When I started this I was very strict with the low-carbing, with the help of MFP. I tried for high protein every day, looked at some of the low-carb threads and was pretty strict about it, tbh.
But even at the beginning, I wasn't really losing weight, despite shredding every day, running a couple of times a week at least, drinking plenty of water etc etc. And it made me miserable. I really, really love carbs!
So I decided to cut right down on the 'white carbs' instead. I eat barely any bread of any description, eat wholemeal pasta maybe once a week, rice maybe once a fortnight, baked potato maybe once a fortnight... It hasn't made much difference either way, and I'm no longer feeling deprived of carbs.
I think that the worst part is that I don't look fat! I know you're shaking your head, GetOrf, being the same weight as I am and 9" taller :o
But honestly, I don't. I'm a bit squishy, for sure. But I don't have a double chin, I'm a comfortable size 12, sometimes a 10. I'm the first to be critical of my appearance. I had a serious eating disorder from the age of 11 until I was about 18. Trust me, I know if I look fat!
Even my mother, who is very quick to tell me and my sisters when we've put on weight, tells me that she thinks I look great and that I don't need to lose weight. She never pulls any punches when she talks about weight. She seems to think that perhaps I'm the weight I ought to be.
And DP, who is infinitely more attractive than I am, thinks that I am the most gorgeous creature he's ever seen. He is under strict instructions to tell me if/when he thinks I'm fat, but it's like the poor man is blind.
GAH! It's so frustrating. Thanks for the tips, GetOrf. I won't give up. I'll try 1200 calories instead. But I do feel like a bit of a twat on this thread :(