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The royal family

William's non attendance to important events

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Spectre8 · 20/08/2025 07:33

Since there is a flurry of discussion on another thread its probably best to create a thread for it to take place here and not derail another one.

So William is not attending a number of important events the recent one being the VJ day..lots of you think he should have after all he is the future King and if he can't make time for these things then it begs the question what is the point of them?

So discuss away...what should he turning up to, what is his actual role if he starts to not do these types of things...

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jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:31

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:20

Oh please. You know exactly why they got one. Getting up with the baby is something us commoners do.

Of course I know why they got one. I never denied it. They have certain occasions which Catherine is required to appear at and look smart and put together. I don't blame her at all. As I have said many people use them now including my DIL for a short time. Why do you refer to yourself as a commoner? That's so sad that you compare yourself to others and find your position in life lacking.

Futurehappiness · 20/08/2025 19:32

prelovedusername · 20/08/2025 16:50

Catherine’s done several very high profile engagements so she is very much back to work. But in any case, isn’t it a good thing that an example is set of taking time to recover properly? Isn’t that what we’d want for anybody recovering from serious illness?

Where I work people get 3 months sick pay and then Statutory Sick pay (a pittance) before applying for Incapacity Benefit (another pittance and only if you can get it). Many people come back to work then because they have to; others are forced to work part time only - sort of like Kate - but their pay is also cut to part time. Whereas Kate is lavishly rewarded whether she works or not.

I am all for people being able to recover properly and certainly don't believe in anyone (including Kate) being forced to work when they can't, and maybe she does need to scale back somewhat while she recovers. But Kate is seemingly able to ski on black runs during some of her multiple holidays, as well as sit through hours-long Wimbledon matches in the hot sun.....it is hard to believe she could not do a lot more than she does. And let's face it even before her illness she did not have a reputation for being a workhorse.

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:32

BemusedAmerican · 20/08/2025 19:30

Adelaide Cottage has 4 bedrooms. Did they put Carole in the garage?

Carol moved in when the eldest was born and is a “hands on” grandmother. They have vast amounts of support. They clearly don’t go it alone so why try and pretend they do?

Ladedahlia · 20/08/2025 19:32

Tourist29 · 20/08/2025 08:06

But the King was there, I don’t recall Prince Charles being at every major event with Queen Elizabeth. I don’t see an issue at all.

Well yes, as long as the RF is represented that's all that matters. Obviously if the king is there, William doesn't need to be!

Ladedahlia · 20/08/2025 19:33

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:32

Carol moved in when the eldest was born and is a “hands on” grandmother. They have vast amounts of support. They clearly don’t go it alone so why try and pretend they do?

Carol has never moved in! What makes you think that? She lives with her husband in Buckinghamshire.

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:33

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:26

They did when the children were little and they still didn’t work! You also mean to tell me that Kate is deathly unwell and her family aren’t with her?

Are you confused with Doris living with Meghan?

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:33

Ladedahlia · 20/08/2025 19:33

Carol has never moved in! What makes you think that? She lives with her husband in Buckinghamshire.

It’s well reported. But yes, it’s all “misinformation”

wordler · 20/08/2025 19:34

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 18:37

Can you quote somebody saying that they don't deserve compassion? I think the main issue is the faux 'we're just like you' spin when it's blatantly obvious they're not. I think we all have sympathy for the family with Kate's health issues but your average cancer patient isn't able to indefinitely cut down on work (whilst collecting a full salary), have multiple luxury holidays, have multiple nannies and staff on hand for childcare/cleaning/cooking etc. Not to mention the wider issues with NHS waiting lists etc that we know the royal family won't be dealing with. Nobody is saying that she hasn't had a tough time, but she's got resources to deal with it that the average person could only dream of.

