But she wanted the wealth and adulation to be about her and not as a plus one
She wouldn't have got wealth and adulation - but she could have won respect separately from her husband, as Camilla, Sophie and Catherine have done, by identifying areas in which they could make a contribution, and getting on with it. But that would mean actual work, much of it unreported.
I never understood how ARO was supposed to work. To generate the sort of income they were looking for they'd have had to be shifting stock on the scale of Amazon. But if they're doing that, how is it yoonique or exclusive? What's the USP?
(And where's the actual product, the staff, the warehousing, the IT systems, they'd need? Who have they signed contracts with to supply any of those things?)