I am not diminishing his crimes. And actually, I am getting pretty sick of being accused of doing so. Unlike you, I wager, I had the courage to stand in court and give evidence against my SA attacker. You have no idea who you are accusing of being a rape apologist.
At no point, not in a single post, have I said that PA is more acceptable than PH.
The salient difference - for the purposes of the RF wishing to keep their private lives private - is that one is a proven sharer of family business in exchange for cash, and the other one isn't, and THAT is the only point I have been making comparing the one to the other. Everything else you think that I think on the subject of which of them is worse is in your head. Because I have not articulated it, because it is irrelevant to the subject of privacy being maintained over the RF Christmas.