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"He loves me so boldly...." - Haarpers Interview with Meghan

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Phase42 · 20/11/2025 09:53

https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/film-tv/a69289143/meghan-markle-cover-story-interview-2025/

She's a beautiful woman but i can't understand why she just doesn't drop the titles and be herself. And it's odd how she talks about how much 'H' loves her but not how much she loves him.

Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex, Meets Her Moment

After years of being subsumed by other people’s narratives, she's ready to author her own next chapter

https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/film-tv/a69289143/meghan-markle-cover-story-interview-2025/

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RedTagAlan · 21/11/2025 17:45

sequinpanties · 21/11/2025 17:10

She's wasn't at NW as such. She was at the NW School of Communication I believe. Just a bit different.

I know a guy , not UK, who done a course at a local technical college in one of the UK University Cities. I think Oxford. It looked good on his CV back in his home country :-)

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:46

jeffgoldblum · 21/11/2025 17:32

The etiquette expert named Myka Meier, who is originally from Florida but married a Swiss guy, and has USA/BRIT citizenship apparently is the person assuring American readers ( it wouldn’t work on us !) that using and announcing titles as you enter a (empty) room is perfectly normal!

What utter nonsense.
Plus: someone living in the USA, hasn't been a working royal for 5 years, meets a journalist in a room and has someone announcing her arrival using her title?!
Why no trumpeters? Their day off?

jeffgoldblum · 21/11/2025 17:50

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:46

What utter nonsense.
Plus: someone living in the USA, hasn't been a working royal for 5 years, meets a journalist in a room and has someone announcing her arrival using her title?!
Why no trumpeters? Their day off?

Oh don’t worry fenella ! American magazines and their readers are not as un knowledgable about these things as Meghan thinks! , not to mention the fact that having titles is simply not the American way.

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:53

jeffgoldblum · 21/11/2025 17:50

Oh don’t worry fenella ! American magazines and their readers are not as un knowledgable about these things as Meghan thinks! , not to mention the fact that having titles is simply not the American way.

I do wonder about that. A proudly republican nation, surely they're not going to kowtow to jobless former royals?
Bizarre.

jeffgoldblum · 21/11/2025 17:57

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:53

I do wonder about that. A proudly republican nation, surely they're not going to kowtow to jobless former royals?
Bizarre.

No they won’t, sure some will be impressed but mostly it’s a courtesy and being polite! , it’s why they criticise Meghan more than Harry , he was born a U.K. prince, son of Diana.
meghan was an unknown American actress, she will not be afforded the same respect or tolerance.

wordler · 21/11/2025 18:03

A lot of Americans are a variety of amused or interested by European titles but usually only impressed if it comes with significant wealth etc.

The Duchess of York has been doing the rounds across various wealthy circles for years over here raising funds for various charities.

Probably not anymore.

JSMill · 21/11/2025 18:04

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:46

What utter nonsense.
Plus: someone living in the USA, hasn't been a working royal for 5 years, meets a journalist in a room and has someone announcing her arrival using her title?!
Why no trumpeters? Their day off?

When I read that I did have an image of a row of trumpeters in my head!

BigWillyLittleTodger · 21/11/2025 18:16

That New York Post article! 🔥🔥🔥

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 18:26

Without the title she does have a bit of a name problem.

She might want to be know by Sussex but it isn’t her official surname, it’s a short form of “Duchess of…”.

So her choices are her maiden name of Markle or her married name of Mountbatten Windsor.

Tricky.

VanessaSanessa · 21/11/2025 18:33

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 17:46

What utter nonsense.
Plus: someone living in the USA, hasn't been a working royal for 5 years, meets a journalist in a room and has someone announcing her arrival using her title?!
Why no trumpeters? Their day off?

Plus someone who is meant to be a major feminist has now linked her entire identity to her husband's family. Bizarre.

And not to mention that said family were racist and horrible to her.

thenightsky · 21/11/2025 18:37

VanessaSanessa · 21/11/2025 18:33

Plus someone who is meant to be a major feminist has now linked her entire identity to her husband's family. Bizarre.

And not to mention that said family were racist and horrible to her.

That's what I don't get. Has she done an about turn on the feminism thing? If so, what does Glo have to say about that?

VanessaSanessa · 21/11/2025 18:40

thenightsky · 21/11/2025 18:37

That's what I don't get. Has she done an about turn on the feminism thing? If so, what does Glo have to say about that?

I don't think anyone gets to call them out on anything. I would imagine if you did that you are cut off straight away.

NewAgeNewMe · 21/11/2025 18:41

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 18:26

Without the title she does have a bit of a name problem.

