This is pretty off topic but I am a woman in a state of RAGE at the moment, I'm really barely hanging on to my sanity enough not to hunt down the parents in this situation and give them what for. I am however not eating my feelings, so that's an improvement I suppose.
My DD is 10 years old. She doesn't have her own phone yet or any social media accounts but I allow her to use my WhatsApp account to stay in contact with her classmates as they do all have their own phones.
I have every parental control and limit available set up and check in realtime as she's chatting because I can see the messages on my phone while she's using the laptop.
Despite this, I've had to deal with the police and school this weekend after one of the 10yr old boys sent a whole load of porn videos to the group chat. Full frontal, trans, blow jobs, women having ping pong balls shoved in their anus, you name it he sent it.
DD did the right thing and reported it straight away so we didn't even have to find it during a checks, we've been talking to her about online safety for years.
So now at 10 yrs old my daughter is officially a victim of sexual assault, has had a referral to the safeguarding team, is being offered trauma support and I'm having to maintain an 'it's all ok' type persona so she doesn't get upset by it all.
What the fuck has gone wrong with society that 10 yr old boys have access to this kind of material and think it's appropriate to share it with the class?