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jeffgoldblum · 18/09/2026 21:22

Still interested, still not bored!

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Thedom · 20/09/2026 15:09

diddl · 20/09/2026 14:01

I'm sure I read that after seeing them at Althorp in the Summer CS wasn't impressed with them?

Can you just imagine the dynamics of Harry, Meghan and Charles Spencer?

All 3 of them falling out with close family. Wouldn’t be backing any of those three having a close and reliable familial bond.

AlexandraCarrington · 20/09/2026 15:12

I’m just waiting for her to turn up in Diana’s revenge dress at some point in the near future

I hope W has been able to do a private deal on that.

diddl · 20/09/2026 15:14

Thedom · 20/09/2026 15:09

Can you just imagine the dynamics of Harry, Meghan and Charles Spencer?

All 3 of them falling out with close family. Wouldn’t be backing any of those three having a close and reliable familial bond.

I can't find anything to back it up though so maybe I imagined it?

Thedom · 20/09/2026 15:18

diddl · 20/09/2026 15:14

I can't find anything to back it up though so maybe I imagined it?

It wouldnt surprise me in the least, they are always causing fights within their families, so I don’t think it would be any different between the three of them either.

Butteredtoast55 · 20/09/2026 15:21

jumpintheline · 19/09/2026 18:38

Oh to clarify this is what was said on the Palace Confidential podcast. Could be a load of rubbish but their speculation was, HAM would have to be invited.

I don’t agree!

but I do think, if they are not, it gives them a victim card to play.

I think the carol concert is easy...the guest list would have been drawn up ages ago. It takes place and is filmed in early December and there are VT sections that are filmed well in advance (I know this because I know someone who was invited and was part of the VT sections). So it could be said that their surprise return in very late August would preclude them from being invited.
It's unlikely they'll still be here next year but, assuming they are, I think they'd be invited because Catherine has a degree of maturity and graciousness that they really don't deserve. However, it would be made very clear it's a public event and there's be no pandering to hiding anyone's faces from shot. Then it's up to them.
Mind you, they may well have sold images of the children before then.

PullTheBricksDown · 20/09/2026 15:21

Starryfifty · 20/09/2026 15:02

The cancerous remark is absolutely vile. HAM are unbelievably stupid. They NEED the RF. CS does not. HAM have scuppered absolutely any chance of some sort of relationship with KC now

This is the puzzling thing (again). I wouldn't behave like this to someone I wanted to build bridges with, but - even more importantly - who I might want a favour from any time remotely soon. Something like, ooh, cash to pay off my massive legal bills, or an invitation to a high prestige family event, or for someone who is a VIP to agree to appear at my upcoming event. Any of those randomly chosen examples, really.

Viviennemary · 20/09/2026 15:22

PlotTwistPending · 20/09/2026 13:12

I just cannot believe the audacity of Meghan putting a swan emoji on her latest post! What the fuck is wrong with her?

Every time they I think they can’t sink any further, they do!

I mean what does she think will happen? I’m beginning to think she is trolling the UK! It’s a never ending soap opera!

There is no way they can last 12 months here in the UK. Surely they are social pariahs?

Waiting with interest to see if she turns up to the WellChild event tomorrow. Wish we could do poll. My money is on No - she won’t attend.

I think she will attend although I hope she doesn't. Maybd she has gone back to the US. Wouldnt be surprised.

fantom · 20/09/2026 15:25

where was the swan emoji? I missed it. was it on a story?

Cismyfatarse · 20/09/2026 15:34

AlexandraCarrington · 20/09/2026 15:12

I’m just waiting for her to turn up in Diana’s revenge dress at some point in the near future

I hope W has been able to do a private deal on that.

The dress is currently (or about to) go on sale.

Princess Diana's 'revenge dress' goes up for auction https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0lrk7d7j0no

British royal Diana, Princess of Wales (1961-1997) wearing a black Christina Stambolian dress, attends a Vanity Fair party at the Serpentine Gallery in London, England, 20th November 1994.

Princess Diana's 'revenge dress' goes up for auction

Auction house Sotheby's expects the dress to sell for up to $300,000 (£220,000) when it goes under the hammer on 9 December.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c0lrk7d7j0no

AlexandraCarrington · 20/09/2026 15:39

The dress is currently (or about to) go on sale.

