Welcome to all the new people
good luck.
Quim- no chance with the men in my place
. I work in a massive office but my team which is about 14 people have decided to do our own together, we're going to las iguanas for a 3 course xmas themed meal and then out into town after which I prefer to the xmas dos that end at 12 in a hotel and everyone goes home. Only 3 men coming in our team, two are old enough to be my dad! actually my dad might be younger then one of them 
Hairspray- keep going, maybe your loss more next week. My weight lose always seems to go a big lose then small or nothing and then big again.
Keep on- I think a group might help you like slimming world or weight watchers also, there not unrealistic and lots of extra support.
Donald - well done for your 1lb off.
Splat - I have no ideal how many steps I do, I used to have a Fitbit but can't remember we're I put it, I'd say i do nearly 10k tho as I have 2 youngish children that I run around after lol