I think you're right 😷..
I just saw you mention about Audhd..
I was diagnosed with both ADHD and autism over 7 years ago and have been on medication for the ADHD ever since. It helps suppress my appetite to a degree.
What counteracts it, is my medication for my Bipolar disorder. It's so frustrating.
I often forget to eat and drink (before/during MJ) and sometimes even forget to go pee!
My OH has to remind me to do these things as I get carried away so easily.
I also would never eat food at work due to a couple of reasons.
I used to smoke so would just smoke during my break time. I stopped 6 years ago and since then I've carried on not having food at work.
I think one of the other reasons is that when sat in an environment, surrounded by people eating, the overstimulation with my sensory issues is far, far too much. I become agitated and leave the room.
Another reason is simply that I don't like having a proper meal throughout the day until tea time, so I'd just take snacky food. This could be like chicken satay or a pack of chicken pieces, maybe a pack of crisp and orange etc and people would comment on it.
I really did not like that so I guess the easier answer was not to put myself in that environment and eat in front of others incase they say sometimes.
I am VERY fussy with food and will not eat any vegetables, apart from a select few mixed in with food. I.e. lasagne, spaghetti bol etc
I definitely have ARFID and I hate it when people try push new foods onto me or whatever they are eating. It just makes me push back even further.
My mum has always made comments about my weight and what I eat, right from being like 11 or 12. It's no wonder I grew up with a unhealthy obsession with my body and dieting.
She's not even noticed that I've lost 45lb, yet a lot of others have 🙄