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William's non attendance to important events

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Spectre8 · 20/08/2025 07:33

Since there is a flurry of discussion on another thread its probably best to create a thread for it to take place here and not derail another one.

So William is not attending a number of important events the recent one being the VJ day..lots of you think he should have after all he is the future King and if he can't make time for these things then it begs the question what is the point of them?

So discuss away...what should he turning up to, what is his actual role if he starts to not do these types of things...

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hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:29

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jumpingthehighjump · 20/08/2025 20:30

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 20:26

Not sure if that's aimed at me but I genuinely do feel sorry for the children. Being wheeled out like zoo animals as a distraction whenever there's a hint of scandal. They're props. They'll never be able to have a normal life - their exam results will be reported to the entire nation, we'll know all about their first relationships, they won't be able to drink a few too many tequilas in a student union bar and make a tit out of themselves. If they try and have a normal career they'll be constantly targeted by those keen to exploit their royal connections. If they stay in the firm they've got a life of the same goldfish bowl. Then they'll get married and the cycle will start all over again with their children.

Yes, and just think of the married in women for George and Louis... look at how the females get annihilated in the media. What sort of life will their wives have I wonder...
I, too, genuinely feel for the children. They look so lovely, I have a soft spot for George... well, all of them, but George comes across so lovely.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 20/08/2025 20:31

bumbaloo · 20/08/2025 08:46

But KC still attended hundreds of events annually when he was PC
PW attends very very few events for a senior royal. Extraordinarily few for the heir to the throne.

he attends fewer events than any other senior royal. He is extremely entitled and has no concept that with the phenomenal privilege comes a huge sacrifice. Or it should. But he and his family choose to take all the privileges but not the duty.

William lived through the very public breakdown of his parents’ marriage. It must have been acutely embarrassing to know that his mother was chosen by his grandmother, to have him and Harry by Charles, because she was a virgin; and millions listened to his mother’s interview on Panorama, and his father admitting adultery?

He saw his mother going through bulimia and probably mental health crises; and being chased endlessly by the paparazzi to her death. By all accounts, Charles wasn’t the best father either, probably because he didn’t know how to parent much after his own childhood.

I think William has suffered in ways, most of us can’t imagine and he has paid an enormous price for his privilege. Yes, he has nannies; but realistically most working parents in this country have paid childcare by another name? IMO, he tries to give his children a better family life than he had.

We have no idea why he chose to miss VJ Day, so it’s unfair to criticise him, without knowing what his reasons were.

hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:31

Poor kids who will inherit billions and never want for anything.

Except privacy, can you put a price on that?

hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:35

@BlueandWhitePorcelain I definitely agree with you re having the affair, tampon gate, the manner of their mothers death etc & it all so public must have been incredibly damaging so can completely see why W&H have issues particularly with the press & public. Looking back on it (I was a tween) & them having to walk behind theirs mother's coffin is fucking shameful tbh.

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 20:35

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 20:21

It's so incredibly grim. And it's not the republicans buying the hello magazines with Charlotte on the cover or wanting small children paraded in public.

It was a republican on here who thought that the RF should make their medical information public - now that’s incredibly grim.

You’d have to ask them if that included under 18s.

Tutorpuzzle · 20/08/2025 20:38

Despite all the royalists on this thread (and some of them really do sound like the weirdos shoving teddies and chocolate to the royal children at Christmas) it doesn’t matter. The chances are, according to this poll, you’re over 65. The monarchy may not end in your lifetime, or mine (I’m only a decade or so behind), but end it will. However pretty Kate’s hair is.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66707923

Royal Family on balcony

Generations sharply divided over keeping monarchy

Young people are much less convinced about supporting the monarchy, suggests a survey.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66707923

2dogsandabudgie · 20/08/2025 20:39

jumpingthehighjump · 20/08/2025 20:30

Yes, and just think of the married in women for George and Louis... look at how the females get annihilated in the media. What sort of life will their wives have I wonder...
I, too, genuinely feel for the children. They look so lovely, I have a soft spot for George... well, all of them, but George comes across so lovely.

At least William and Kate are doing something right then if they're raising lovely children.

PensionedCruiser · 20/08/2025 20:39

With regard to the Sovereign Grant, I would like to correct what I think is some misinformation being talked about. For clarity, I want to say that I am not doing this because I am all in favour of royalty or totally against it. It's the system we have at the moment.

Now, down to business:

The Crown Estate is owned by the Monarch, but in 1760, George III surrendered the management of this part of his holdings to Parliament in return for a fixed annual payment, which became the Civil List. Effectively, that means that the profits go directly to HM Treasury to fund Government expenditure. (There is plenty more information online.)

The Sovereign Grant was established in 2011 by the Sovereign Grant Act. This abolished the Civil List and introduced a single payment to the Monarch to fund Royal Expenditure. Payments to staff, reimbursement of expenses incurred during official duties (by all the working Royals) and upkeep of Palaces owned by the public (Buckingham Palace, Windsor Castle etc) are funded by the Sovereign Grant.