The Wales' seem to want to have it both ways - expecting immense wealth and privilege whilst simultaneously wanting to do less. I'm afraid from a PR point of view it doesn't look great to prioritise engagements like Wimbledon (which again for most of the population would be a massive potentially once in a lifetime treat to attend) over the less glamorous ones. They've got goodwill at the moment by virtue of the nation's fondness for the late Queen (and that they can play off the media hysteria regarding Meghan and Harry), but they're both approaching their mid-40s, there's a limit to how long they can play the young couple with a young family card. Support for the monarchy drops sharply amongst the under 30s. With the increasing loss of the social contract (what are the odds of todays teens/young adults being able to afford a house let alone actually have a state pension) the monarchy is going to have to find a way to justify their keep - turning up to the tennis and posting artsy videos on instagram isn't going to cut it.

It's interesting that none of the royalists on this thread have responded to my comment about how surely the fairest thing for the royal family would be a republic - especially those arguing about how difficult their lives are. Let them retire gracefully to live off their estates so George, Charlotte etc can be their own people - be it a doctor/vet/architect/potter/whatever. I just don't understand the insistence that they have such a difficult life that they deserve all the wealth, tiaras, luxury holidays etc whilst wanting to continue to doom their children to a gilded cage.

Some of us are not ‘royalists’ but in favour of a constitutional monarchy over a republic.

I would be open to a republic if the right model was proposed and it included protections for the Crown assets and historical archives and art collections.

I’ve not heard a compelling argument for an attractive republic option yet though that would match what we’d lose from the current set up.

wordler · 20/08/2025 19:34

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 18:37

Can you quote somebody saying that they don't deserve compassion? I think the main issue is the faux 'we're just like you' spin when it's blatantly obvious they're not. I think we all have sympathy for the family with Kate's health issues but your average cancer patient isn't able to indefinitely cut down on work (whilst collecting a full salary), have multiple luxury holidays, have multiple nannies and staff on hand for childcare/cleaning/cooking etc. Not to mention the wider issues with NHS waiting lists etc that we know the royal family won't be dealing with. Nobody is saying that she hasn't had a tough time, but she's got resources to deal with it that the average person could only dream of.

The Wales' seem to want to have it both ways - expecting immense wealth and privilege whilst simultaneously wanting to do less. I'm afraid from a PR point of view it doesn't look great to prioritise engagements like Wimbledon (which again for most of the population would be a massive potentially once in a lifetime treat to attend) over the less glamorous ones. They've got goodwill at the moment by virtue of the nation's fondness for the late Queen (and that they can play off the media hysteria regarding Meghan and Harry), but they're both approaching their mid-40s, there's a limit to how long they can play the young couple with a young family card. Support for the monarchy drops sharply amongst the under 30s. With the increasing loss of the social contract (what are the odds of todays teens/young adults being able to afford a house let alone actually have a state pension) the monarchy is going to have to find a way to justify their keep - turning up to the tennis and posting artsy videos on instagram isn't going to cut it.

It's interesting that none of the royalists on this thread have responded to my comment about how surely the fairest thing for the royal family would be a republic - especially those arguing about how difficult their lives are. Let them retire gracefully to live off their estates so George, Charlotte etc can be their own people - be it a doctor/vet/architect/potter/whatever. I just don't understand the insistence that they have such a difficult life that they deserve all the wealth, tiaras, luxury holidays etc whilst wanting to continue to doom their children to a gilded cage.

Some of us are not ‘royalists’ but in favour of a constitutional monarchy over a republic.

I would be open to a republic if the right model was proposed and it included protections for the Crown assets and historical archives and art collections.

I’ve not heard a compelling argument for an attractive republic option yet though that would match what we’d lose from the current set up.

BemusedAmerican · 20/08/2025 19:35

So those stories about Carol making supermarkets open up additional checkout lanes are false? I was her biggest fan for that! 😮

ThatAvidViewer · 20/08/2025 19:35

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:24

They have a full live in staff. They have a night nanny. They have a grandmother living with them. They have a full time nanny. And they still don’t work as hard as the elderly family members and never have.