She might want to be know by Sussex but it isn’t her official surname, it’s a short form of “Duchess of…”.

So her choices are her maiden name of Markle or her married name of Mountbatten Windsor.

Tricky.

Deed poll to Duchess of Sussex if the titles are taken away maybe?

TightlyLacedCorset · 21/11/2025 18:45

FenellaFeldman · 20/11/2025 11:15

He loves her Boldly. Is he Captain Kirk?

Now that was unnecessary. Grow up fgs!

Also 🤣🤣🤣🤣

TightlyLacedCorset · 21/11/2025 18:53

This article reminds me of why I stopped buying female audience focused magazines quite a while ago. What a load of sycophantic, champagne-charity flogging, big money fashion wearing, affiliation bragging, navel gazing fluff!

I died at Gloria Steinem being referred to as 'Glo'

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 18:55

NewAgeNewMe · 21/11/2025 18:41

Deed poll to Duchess of Sussex if the titles are taken away maybe?

I would guess that from BP’s side, part of removing the titles would be deciding what family name they should use.

And when that day comes, the Montecito pair will put up a fight you could sell tickets for.

Mylovelygreendress · 21/11/2025 18:56

From Oprah interview :

To underscore that Archie's title in itself wasn't the key issue, Meghan went on to explain that her own royal title didn't define her, saying "the most important title I’ll ever have is mom."
“All the grandeur surrounding this stuff is an attachment I don’t personally have.” She continued: “I’ve been a waitress, an actress, a princess, a Duchess—I’ve always still just been Meghan, right? I’ve been clear on who I am, independent of all that stuff, and the most important title I’ll ever have is mom. I know that.”

NewAgeNewMe · 21/11/2025 18:58

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 18:55

I would guess that from BP’s side, part of removing the titles would be deciding what family name they should use.

And when that day comes, the Montecito pair will put up a fight you could sell tickets for.

🍿 🍿 🍿

FenellaFeldman · 21/11/2025 19:02

Mylovelygreendress · 21/11/2025 18:56

From Oprah interview :

To underscore that Archie's title in itself wasn't the key issue, Meghan went on to explain that her own royal title didn't define her, saying "the most important title I’ll ever have is mom."
“All the grandeur surrounding this stuff is an attachment I don’t personally have.” She continued: “I’ve been a waitress, an actress, a princess, a Duchess—I’ve always still just been Meghan, right? I’ve been clear on who I am, independent of all that stuff, and the most important title I’ll ever have is mom. I know that.”

😂😂😂

Puzzledandpissedoff · 21/11/2025 19:09

NewAgeNewMe · 21/11/2025 18:41

Deed poll to Duchess of Sussex if the titles are taken away maybe?

Deed polls are a British thing, NewAgeNewMe; the US do this by state, but it involves applying for a court order to change your name

Guess it would give the court staff a cheap laugh though, and what the hell's the point in a title that's had to be invented? If there's anyone left who doesn't already regard them as a laughing stock, that ought to do it Confused

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 19:09

Mylovelygreendress · 21/11/2025 18:56

From Oprah interview :

To underscore that Archie's title in itself wasn't the key issue, Meghan went on to explain that her own royal title didn't define her, saying "the most important title I’ll ever have is mom."
“All the grandeur surrounding this stuff is an attachment I don’t personally have.” She continued: “I’ve been a waitress, an actress, a princess, a Duchess—I’ve always still just been Meghan, right? I’ve been clear on who I am, independent of all that stuff, and the most important title I’ll ever have is mom. I know that.”

Do we really believe her children call her “Mom”?

IcedPurple · 21/11/2025 19:14

VanessaSanessa · 21/11/2025 18:33

Plus someone who is meant to be a major feminist has now linked her entire identity to her husband's family. Bizarre.

And not to mention that said family were racist and horrible to her.

Yes. 'Her' title isn't really her title. Harry is the holder of the Duke of Sussex title. As his wife, convention has it that she can use the 'courtesy' version of his title, but it has no legal significance, and is of course utterly dependent on her marital status. Not very feminist.

EsmaCannonball · 21/11/2025 19:15

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 19:09

Do we really believe her children call her “Mom”?

Archie: 'Nanny No.3, why is the Duchess of Sussex always in our kitchen?'

Mylovelygreendress · 21/11/2025 19:15

Ohpleeeease · 21/11/2025 19:09

Do we really believe her children call her “Mom”?

Wonder if the nanny announces her when ( if) she visits the nursery ?

thenightsky · 21/11/2025 19:16

VanessaSanessa · 21/11/2025 18:40

I don't think anyone gets to call them out on anything. I would imagine if you did that you are cut off straight away.

I cannot imagine that THE Gloria Steinem would care.

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