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Royals attending high profile events - business as usual or tone deaf?

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lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 09:29

Over the past week Charles has been at London Fashion Week, Kate at the rugby and her and William at the BAFTAS. They may have attended other things, I don't know.

These are all very high profile events. the sort of thing my late mum would've described as 'glitzy' so I suppose not the less glam outings, or charity events.
In light of the fact no official statement has gone out from the BP, do you think it's appropriate they're still attending this sort of thing, or it's a bit tone deaf considering the conversations happening about the future of the monarchy, how much Charles already knew about Andrew etc?

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lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:00

VanCleefArpels · 23/02/2026 09:47

Why do so many people appear to take the view that KC3 and William are somehow responsible for AMW actions or should in some way atone for his misdeeds? There’s no evidence that the King knew anything about recent revelations (indeed it’s been reported he advised against AMW getting the trade role at the outset). There’s no evidence they had a close brotherly relationship - unlikely given what we know of their interests and character. William was a teenager when all this was going on - why on earth would he be seen as involved in any way?? It’s completely pathetic to argue they should let down the people and organisations that will have spent many weeks organising visits.

None of us are our brother’s keeper and all that .

I mean he did know though...

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15581065/Email-proves-Charles-warned-brothers-Whistleblower-Palace-Royal-Family-Andrew.html (Daily Mail so people might not want to open but you can see from the headlines what happened)

Also William will have been well aware of the allegations for years now, I mean we all have.

Email proves King was warned about his brother Andrew's 'secret deals'

In a bombshell email, a whistleblower told the Palace that the former Duke had secret financial links to controversial millionaire financier David Rowland, who was abusing his royal links.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15581065/Email-proves-Charles-warned-brothers-Whistleblower-Palace-Royal-Family-Andrew.html

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Mylovelygreendress · 23/02/2026 10:03

Topbobble · 23/02/2026 09:50

We all know full well that they would be criticised either way by people who dislike them and will use any excuse to bash them. If they didnt attend the same people moaning now would be asking why they feel they need to hide away.

Exactly . And we would have a rerun of Where’s Kate? Lazy Kate and William etc .
The legal process could take months/ years . Are they supposed to hideaway permanently?

maskymask · 23/02/2026 10:04

Exactly . And we would have a rerun of Where’s Kate? Lazy Kate and William

Going to the Bafta’s & sports stuff wont stop the lazy accusations

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:05

Mylovelygreendress · 23/02/2026 10:03

Exactly . And we would have a rerun of Where’s Kate? Lazy Kate and William etc .
The legal process could take months/ years . Are they supposed to hideaway permanently?

So going to the BAFTAs makes you think they're some way not lazy?

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AfternoonTeaAddict · 23/02/2026 10:06

That's part of their job. Whether one agrees that it is a real job is not really the point. It's what they do. And PW is the chair of the BAFTas so it would be pretty off to not turn up.

I think they have more pressures on them as individuals than they are given credit for. But the perks of the lifestyle certainly make up for it thousand-fold.

YourFluentQuoter · 23/02/2026 10:07

It's their jobs.

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:07

maskymask · 23/02/2026 10:04

Exactly . And we would have a rerun of Where’s Kate? Lazy Kate and William

Going to the Bafta’s & sports stuff wont stop the lazy accusations

Exactly.

While it's not their fault how their uncle has acted they could start to do / attend events that maybe showed there was some self reflection within the family as a whole.

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Sesma · 23/02/2026 10:07

It's their job.

Sweetiedarling7 · 23/02/2026 10:08

They are sticking to pre-agreed arrangements. It would be rude to let people down and none of them has done anything wrong.

Sesma · 23/02/2026 10:09

If my relative had done bad things I would still expect to go to work

Mylovelygreendress · 23/02/2026 10:10

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:07

Exactly.

While it's not their fault how their uncle has acted they could start to do / attend events that maybe showed there was some self reflection within the family as a whole.

So which events would you find acceptable?
They are invited to events . They go. It’s their job .,

FairKoala · 23/02/2026 10:11

Hilllbillbilly · 23/02/2026 09:30

It’s typical of the royals, head down business as usual.

These things were probably booked a year ago and cancelling would be worse.

These aren’t some last minute thing just for fun.

FuzzyWolf · 23/02/2026 10:11

It has to be business as usual. They can’t stop because someone who used to be in the royal family is being investigated or in the media.

