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The royal family

PR Disasters Chapter 15

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FenellaFeldman · 31/05/2026 22:26

The saga continues

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Ramburg · 04/06/2026 13:05

StrawberryWasp · 04/06/2026 12:53

I've said it before but I'll say it again:

Not showing children's faces does not negate the potential damage of exposing your child on social media, or of using them to build your brand.

You are still using them and their image, their childhood, their personal experiences to promote yourself, and exposing them to the scrutiny of the world.
All without their consent and all out there forever.

It's bloody ridiculous to pretend the only potential damage is from being recognised in RL. It's not. It's from your life being mined and exposed for content.

It's such a faux nod to safeguarding which allows parents to continue to exploit their children.
It actually makes me angry.

I agree - they have laid out a jigsaw of images and info over the years to build a picture of their DCs in order to flog As Ever UPFs and tat. Monetising their own DCs on a global platform whilst pontificating to others about the dangers of SM. There is a PP on here who has spoken about the distress and discomfort that her own mother caused her by sharing ‘snippets’ of her childhood as a not very high profile journalist.

The reality must be that H&M have nothing else to say if they have to resort to this.

StrawberryWasp · 04/06/2026 13:05

AtIusvue · 04/06/2026 12:59

I’m not sure why they would not want Archie to be photographed. He always seems presentable.

Harry at the polo the other day, im 99% sure Archie was there as you can see a red head boy of similar size to Archie in one of the pics. As usual, wandering alone ….but he seemed perfectly smart.

It's getting hard to avoid the speculation that there is a reason Archie does not appear as much as Lili.

Which is absolutely shit for the child. And entirely his parents fault.

This type of speculation and narrative will grow and future photo releases used to build narratives about the children.

All because their parents want to be in the public eye.

It's shit parenting.

BasiliskStare · 04/06/2026 13:05

@CathyorClaire I was never a Dire Straights fan - I think to DS it's a bit "retro". Anyway I like your thinking - re R&J

I can't do the talks like Pa talks on the TV
And I can't do a charity like the way it's meant to be
I can't do anything but I'll do anything for you
I can't do anything except be in thrall to you

Anyway back to the point - M claiming she's protecting those children online is just brassed necked . Between all those photos it wouldn't be hard for someone determined create a reasonable impression of at least Lily. & as a pp said - there is no reason whatsoever for them to release a birthday photo. They are of no realistic constitutional importance. Also , sorry if it has been mentioned , but what do they say to those children when older about not uploading all and sundry when M must on a very regular basis be saying - " right there , no turn your head a bit , smell the flowers and "got it!" Oh no one more time ... " She is normalising oversharing on SM in a way which will become ingrained in those two children. So - trying to hide their faces just doesn't cut it for me. (And obviously many many others)

Lunde · 04/06/2026 13:06

tinyspiny · 04/06/2026 11:55

Is this the point though ,that they are promoting the second born to make the point that the second born is just as important and not a spare . The problem being that they’ve gone too far and made it look like total favouritism .

TBH, I think Lili is being lined up to be marketed as "Diana's granddaughter" or "the new Diana"

IcedPurple · 04/06/2026 13:07

Lunde · 04/06/2026 13:06

TBH, I think Lili is being lined up to be marketed as "Diana's granddaughter" or "the new Diana"

Problem is, nobody much under the age of 50 cares about Diana.

tinyspiny · 04/06/2026 13:11

IcedPurple · 04/06/2026 13:07

Problem is, nobody much under the age of 50 cares about Diana.

I’m over 50 and I don’t care about Diana

StrawberryWasp · 04/06/2026 13:17

IcedPurple · 04/06/2026 13:07

Problem is, nobody much under the age of 50 cares about Diana.

It's weird to realise this isn't it?

My kids (20's) barely know anything about her and really don't care.

She was so iconic for us over 50's it's hard to appreciate this.

And it's not like old bands, or music, or films which can get cool cult status with a younger generation: there are no Princess Di T shirts or posters on the walls of uni kids.

She has no ongoing cultural influence. I think the last of that was Harry's wedding when those of us who remembered her thought 'Diana's boy is getting married' Beyond that no one cares anymore.

She's just the dead mother of Prince William. The interest is going to be in Williams kids as they become adults, not in his mother.

Treylime · 04/06/2026 13:25

Harry does look alarmingly bald in that photo. They normally try to hide/photoshop it on the photos they put out but M now seems to be releasing a lot of bad photos of him

BasiliskStare · 04/06/2026 13:25

IcedPurple · 04/06/2026 13:07

Problem is, nobody much under the age of 50 cares about Diana.

I agree. I think for people like me in their 60s Diana is a bit - Saw that at the time no longer interested. As @StrawberryWasp says , my DS is in his early 30s and she is sort of recent history ,knows who she is , but has no resonance. I think H&M have rather missed the boat if they think Lily is going to be the 2nd Diana. Of course H will miss his mother ( as will William) but there is only so long you can make talking about your mother a job, and I think H has exhausted that.

IcedPurple · 04/06/2026 13:26

StrawberryWasp · 04/06/2026 13:17

It's weird to realise this isn't it?

My kids (20's) barely know anything about her and really don't care.

She was so iconic for us over 50's it's hard to appreciate this.

And it's not like old bands, or music, or films which can get cool cult status with a younger generation: there are no Princess Di T shirts or posters on the walls of uni kids.

