Starry, I’m Mum and Nana to quite a few loved ones who are dyslexic, and I’m quite dismayed by your comment. Of course being dyslexic can impact people. Some are affected more seriously than others, but it absolutely can have an impact.
It’s not related to IQ, but it can make learning considerably more difficult and, as a result, some people may never reach their full potential. And it’s not simply about reading, which is what many people seem to think. Dyslexia is complex and can affect many different areas of a person’s life.
A person can also be dyslexic while having other neurodivergent co-occurring conditions. ADHD, for example, is a common co-occurring condition.
I’m sitting here thinking about where two generations of my older loved ones have reached in life, despite the heroic struggles they faced at school and beyond, while at the same time thinking about the struggles the youngest generation of my family, who are dyslexic, are facing day in and day out, both in school and outside it. And then there are the parents and extended family who support them through those daily struggles.
A few little stories for you.
Being dyslexic can affect memory and sequencing. My youngest daughter knew her times tables by rote when she was about six because she’d heard them so often while we were teaching them to her big brother, who was about 12 at the time. He’s now a highly qualified engineer, but what he went through to get there would make your eyes water.
Then there’s my granddaughter, who is now almost an architect. She came home from university this summer and very excitedly told me, “Hey Nana, guess what? I can now tell my left from my right without even thinking about it!”
I said, “So does that mean you don’t have to paint a different colour of nail polish on each thumb when you’re showjumping anymore?”
Without that little strategy, she wouldn’t have managed around the course, despite walking it repeatedly beforehand to memorise it.
So when you say that Harry’s dyslexia shouldn’t impact him, do you realise that, in effect, you’re saying that dyslexia shouldn’t impact anyone who is dyslexic?
Because that simply isn’t how it works. Dyslexia affects people in different ways and to different degrees, and for some, the impact can be profound.
https://www.bdadyslexia.org.uk/advice/adults/am-i-dyslexic/signs-of-dyslexia
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/dyslexia/symptoms-causes/syc-20353552