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:13

Maybe it's just me then ;)

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MirrorMirror1247 · 23/02/2026 10:15

William is the president of BAFTA. He kind of had to be there......

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:18

MirrorMirror1247 · 23/02/2026 10:15

William is the president of BAFTA. He kind of had to be there......

I don't think he went last year though... I might be wrong.

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Paganpentacle · 23/02/2026 10:19

VanCleefArpels · 23/02/2026 09:47

Why do so many people appear to take the view that KC3 and William are somehow responsible for AMW actions or should in some way atone for his misdeeds? There’s no evidence that the King knew anything about recent revelations (indeed it’s been reported he advised against AMW getting the trade role at the outset). There’s no evidence they had a close brotherly relationship - unlikely given what we know of their interests and character. William was a teenager when all this was going on - why on earth would he be seen as involved in any way?? It’s completely pathetic to argue they should let down the people and organisations that will have spent many weeks organising visits.

None of us are our brother’s keeper and all that .

Exactly this.
What should they be doing- wearing a horse hair vest and flagellating themselves?

FairKoala · 23/02/2026 10:20

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 09:55

TBH - I don't really know and I do actually find the money spent on jewels, frocks and palaces a bit distasteful anyway.

DSis thinks it's fine and think BAU is definitely the right way for them to go about things.

If anything I don’t see any member of the royal family as being extravagant. (Apart from Meghan and Sarah, are they still considered to be royal?) I don’t think it’s in their nature.

Charles isn’t pulling down a wing of a perfectly good royal residence and erecting something that resembles an Olive Garden.

I also don’t see Kate Camilla, Sophie or Anne etc as being extravagant clothes horses. They always appear to be in outfits that will be brought out again sometimes years later

It’s a mixture of showing off British designers recycling outfits already seen by the general public and wearing outfits that are loaned for £0 to them

Paganpentacle · 23/02/2026 10:20

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:07

Exactly.

While it's not their fault how their uncle has acted they could start to do / attend events that maybe showed there was some self reflection within the family as a whole.

By doing what, exactly?

YourFluentQuoter · 23/02/2026 10:21

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:07

Exactly.

While it's not their fault how their uncle has acted they could start to do / attend events that maybe showed there was some self reflection within the family as a whole.

It's part of their jobs. It's their duties. They are a family but also an organisation working for the crown.

If it was a senior NHS/Police/MP or other public role, would you expect them to stop working to demonstrate 'self-reflection' after a family member who also worked for the organisation but is now sacked was arrested?

No. And you also wouldn't expect them to make comments outside of official statements.

SpringsOnTheWay · 23/02/2026 10:21

Absolutely should carry on.
people prepare for months for these visits it’s not fair to pull the plug with hours or days to go.

SpringsOnTheWay · 23/02/2026 10:22

Saying or doing anything more seriously compromises a fair trial.
his lawyer is already going to have a field day on this, as I’m not sure how he’s going to get one.

Traceysgoingtobelivid · 23/02/2026 10:25

lindabysteven · 23/02/2026 10:05

So going to the BAFTAs makes you think they're some way not lazy?

He’s the fucking President of BAFTA for gods sake, this trying to pin Andrew’s crimes on every member of the RF is so tedious, there are a loads of other threads blaming Charles, William, Anne, Edward, join in in one of those pitchfork threads, you don’t need to start another one.

Hoolahoophop · 23/02/2026 10:26

While it's not their fault how their uncle has acted they could start to do / attend events that maybe showed there was some self reflection within the family as a whole.

Like what?

They attend events they are invited to, and which align with their individual areas. They cant all go chasing the same causes

So KC has always been passionate about the environment, sustainable farming, UK farming etc. He is also big on arts, he's a sensitive sole not really a warrior king.

PrincessofW has decided early years is her thing.

PrinceofW is going hard on the environment, maybe a bit of a crossover with his Dad there.

QC I know she likes books! She also supports causes around domestic and sexual violence.

DuchessesofE supports women's rights and has had some visits abroad in support of women victims which is truly harrowing and should have been given more air time than it was as it could have been used to bring so much more attention to the dire lives some women are forced to live, mostly due to male violence.

DukeofE is young people based.

Princess Anne seems to just to anything any everything she is asked to!

Just because Andrew has been caught out in his despicable behavior it doesn't mean the family should give up any support of the environment and become campaigners for justice for the women who were victims of Epstein and his cronies. Just leave QC and Duchess of E to continue their work all women victims as they have been doing.

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