It seems that most of your hot takes seem to confirm what Harry highlighted in his book. William's continuing unresolved anger issues will prevent any reconciliation between them, now and forever and on a human level that is the biggest tragedy of them all. Cain and Abel for the 21st Century.
i agree that it's a tragedy. But according to you, the rift is entirely the fault of William and his 'anger issues'.
So, let's see:
Harry allows his family to be branded racists on international TV (slyly not specifying who the 'culprits' were, so throwing shade on everyone).
Then, later, he withdraws the accusation - just like that. Sorry! My mistake.
Then a Sussex mouthpiece 'accidentally' let's slip (blaming a translator) that the accused are Catherine and KC.
Then, Harry and Meghan, despite blathering on endlessly about the evils of online bullying and the importance of mental health and 'being kind', allow their attack dogs in the Sussex Squad to wager a vicious, absolutely poisonous campaign against Catherine while she's undergoing cancer treatment.
Nice.
And that's just the most outrageous things they've done.
Now, if I were William in this situation, I would never forgive. How on earth could he? I absolutely respect him for standing his ground. I would be horrified if he and KC just caved - that would be a moral failure in my book.