So sorry about your Aunt Rumtopf well done Zesty and Breakingsad
Notanurse sts are a PITA when you have stuck to it but I think an inevitable part of the process. I'm facing one or a slight gain tomorrow morning as AF here, unless something drastic happens today, but as you said, it's just KAITing and it will go away. And a bit if credit where credit due, 3 meals out within calorie allowance is really well done.
Zesty hope you feel 100% soon. I'm very impressed with your exercise !
I think this point can be a bit difficult, maybe we should set ourselves mini targets for weight but also for doing something else non diet related but that is new and a bit of a challenge and or fun?
i'm feeling ok about things but have my surgery goal and joined an evening class earlier this year that has turned out to be the best thing I have done for ages leading to new friends, getting me out of my comfort zone plus a new hobby to keep me busy. The best bit was being treated as me again, not as someone's Mother which has given me a boost.
It is going to drag as it's a long haul for us all, potentially a good couple of years so we have to get on with living . It is hard when money is tight, my sympathies. Anything in the house you could eBay or Gumtree at all? If so could you have this as a 'fun fund' and plan a few things to look forward to? Has anyone got anything in particular they have always wanted to do but the weight held them back?
I went through m wardrobe the other day and have several bags of clothes ready to go. I'm just waiting a few weeks to actually ditch them as I want to do that on the day I hit 50% of the way there. I didn't get rid of anything last time which is handy as I haven't needed to buy any new clothes yet (though do now need to) but this is the last time I'm doing it so the big stuff can go. Sainsbury's has 25% off clothes at the moment apparently if anyone needs things to tide them over.
Nearly at the end of watching Extreme Diet makeover on YouTube which I think I mentioned before. Really inspirational what some people have achieved and well worth watching a couple. They split it into 4 phases of 3 months . Phase 2 is the one where a lot of people struggle which is where we are now. For them it's because they have their hands held through the first 3 months and are then on their own and have to try to balance life with a gruelling exercise routine but I think the fact the novelty has worn off comes into it and i think we can relate to that.
Finally (I'm really going on here) I think at this point it is worth thinking about the reasons for our weight gain in the first place and try to address any issues that may hold us back maintaining in the future. Right, you'll be relieved to know I'm going to shut up and eat my breakfast now !