She has no ongoing cultural influence. I think the last of that was Harry's wedding when those of us who remembered her thought 'Diana's boy is getting married' Beyond that no one cares anymore.

She's just the dead mother of Prince William. The interest is going to be in Williams kids as they become adults, not in his mother.

The kind of global superstardom Diana had doesn't exist anymore. And the media environment has totally changed too. As has the role of the royal family in British culture. Even if Diana were young and married into the royals today, there would be nowhere near the same level of interest in her as there was back then.

Basically, you had to be there! If you weren't, you won't 'get' it.

Frankly, the fact of being Diana's granddaughter is of very little interest. Especially as Diana has another granddaughter who is going to play a role in British public life, and who isn't hidden away with selective glimpses of half her face or a random limb.

Treylime · 04/06/2026 13:28

i think Harry will be talking about Diana for many years to come.

Ohpleeeease · 04/06/2026 13:46

Treylime · 04/06/2026 13:28

i think Harry will be talking about Diana for many years to come.

He will, and it will do her memory no good at all.

Mylovelygreendress · 04/06/2026 13:52

ShamedBySiri · 04/06/2026 12:38

Allegedly Charles Spencer took a day out from his honeymoon to visit Montecito (wonder if took a private jet). If he did I suspect it was to pour cold water in their plans for a documentary about Diana and let them know there would be no Spencer cooperation or access to archives etc.

I wonder if Meghan made some scones for tea….

https://apple.news/AgmnWZCSUQoq8InU6rBx-iA

I would imagine William would do everything in his considerable power to stop any documentary.

Aprilfountain · 04/06/2026 13:59

Treylime · 04/06/2026 13:28

i think Harry will be talking about Diana for many years to come.

It's his USP for the rest of his life and he's certainly taking full advantage of it!

Irememberwhenitwasallfieldsroundhere · 04/06/2026 14:04

The whole idea of them making a Diana documentary is abhorrent. I hope the article about Charles Spencer telling them off is true. And the idea of getting sealed files unsealed, for what? Monetisation? It's disgusting.

I'm over 50 too and I don't care about Diana although I remember her and her death and the feeling at the time.

I think if they do try to make a Diana documentary it might unleash William, who I would fully expect to be furious and let that be known. She was his mother too.

SlayTheJAway · 04/06/2026 14:15

tengreencats · 04/06/2026 10:57

She must be up in the night to post this to hit the UK press in the morning 🙄

Or she could just schedule it like loads of people do

MyDogClive · 04/06/2026 14:19

I was pregnant when Diana died. That child is now 28. As pp have said, she had no meaning to anyone below the age of thirty and her Grandchildren certainly won’t be of interest unless they become famous in their own right.

I’m also not so sure that H&M are relatable or interesting to the younger generation themselves.

FenellaFeldman · 04/06/2026 14:24

Aprilfountain · 04/06/2026 13:59

It's his USP for the rest of his life and he's certainly taking full advantage of it!

What else has he got to offer?

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FenellaFeldman · 04/06/2026 14:26

Lunde · 04/06/2026 13:06

TBH, I think Lili is being lined up to be marketed as "Diana's granddaughter" or "the new Diana"

Of course. Plus, in spite of certain wild claims on the previous thread, the name Lilibet is both very uncommon and very identifiable.

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BasiliskStare · 04/06/2026 14:27

I think I'm right in that after the 20 year anniversary documentary about her life both W&H said that would be the last time they spoke openly about her.

But then H told his grandmother he and M wouldn't trade on their royal titles so - whatever , I suppose.

MrsLeonFarrell · 04/06/2026 14:33

At the time she died public perception was really changing around Diana. I'm pretty sure the public outpouring was partly because there had been quite a lot of criticism about her recent choices. Them she died and we were told by the press we had to treat her like a saint.

But she didn't really have lasting historical or cultural significance and, like most celebrities and royal wives, is being forgotten. If Harry and Meghan think she is their future they are mistaken, again.

bluegreygreen · 04/06/2026 14:44

Agree, @MrsLeonFarrell.

I have read from at least one PR person on here, and have heard elsewhere, that the early Sunday papers were withdrawn in a hurry that morning, as they were very critical of Diana.

(As an aside - imagine that being able to happen these days, in the era of social media news!)

ShamedBySiri · 04/06/2026 14:46

MyDogClive · 04/06/2026 14:19

I was pregnant when Diana died. That child is now 28. As pp have said, she had no meaning to anyone below the age of thirty and her Grandchildren certainly won’t be of interest unless they become famous in their own right.

I’m also not so sure that H&M are relatable or interesting to the younger generation themselves.

Same! I was in the shower and DH burst in to say Damian and that bloke are dead. I couldn’t believe it.

FenellaFeldman · 04/06/2026 14:47

ShamedBySiri · 04/06/2026 14:46

Same! I was in the shower and DH burst in to say Damian and that bloke are dead. I couldn’t believe it.

Eh? Damian and what bloke?
I think Mother Teresa died at the same time.

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ShamedBySiri · 04/06/2026 14:49

BasiliskStare · 04/06/2026 14:27

I think I'm right in that after the 20 year anniversary documentary about her life both W&H said that would be the last time they spoke openly about her.

But then H told his grandmother he and M wouldn't trade on their royal titles so - whatever , I suppose.

Yes they did say that.

I agree William will be unleashed plus it will be a very thin documentary as Harry hardly remembers her and I would expect a total lack of cooperation and access to archives from anyone who matters.