing tho so all good 😊

got this week off which I really need so no idea what my weight will be doing by the end of it.

best get my washing out while it’s dry 👍 I’ll be back later!

ginsparkles · 30/05/2022 08:19

Joining @Graphista and @HouseofHolbein with the apology for not being about!

Been a bit hectic with work/birthday/half term/holiday planning! 3 days until we leave and I'm just being mindful but not worrying overly, I'll tackle it properly when I return from the land of wine cheese and croissants!

TheRealHousewife · 30/05/2022 09:04

Good Morning 😊

@Graphista no apologies necessary for not posting. You made me giggle today and spurt a bit of tea out you frisky pup #sleepmask 🤣 Great NSV 👏👍

@Echobelly apologies didn't mean to cause offence when suggesting sleep mask.

Pleased to read you’re feeling better @Benjispruce4 !

@HouseofHolbein nice to have you back! Enjoy your week off, you so deserve it you work so hard! ❤️

@ginsparkles No apologies necessary, life gets in the way at times but then it rightly should have the ‘right of way’ over sm ☺️ Did you have a good birthday? Here’s to you having a brilliant holiday! 🍷 🧀 🥐 < Holiday ones are calorie free (I might just have a Pinocchio nose 👃 at this one 😬)

Menu
Meal 1 - Mushroom & Leek soup.
Meal 2 - Chicken stir fry. Apple, kefir yoghurt.
Tea, Coffee, Water.

Have a good day, get your water in and whatever you do do it with gusto!

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Graphista · 30/05/2022 11:25

Frisky pup 🤣🤣🤣 hardly a pup! But thanks

Jagerbombs oh that brings back memories not all good

I'll get water in when I stop bloody hiccuping - is that an age thing? More hiccups?

SunshineCake · 30/05/2022 11:54

Thank you for the meditating information @CrimsonAlligator. Would you mind sending me the link in a PM please as my memory is terrible at the best of times and today is going to be stressful so no doubt I'll forget everything? It sounds like you had a wonderful anniversary and buying a tree is a great idea. DH and I tend to do stuff like that now, or buy useful things, as we have too much stuff.

I am glad you are still getting a holiday @Echobelly but don't see it as trashing your diet. See it as you are going to enjoy all the foods you want and only have those that will be worth it if you put weight on.

@Benjispruce4 I am glad you are feeling better but don't rush to do too much.

Well some on your NSV @Graphista !

Nice to see you @HouseofHolbein and @ginsparkles . Imo this thread is to be used as much or as little as you want and I have have been truly blessed and grateful everyone has allowed me to use it as a sounding board too, so no apologies needed. Always lovely to see everyone.

I saw halfgone...on another thread last week but didn't message as don't want to pressure as she said she would come back the following month when I messaged her before and she didn't. Always welcome if you want to though!

Hello tom@Puffalicious and @buzzofthebumblebee .

I ran 5km this morning and I have just checked my times and I am gobsmacked. They are unbelievable so I am feeling very proud but totally shocked. I then walked the dog for an hour and forty and now I'm showered and dressed I am going to clean. Weighed in and I am down on Saturday, albeit only 1.2lb, so also very happy about that.

Later DH and I have to talk to DD as she has broken the same house rule which made her leave last time but we can't let it slide. DH and I fully expect her to not listen, to leave the conversation within minutes if not seconds and then disappear again. I know I am always needing and asking for help but can I please have my gang around me today? DH not back from being out with DS2 until 2pm so it will be after that. Thank you so much Flowers

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 12:10

@Graphista - good idea re snack bag.

Can anyone suggest snacks which are ok? I had a small bag of salt and vinegar popcorn on Friday but it was like eating air... Prefer snack a jacks and even Ryvita to that!

I saw on another thread keeping hands busy - e.g. knitting etc so you don't eat. Well I do have necklaces which I need to untangle so could do that!

my main downfall this weekend was drinking gin when out... but I did have gnocchi with spinach Saturday night and Friday night chips with mayo and then veggie gyoza and pasta shells with veggies (out go karting stayed with brother had pasta with them). My main 'goal' and sticking point is seeing me in pics of go karting (look ok actually) but also the jeans are tighter and I got a lovely silver (pewter?) tooled Hush belt (sample sale) which i wore with them on Saturday night.

I am also trying to drink more water.

Have cancelled Noom as it weighs things in cups - wtf is that about? I can't be doing with something which makes things hard work. Am restarting MFP I think.

I actually need to do more active fun things - am sure I can jog in lunchbreak at work and even do a dance class or something after work.

@SunshineCake well done on smashing your 5K record - you must've got that extra push from somewhere!