Your claims are wrong. They have no live-in staff. At most—if that article is even accurate—they had a night nurse for three months after the birth of their baby. The children’s grandmother does not live with them. This is my last reply to you; you’re spreading misinformation just for engagement. If you’re bored, get back to work instead of posting nonsense. You’re judging someone’s private and professional life while spending your own work hours commenting on an online forum.

wominzy · 20/08/2025 19:35

Catherine's sister Pippa got the better deal IMO. Billionaire husband and anonymity. They can spend their time whatever way they like, and their money too of course! Perfect.

2dogsandabudgie · 20/08/2025 19:36

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:32

Carol moved in when the eldest was born and is a “hands on” grandmother. They have vast amounts of support. They clearly don’t go it alone so why try and pretend they do?

Where are you getting that her mother lives with them. Tik tok is not a reliable news source or Facebook.

jumpingthehighjump · 20/08/2025 19:37

He does a lot of work 'under the radar' that is not hitting the news.

If that is the case, how do you know about it?

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:38

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:20

What does this mean?

It means a night nannie is the preserve of the wealthy and many people have zero help. And just bloody get on with it.

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 19:40

wordler · 20/08/2025 19:34

Some of us are not ‘royalists’ but in favour of a constitutional monarchy over a republic.

I would be open to a republic if the right model was proposed and it included protections for the Crown assets and historical archives and art collections.

I’ve not heard a compelling argument for an attractive republic option yet though that would match what we’d lose from the current set up.

So you’re happy for George, Charlotte, Louis and any future royal children having their lives mapped out from birth?

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:40

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:38

It means a night nannie is the preserve of the wealthy and many people have zero help. And just bloody get on with it.

Well as I said it depends what you mean by " wealthy" . I know several people who have used and they are not uber rich as Royals are.

LeaAndDer · 20/08/2025 19:40

jumpingthehighjump · 20/08/2025 19:37

He does a lot of work 'under the radar' that is not hitting the news.

If that is the case, how do you know about it?

🤣🤣

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:43

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:40

Well as I said it depends what you mean by " wealthy" . I know several people who have used and they are not uber rich as Royals are.

So just very rich, not uber rich?

How silly
the Royals are not struggling day to day with a mortgage, renting, using a food bank and worrying themselves sick about their kid being bullied at school.

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:44

Aethelredtheunsteady · 20/08/2025 19:40

So you’re happy for George, Charlotte, Louis and any future royal children having their lives mapped out from birth?

Do you know what lives they have in the future? Have you consulted Baba Vanga?

YourIcyGreyFinch · 20/08/2025 19:44

I generally like W&K but yeah I'm not bowled over by their work ethic. By the time they stop using their kids as an excuse they'll be using their old age as an excuse.

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:44

LeaAndDer · 20/08/2025 19:40

🤣🤣

W wears a big coat and runs around saying " I will say this only once" He then gives money to poor people as he steps over them.

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:46

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:43

So just very rich, not uber rich?

How silly
the Royals are not struggling day to day with a mortgage, renting, using a food bank and worrying themselves sick about their kid being bullied at school.

Your post makes no sense in relation to the nanny.
The RF have a nanny or Nannies.
so what? Many people do .

The rest of your point while true is nothing to do with having a nanny or not 🤷‍♀️

LifeOfAShowGirl · 20/08/2025 19:47

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:46

Your post makes no sense in relation to the nanny.
The RF have a nanny or Nannies.
so what? Many people do .

The rest of your point while true is nothing to do with having a nanny or not 🤷‍♀️

The point is that despite all of this support, they don’t pull their weight

jamnpancakes · 20/08/2025 19:48

cumbriaisbest · 20/08/2025 19:43

So just very rich, not uber rich?

How silly
the Royals are not struggling day to day with a mortgage, renting, using a food bank and worrying themselves sick about their kid being bullied at school.

You say that but they do maybe have to worry about many people on here bullying them and their children on this thread today.

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