According to the latest figures, the Crown Estate generated a profit of £1.1 billion in 2024, which was paid to HM Treasury. The Sovereign Grant was paid at 12% of this profit - quite a sum. However, none of this money is paid through the taxes raised by HMRC.

As I said, all this information is readily available online, for anyone who wants to know more. As I openly acknowledge that I am a pedant, I'm writing this to counter the idea that 'they' are living in luxury while 'our money' is paying for it. Both The King and The Prince of Wales are fabulously wealthy and perfectly able to manage on the profits (maybe salaries) that they take from their private Duchies - which were established in 1399 (Lancaster) and 1337 (Cornwall) to provide private incomes for the Sovereign and Heir - on which it is understood that they pay tax, but (I think) scrapping the Monarchy and installing a President is still leaving the Royal family with its wealth intact (and possibly the return of the Crown Estate), leaving us to fund the total cost of a President. Personally, I'm not sure it is worth it at the moment, but I'm not prepared to argue for it.

Anyway, I hope this helps set the record straight about funding the King.

hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:40

I do think a lot of the discussion on here gets so heated because there is a generational divide. Mns definitely skews old in terms of average user.

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:41

Thanks, @PensionedCruiser . Good to have some actual facts.. 👍

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 20:42

Highly recommend Norman Baker’s ‘And what do you do?’ - regardless of what side of the debate you’re on.

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 20:44

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 20:35

It was a republican on here who thought that the RF should make their medical information public - now that’s incredibly grim.

You’d have to ask them if that included under 18s.

I said publicise their diagnoses. Who knows what awareness that could bring about.

PensionedCruiser · 20/08/2025 20:46

wordler · 20/08/2025 20:20

They have free will - they don’t have to take on the roles if they don’t want to.

That's been working well for Harry, hasn't it. I suspect if any of William's children do the same, there will be constant vilification for them too.

hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:47

Both The King and The Prince of Wales are fabulously wealthy and perfectly able to manage on the profits (maybe salaries) that they take from their private Duchies

Which it's why it's even more unnecessary to take rent from the NHS, schools & armed forces. They act commercially but don't pay corporation tax or CGT.
There needs to be more transparency

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:47

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 20:44

I said publicise their diagnoses. Who knows what awareness that could bring about.

Why on earth should they publicise their diagnoses?

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:50

PensionedCruiser · 20/08/2025 20:46

That's been working well for Harry, hasn't it. I suspect if any of William's children do the same, there will be constant vilification for them too.

I think it depends how they go about it. Leave with dignity and have an independent life, building a positive future, or making a huge deal and selling loved one's privacy for money, trading on royal status while still holding on to the titles and privilege?
Different approach, different response, I would wager.

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 20:50

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 20:44

I said publicise their diagnoses. Who knows what awareness that could bring about.

Bring about awareness? - that’s quite the spin on what would be an invasion of their privacy.

PensionedCruiser · 20/08/2025 20:51

hangerup · 20/08/2025 20:47

Both The King and The Prince of Wales are fabulously wealthy and perfectly able to manage on the profits (maybe salaries) that they take from their private Duchies

Which it's why it's even more unnecessary to take rent from the NHS, schools & armed forces. They act commercially but don't pay corporation tax or CGT.
There needs to be more transparency

I don't disagree, but I think it's important to differentiate between revenue paid to the Crown Estate (which I suspect is most of the contentious payments) and revenue paid to the Duchies. More transparency would be a very good thing.

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:51

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 20:50

Bring about awareness? - that’s quite the spin on what would be an invasion of their privacy.

Quite! Why should people sacrifice very private, personal details for "awareness"!
I think some more respect needs to be shown for people's privacy.

Futurehappiness · 20/08/2025 20:55

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:51

Quite! Why should people sacrifice very private, personal details for "awareness"!
I think some more respect needs to be shown for people's privacy.

They are not private figures. They cannot have it both ways.

PensionedCruiser · 20/08/2025 20:56

MissFenellaPrism · 20/08/2025 20:50

I think it depends how they go about it. Leave with dignity and have an independent life, building a positive future, or making a huge deal and selling loved one's privacy for money, trading on royal status while still holding on to the titles and privilege?
Different approach, different response, I would wager.

I think we forget that the whole standing down debacle was because a certain tabloid newspaper, edited by a boyfriend of a certain Prince's private secretary, broke the story before the Royal family had all their ducks in a row. Which of course led to a tabloid feeding frenzy and all sorts of scurrilous 'stories'.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/08/2025 20:56

Futurehappiness · 20/08/2025 20:55

They are not private figures. They cannot have it both ways.

Of course they are entitled to privacy when it comes to their medical records.

IAmATorturedPoet · 20/08/2025 20:57

Futurehappiness · 20/08/2025 20:55

They are not private figures. They cannot have it both ways.

They are entitled to keep their medical information private.

jeffgoldblum · 20/08/2025 20:57
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