I know - that's why I said I hope W has been able to do a private deal.

Noodledog · 20/09/2026 15:39

Butteredtoast55 · 20/09/2026 15:21

I think the carol concert is easy...the guest list would have been drawn up ages ago. It takes place and is filmed in early December and there are VT sections that are filmed well in advance (I know this because I know someone who was invited and was part of the VT sections). So it could be said that their surprise return in very late August would preclude them from being invited.
It's unlikely they'll still be here next year but, assuming they are, I think they'd be invited because Catherine has a degree of maturity and graciousness that they really don't deserve. However, it would be made very clear it's a public event and there's be no pandering to hiding anyone's faces from shot. Then it's up to them.
Mind you, they may well have sold images of the children before then.

I think it would be a big mistake to allow H and M any entry whatsoever into RF events, no matter how small.They are not normal people with normal attitudes to personal relationships, and they wouldn't see it as a polite and gracious invitation, they would see as a victory and a vindication of all the lies and hurt they have caused. I don't think there is any perfect solution for the RF, but I think the best would to just keep distant from them and try to ignore the digs and provocations as much as possible.

bluegreygreen · 20/09/2026 15:40

PullTheBricksDown · 20/09/2026 15:21

This is the puzzling thing (again). I wouldn't behave like this to someone I wanted to build bridges with, but - even more importantly - who I might want a favour from any time remotely soon. Something like, ooh, cash to pay off my massive legal bills, or an invitation to a high prestige family event, or for someone who is a VIP to agree to appear at my upcoming event. Any of those randomly chosen examples, really.

They have a history of being very short-sighted.

Irememberwhenitwasallfieldsroundhere · 20/09/2026 15:44

WilliamsExtraSausage · 19/09/2026 23:30

Allegedly the Birmingham parents are complaining because the consent forms were only the standard universal ones signed at the beginning of the school year.

That doesn’t surprise me at all.

Cismyfatarse · 20/09/2026 15:56

AlexandraCarrington · 20/09/2026 15:39

The dress is currently (or about to) go on sale.

I know - that's why I said I hope W has been able to do a private deal.

Sorry.

Lifestooshort71 · 20/09/2026 16:00

I'm not sure about the significance of the swan cos I don't think M does things quite as nuanced as that, she's more of an in-your-face sort - more likely to be seen pedalling one of those massive birds on a lake somewhere!
(not sure nuanced is the right word...)

jeffgoldblum · 20/09/2026 16:03

look familiar?!

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BemusedAmerican · 20/09/2026 16:06

AlexandraCarrington · 20/09/2026 12:31

Probably not so much wanting to bring down the monarchy but the current monarch and 1st in line and his family

What justification would there be for removing William? Other than that he got an extra sausage?

Changing the line of succession to exclude William, George, Charlotte and Louis would require Parliamentary legislation in the UK and in all the other countries which still have the King as Head of State. That's not going to happen, is it.

I've looked at hundreds of online comments in the last month. 99 percent support William and Catherine, who are intelligently keeping their mouths shuts and working.

I did just watch Tom Bower, who O love, on the Mark Dolan show. He advised W & C to be more visible, keep on working, and not to comment to show up HAM & CS. They should take his advice.

Edited for typo.

PullTheBricksDown · 20/09/2026 16:12

bluegreygreen · 20/09/2026 15:40

They have a history of being very short-sighted.

And an inability to learn from past experience

twosmallaxolotls · 20/09/2026 16:14

jeffgoldblum · 20/09/2026 16:03

look familiar?!

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Irememberwhenitwasallfieldsroundhere · 20/09/2026 16:20

Well, I'm finally up to date with these threads!

As someone else said, every time I think they couldn’t sink any lower, down they go.

Not only are they terrible parents, they’re also delusional, entitled and grabby.

Just like Charles Spencer it seems. No wonder his children don’t all speak to him, what a vile man. Poor Charles, Camilla, William and Catherine.

