Hi all, not sure if I've posted on this set of threads yet, but I've been lurking. I had about nine stone to lose when I started in March, and have now lost 3 stone 10 pounds of that, I'm post menopausal, and was pre diabetic and insulin resistant, so it's slower for me than some but it feels good to be going in the right direction.
I was very interested in the conversation on the last thread started by @RobinEllacotStrike about the damage slimming clubs can do. I used to go to Slimming World every few years for a while, lose a stone or two, then put it all back on plus more.
One of the things that, in retrospect, was most damaging for me was when someone asked a question about what to do about going to a wedding at the weekend and being tempted. The group leader turned to the group and said 'What do we do, girls', and the group chanted back 'Eat before you go'. 'Yes', the leader said 'So then you're not hungry and won't be tempted'. Such a ridiculous notion, my temptation and food addiction was nothing to do with being hungry, I just craved food. Unfortunately that stayed with me for years and I still think to myself before I leave the house 'have I eaten enough', 'should I take a snack with me'. It's been a hard habit to break and at the beginning of my journey I took a protein shake with me 'just in case'. I think after seven months I have now realised that I don't need to be afraid of hunger, when I'm hungry I can eat, I'm not wanting high calorie, high carb food, but something nutritious will be just fine.
Good luck all of you on your journeys, I think I'm on this for life as the lack of food noise is so liberating!