Meghan WAS banned from Balmoral after Queen’s death

[SnottyLottie]

In his book, Harry also claims that his father told him that Meghan should not come to Balmoral. The Queen was staying at her Scottish estate when she died last September.

The prince wrote: "Then my father called again. He told me I was welcome at Balmoral, but… without her. He started to explain his reasons, but they didn't make any sense at all, and it was disrespectful as well. I did not tolerate it from him.

"Don't even think about talking about my wife like that.

"Repentant, he said, stammering, that he simply didn't want the place to be full of people. Nobody's wife was going to go, not even Kate, he told me, so Meg shouldn't either."

source: news.sky.com/story/prince-harry-asked-his-father-not-to-marry-camilla-as-moment-he-was-told-about-his-mothers-car-accident-revealed-in-book-12780602

He’s a twat. Why would the Queen want Meghan there after all they put her through? If Kate wasn’t going either then no one was being treated unfairly. It was a solemn family moment, and of course Harry has to use it for media attention.

Why on earth would Meghan want to be around them at a time like this even they’d previously done the Oprah interview & tensions were high. The reason she wanted to go was to sell her side of the story.

I think both are spoilt/pampered. Never been told No! Never told they are wrong. It’s a bad combination.

considering they promote mental wellness & reflection they couldn’t have done much of it themselves. They cannot see anybody else’s POW only their own.

Fucking hell this is a car crash. There is literally no chance of reconciliation after this. Is Harold really that deluded? Did Megs allow this to be released to make sure he was permanently ostracised from his family and solely under her control?

their poor kids!

And that isn’t relevant! What would have been the use of Meghan, or Kate for that matter being there?? None!!

What's the relevance of that? It's not as if Harry was asking for a bedroom, he was asking for his wife to be present at his grandmother's deathbed.

There is no story I've read today that doesn't inadvertently cast Harry and Meghan in a bad light. This one is the worst. They must have caused so much distress to everybody at the worst possible time. When I think of Princess Anne at her mother's side when she died, then accompanying her coffin so steadfastly, and looking utterly exhausted by the end, well...

It may have been Harry foot stamping that meant the plane carrying William etc arrived after HM's death, they had been waiting for Harry to make up his little mind, or to have it made up for him.

This to me is unforgivable, selling the conversation from the day your Grandmother was dying is disgusting.
Charles had every right to say who could and could not attend his mother's bedside as she passed away, perhaps it was her last wishes too.

But to make such a personal moment and private conversation public for money and to use it against your father who was losing his mother and would have been completely devastated at the time tells us all we need to know about Harry.

No one and no moments are safe around these two.

Yes, but when he left, he still managed to complain tax payers funded security was stopped. He carried on to use the titles and has no intention to denounce the monarchy 's way if being. With all the bitterness inside him, he can barely be called a complete man. Saying he's brave? I don't think he himself really agree with your view.

@SnowAndIceLobelia I think Kate would have wanted to be there as she actually had a relationship with the late Queen and with the position she is in but I guess at the heat of the moment they must have thrown her under the bus as long as it kept Meghan away "oh look even Kate isn't coming". If by doing this, still yabber about his wife being entitled at a moment where the UK has lost its head of state, his father lost his mother, his father jumping into a new role without having a chance to role, god knows what Harry would have said if even Kate was there. I think no one can ever win with this pair. Ever! Even mn isn't allowing threads to be deleted compared to two years ago 😂

Harry refused to have dinner with KC and W that evening in Balmoral and was on the first flight out of Aberdeen in the morning . Could he not have stayed a few hours to support his father ?

Haha this was a good laugh, thank you.

We know this, it was all over the press at the time

When my grandparents died I think the last thing on my mum’s mind was potentially upsetting my DH. We all travelled straight over without our partners. He’s such a bloody drama queen.

Given that Harry has shown he won't even respect the privacy of his father and grandmother when she was dying, I imagine the RF has firmly decided never to have anything to do with him again. Why would they speak to him knowing absolutely anything they say will turn up, probably in highly embellished form, in his next money-making venture?

Maybe be his hissy fit caused their plane to be delayed and they arrived too late. The situation was pretty well understood from the morning according to people who were working in the offices, no other reason for it to leave so late.

I have to agree, slightly.

I like Meghan, not a fan of Harry.
And I have to say I'm sick of him and his chat. He comes across as disingenuous, tone-deaf and full of shite.

It seemed quite evident at the time as it was claimed first she was going then she wasn't. Harry allegedly refused to get on the flight with his brothers and other and therefore was the last to arrive at Balmoral. I would like to think the Queen had muttered and don't let that Meghan here over my dead body!

Sadly both Meghan and Harry showed to the public very little regard towards the Queen

The whole thing makes the walk out to the crowds two days later even more magnificent, like, what was that about, really?

It’s not even a revelation. That’s the story the press generally went with. Or so I thought.

Losing a parent is a hugely traumatic, wholly personal and intensely emotional experience. When mine died I needed time to be with them, to talk to them, touch them, sing to them and cry over them before their bodies were taken away and they were physically gone from my life.

I could not imagine wanting to be with anyone who wasn't wholly supportive, whose anger and betrayal might have diminished those final moments.

Given the circumstances, Harry is lucky he was able to be there at all.

I've long wanted to be a fly on the wall when Anne and Zara crack open a bottle of wine and have a real session talking about H and M! After Diana's death Anne became very close to her nephews, I recall the 10th anniversary when Harry had done a reading during the service, outside the Abbey, or wherever, Anne hugged Harry and I've never seen her do that publically before. She must feel so disappointed at how he's turned on his family.

He’s a spoilt, entitled idiot and he should know better. No good will come from this. What a whingy and whiny prat he is.

Seems to be the case of we can’t invite one without the other. Kate was going to had to allow Meghan to go

@Angliski , it's not about the size of the place; it was something for the immediate family. W + H were going to be there as they were the PoW's children.

Tim and Sophie were there as the SIL and DIL of the monarch.
Can't remember if Camilla was there