Harry and Gabor

[laurwalsh]

My friend just sent me this. I adore Gabor mate and the work he does. His book 'in the realms of hungry ghosts' was life changing for me who had suffered serious addiction issues. But am I being too harsh to feel disappointed he's jumping on this band wagon of garbage. I'm sorry but Harry we're sick of listening to your trauma and no offence you've sung it to death, (and I don't even think it's that bad relative to how much he has gone on and on about it) and trauma aside you're a complete hypocrite with how you've treated you're family and the trauma you've put them through!!

Yeah, but that’s your imagination, isn’t it @Roussette ?

Who knows what their parenting is like, but I imagine it is warm and loving.

In case you need clarification.

Sorry, what is?

I'm not following you

I imagine I’m a size 6 blonde supermodel in a bikini on a yacht in the south of France.

Trying to start another derogatory trend in name calling are we?
If you think the opposite of Roundhead will be cavaliers or remain Royalists. You are mistaken, they will be called Squareheads.

Also, I suspect that @Novella4 was just generalising. I have always said there are no real royalists on here. It's something else completely.

Ahh I jumped the gun.

So it is in my imagination that they are warm and loving parents. Got you. I actually said 'who knows what their parenting is like'... so that is my clarification.

No one knows what goes on behind closed doors do we? Hence my clarification. That applies to any parents. Not sure what your point is.

Perhaps not using a term at all? , maybe not grouping posters who don't agree with you into one category? .
And the term commonly used for fans of the royal family is monarchist.
However many would say they aren't this either.

You are correct, from everything we have seen, H&M seem like warm loving parents with content little ones.

Well, after hearing a renowned psychologist in the Amber Heard/Johnny Depp trial diagnose and publicly announce JD as bi polar based in large part from watching his Pirates of the Caribbean films nothing would surprise me. I'm not sure what the diagnoses would of been had he watched Willy Wonka!

I expect it's quite tricky to find an 'authentic' therapist in LA.

Who knows what their parenting is like, I IMAGINE it’s warm and loving. So it’s your imagination that they’re warm and loving. They may well be, but who knows what their parenting is like?

Exactly. We can only go by what we see. and I imagine they are warm loving parents. As I imagine William and Kate are too. (But I'm not allowed to imagine lol)

Both couples seem very child orientated.

I have no idea what your point your posts are making. I think we agree. But honestly I have no idea.

Shall we leave it there?

You present your imaginary constructs as fact @Roussette .

I remember a large number of experts had very strong feelings about Trump but were held from publicly diagnosing by their professional body.

There are court experts who tell jurors what what they’re paid to tell them, I’m not sure if I agree with that either.

I am not going to @ you , or have you forgotten about the awful posts you made to me a while ago, where I stated I would not reference your name again?

However you need a history lesson, and have some cheek writing that after the horrible posts you've put on here!
Also I very much doubt novella needs or wants your assistance, they are more than able to defend themselves and rarely stoop to name calling.

From everything we have seen they are demonstrably warm loving parents.

From around 7rs old at school, you are taught to gather evidence and come up with a conclusion, the test paper is usually called 'reasoning'.

So far we have not seen anything to disprove the theory that they are warm loving parents.

OK. My last word on the subject. I said I imagine they are warm loving parents.

I said in my posts who knows what their parenting is like. And who knows what goes on behind closed doors.

That is not presenting anything as fact.

You are determined to persist on this. I'm standing back and not responding any more now, which is what I suggested in my last post.

So speaks the voice of reason 🙄😄

Thanks

Are you talking to me?

You are the one that came up with names in the first place, and I said I (possibly other posters) will retort.

You have come up with plenty of horrible posts yourself.

I am not defending Novella, I am agreeing with her.

I imagine you are.

Thanks, Hun .

And many thanks to @purpledalmation , for saving me from having to be rude yesterday! 😃

Some of us would disagree and would see that when your only public profile is repeatedly publicly sharing your substance abuse, sex life and family feuds in return for cash - it is ultimately deeply harmful to the children involved.

We have seen this impact on the children of many celebrities in the past.

It’s not a new concept.

It’s excruciatingly shameful and a choice and a trade off that these parents make.

Some people will deny the impact on children and defend the parents choice - others will consider that the emotional development of the child trumps everything.

Which stance you take will depend on your own personal values and moral compass around raising children.

Once again ! After your deeply unpleasant and horrible posts to me last year , I told you not to quote @ me and I will avoid you !
Enough now , I will not reply to you again .