RastaMouse99 · 20/09/2026 16:21

diddl · 20/09/2026 14:01

I'm sure I read that after seeing them at Althorp in the Summer CS wasn't impressed with them?

This is pure gossip. CS wouldn't have told anyone that.
Most of all of this is gossip. Even CS' book is mostly bollocks. The only hard evidence is that kid being unimpressed with old Hazbean.
(Back to the original comment: I'm sure CS wasn't impressed with them, but I'm not impressed with him, so - back to Hot Fuzz - swings and roundabouts, innit?)
Edited for typo

AcrossthePond55 · 20/09/2026 16:23

Whoopiedooo · 20/09/2026 12:15

The more I think about it the more an upcoming split/divorce seems to explain everything.
Specifically it explains why the unsettling start for the children as soon as they arrive seems so absurd that it must be intentional, not just for a newsworthy narrative, but so that they genuinely won't like it here. It's not unlikely that she led the school choosing etc.
Harry is doing his best with no support - she doesn't even accompany him to things that she normally would. His unsupported best is not going to be good enough, at least outside of Invictus. When he left the RF support behind he did so into an alternative power and decision structure, and would never have just stepped out on his own.
He probably knows he has to make this work but doesn't know how to, and she doesn't actually want him to so is the opposite of a help.

Posters saying she is waiting for the inheritance, do they mean waiting for KC to die? Or is there something else that Harry is entitled to at some future point that would feature in a divorce settlement or child support deal?
Would a divorce be under UK or USA jurisdiction, or is that the choice of the person who begins the process? Does Harry actually have income other than from KC or is it all capital?

@Whoopiedooo

I can answer a few of your questions (I'm a lifelong resident of California and, shall we say, familiar with the system).

Would a divorce be under UK or USA jurisdiction, or is that the choice of the person who begins the process?

In order to get a divorce in California, you must be physically residing in the state for 6 months, and in the county of filing for 3. Owning real estate (ie the Montecito place) doesn't meet that qualification. One way around that is to file for a legal separation, there is still residency, but no time restriction. The financial & child custody/support (US terms) rules in a separation is identical to those for divorce. Meghan could leave tomorrow and file for a separation the next day. It could then be converted to divorce proceedings once she's been here 6 months.

HOWEVER, filing here may not be to her advantage.

Posters saying she is waiting for the inheritance, do they mean waiting for KC to die......Or is there something else that would feature in a divorce settlement or child support deal?

In California, inheritances are NOT community property unless they are 'commingled with joint funds' or 'used for family needs', no matter when they are received. If there were to be an inheritance she would be SoL unless Harry put the money in joint funds or used some of the money directly on family needs. There have also been cases where a spouse has left soon after an inheritance is put in joint funds and a judge has ruled that they are not entitled to a part of it due to the timing. As long as Harry (or his advisors) are smart enough to keep any inheritance completely separate from joint funds and he doesn't use any of it, it will not feature in a divorce settlement. But I'd say the chances of that, especially the 'not using it' part, are nil.

An inheritance itself is NOT used to calculate child support. Income generated by it is. Distributions from an inheritance based trust might be (grey area). And judges do have leeway/discretion in cases of extreme wealth. Judges have been known to award a large one time lump sum designated as specifically to be used for the child(ren), as well as ordering ongoing payments.

I'm sure if M is contemplating divorce or legal separation, she is savvy enough to have already quietly sought both US and UK legal advice and will already know all this.

Whoopiedooo · 20/09/2026 16:42

Thanks @AcrossthePond55 does that mean if he got a £20million inheritance and used £10,000 of it for his family, the entire £20million would become joint funds in the eyes of the judge? I think in England (potentially not in Scotland) inheritances are joint by default, but happy to be corrected.

DancingFerret · 20/09/2026 16:44

jeffgoldblum · 20/09/2026 16:03

look familiar?!

Very familiar. Markle copied Diana from the outset in her bid to snare and keep chained dim-but-not-so-nice Harry.

https://www.reddit.com/r/SaintMeghanMarkle/comments/10ljd24/was_harry_a_mark_meghan_cosplaying_diana_down_to/

Boudy · 20/09/2026 16:52

I am😲at the Rwanda photo. Blimmin heck!

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