Found the transcript of the Oprah interview:
Oprah: So how did they explain to you that your son, the grandson…the great-grandson of the Queen…
Meghan: Mh-hm.
Oprah: …is not going to have… He wasn’t going to be a prince. How did they tell you that? And what reasons did they give? And say, “Therefore, you’re not…you don’t need protection.”
Meghan: There…There’s no explanation.
Oprah: Hm.
Meghan: There’s no version… I mean that’s the other piece of that.
Oprah: Who tells you that?
Meghan: Um, I heard a lot of it through Harry, and then other parts of it through conversations with family members, um, and it was a decision that they felt was appropriate. And they thought, ‘Well, I’m–
Oprah: Was the title, was him being called a prince…Archie being called a prince, was that important to you?
Meghan: If it meant that he was going to be safe, then of course. All the grandeur surrounding this stuff is an attachment that I don’t personally have, right? I’ve been a waitress, an actress, a princess, a duchess. I’ve always just still been Meghan, right? So, for me, I’m clear on who I am independent of that stuff, and the most important title I will ever have is ‘Mom’. I know that. Um, but the idea of our son not being safe, and also the idea of the first member of colour in this family not being titled in the same way that other grandchildren would be, you know, the other piece of that conversation is there’s a convention — I don’t know if it’s George V or George VI convention — that when you’re the grandchild of the monarch, so when Harry’s dad becomes King, automatically…Archie and our next baby would become prince or princess or whatever they’re going to be.
Oprah: Mh-hm. So for you it’s about protection and safety. Not so much as what the…what the title means to the world–
Meghan: That’s a huge piece of it, but I mean but the–
Oprah: And that having the title gives you the safety and protection.
Meghan: Yeah, but also it’s not their right to take it away, right?
Oprah: Yeah.
Meghan: And so I think, even with that convention I’m talking about, while I was pregnant, they said they want to change the convention for Archie.
Oprah: Hm.
Meghan: Well, why?
Oprah: Did you get an answer?
Meghan: No.
Oprah: You still don’t have an answer?
Meghan: No.
Oprah: You know, we had heard, the world, those of us out here, reading the things or hearing the things, that it was you and Harry who didn’t want Archie to have a prince title. So, you’re telling me that is not true?
Meghan: No. And it’s not our decision to make, right? I…even though I have a lot of clarity on what comes with the titles — good and bad — and, from my experience, a lot of pain…
Oprah: Mh-hm.
Meghan: …I, again, wouldn’t wish pain on my child, but that is their birthright to then make a choice about.
Oprah: OK. So it feels to me like things started to change when you and Harry decided that you were not going to take the picture that had been part of the tradition for years…and–
Meghan: We weren’t asked to take a picture. That’s also part of the spin that was really damaging. I thought, “Can you just tell them the truth? Can you say to the world that you’re not giving him a title and we want to keep him safe and that if he’s not a prince then it’s not part of the tradition? Just tell people and then they’ll understand.”
Oprah: Mh-hm.
Meghan: But they wouldn’t do that.
Oprah: But you were…you both obviously were aware that that had been part of the tradition, and there was…was there a specific reason why you didn’t want to be a part of that tradition? I think many people interpreted that as you were both saying, “ We’re going to do things our way, we’re going to do things in a different way.”
Meghan: Mm. That’s not it at all. I mean, I think what was really hard… So picture, now that you know what was going on behind the scenes, right? There was a lot of fear surrounding it. I was very scared of having to offer up our baby knowing that they weren’t going to be kept safe.
Oprah: You certainly must have had some conversations with Harry about it, and have your own suspicions as to why they didn’t want to make Archie a prince. What are those thoughts? Why do you think that is? Do you think it’s because of his race?
Meghan: [sigh]
Oprah: And I know that’s a loaded question, but…
Meghan: But I can give you an honest answer. In those months when I was pregnant, all around this same time, so we have in tandem the conversation of he won’t be given security, he’s not going to be given a title. And also concerns and conversations about how dark his skin might be when he’s born.
Oprah: What?
Meghan: And…
Oprah: Who…who is having that conversation with you?
Meghan: [nods]
Oprah: What?
Meghan: So…um…
Oprah: There is a conversation…hold on. Hold up, stop right now.
Meghan: There were several conversations about it.
Oprah: There’s a conversation with you…
Meghan: With Harry.
Oprah: …about how dark your baby is going to be?
Meghan: Potentially, and what that would mean or look like.
Oprah: Whoo.
Meghan: [nods]
Oprah: And you’re not going to tell me who had the conversation?
Meghan: I think that would be very damaging to them.
Oprah: OK. So how…how does one have that meeting? I…
Meghan: That was relayed to me from Harry. Those were conversations that family had with him. And I think, um…
Oprah: Whoa.
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