@TheRealHousewife - You are doing so well sticking to your plan! Well done.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 13:28

@SunshineCake well done on your running, you are so active! I hope all goes well with DD. Tread carefully and make sure it’s worth it. I hope that doesn’t come across too badly. 💐

ginsparkles · 30/05/2022 15:32

@GonnaGetGoingReturns I have chickepea or lentil crisps they tend to be lower in calories than ordinary crisps. My favourites are hippeas they are 61cal for a 22g bag. I find them really yummy and filling.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 15:35

@GonnaGetGoingReturns i would choose fruit like an apple at 60-80 cals or some grapes or nuts as I want nutrients for the calories. 10 almonds is quite satisfying and is only 70 cals.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 15:49

@ginsparkles and @Benjispruce4 - am slightly crying inside seeing my options but it has to be done!

I usually have an apple and cheese.

I'm going to try the hippeas - think I tried them before and were nice.

Gakatsbsk · 30/05/2022 15:52

Hello

not posted in a while but have been eating okay calorie wise need to improve my nutrition.

since starting watching my calories roughly 3 weeks ago and around 2 weeks of ADHD meds I have weighed myself.

I weigh 11st9lbs, the last time I weighed myself was 4 weeks ago and I was 13st. I’m in shock.

I’m 5’3 so still a way to go before anywhere near ‘healthy weight’.

I’m fully expecting to slow right down with weight loss and tbh I don’t feel I look much different except tiny differences.

I have 56 days til my big summer holiday and a few weeks til my city break but I’m not setting targets.

I bought scales to weigh myself as every time I go to boots etc the scales are out of order. I need to be really careful to not weigh too often as it can be addictive.

Hope everyone’s okay x

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 15:53

@GonnaGetGoingReturns you might not like my next suggestion. Do what I do- most of the time-don’t snack!
I actually find it easier to abstain as once you start, it gets the digestive juices going and it can be hard to limit yourself.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 15:55

@Gakatsbsk that’s amazing, well done!!

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 15:59

@Benjispruce4 - see when I'm on a really good day I can definitely not snack - or just have e.g. a date with peanut butter mid morning.

Work has definitely scuppered things with return journey but also plus discovering stuff like Reeses Peanut Butter Cups...

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 15:59

@Benjispruce4 - good point re digestive juices. I also need to start drinking more water so not mistaking hunger for thirst.

Benjispruce4 · 30/05/2022 16:00

Lol@GonnaGetGoingReturns I’m a peanut butter fiend too! Don’t deny yourself completely. Maybe plan a treat Reese each time you reach a target?

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 16:15

@Benjispruce4 - good idea re treat! In fact my favourite of all the Reeses is their white chocolate cups! Heaven.

SunshineCake · 30/05/2022 16:24

Thank youn@GonnaGetGoingReturns though I can't help wondering how fast I have to be to gather a wow from DH. He says well done or very good but I want more!

Oh, that was a bit of a moment @Benjispruce4 but we had no choice.

GonnaGetGoingReturns · 30/05/2022 16:26

@SunshineCake - I don't know what to say about men being impressed (or your DH) with running - my ex always used to compliment me on my workouts!

Maybe sign up for a 5K or something?

SunshineCake · 30/05/2022 16:33

Confused. I have been running for two years and he does say well done etc. I just want a bit more being impressed.

CrimsonAlligator · 30/05/2022 18:27

@GonnaGetGoingReturns , I’m a firm believer in snacks, but I’m not a fan of any of the “healthy” prepackaged options. I find they just make me much hungrier in the long term.

I make these a lot (especially the first ones). I find that I often get a bit dizzy after my rowing training, but one of these sorts that out in no time at all, without giving me a massive spike in blood sugar & cravings. They’re really tasty too.

www.wellplated.com/energy-balls/

It’s a bit of a pain that everything is in cups, but I just Google 1 cup of oats in grams etc and work around it that way

I also love things like olives, or a few crackers with a little bit of cheese.

I sometimes make a feta cheese spread, which is packed full of flavour and not too many calories. It’s a pack of feta, a tbsp of tomato purée, a good squeeze of lemon juice, 2 tbsp of olive oil, a very generous pinch of both oregano and thyme (dried) and one or two slices of jalapeño. Either chop it all finely and mix it up, or stick it in a blender. It’s seriously tasty.

CrimsonAlligator · 30/05/2022 18:38

Well done on your 5k @SunshineCake ! I take it your DH isn’t a runner himself? I think it can be really difficult for people who don’t do a particular sport to appreciate just how much effort goes into it and how impressive the results are.

My DH just tells me I’m a complete and utter nutter for doing the kind of distances I’m doing at the moment, but as he also rows he is suitably impressed when I tell him I did 15k before breakfast. I’d never get that kind of response from him if I’d gone running, or set a new record on the X-trainer or whatever, as he just doesn’t really know what kind of effort goes into that.

Still, I understand your frustration as sometimes you just want to share what you’ve achieved and get an excited response!

SunshineCake · 30/05/2022 19:13

He is a runner @CrimsonAlligator ! He can run faster but I can run further and for longer and I do it 5-6 days out of seven. He's very hit and miss and can go weeks without any.

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