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‘Courtiers’ 2

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RandomPenguinHouse · 30/09/2022 11:30

The last thread filled up during a particularly chatty morning.

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shedwithivy · 01/10/2022 20:14

Unfortunately I don't really think it is a believable defence to specific allegations of bullying, that some other friend or colleague turns up and says "well she was always nice to me and sometimes she brought in cookies" or whatever.

We wouldn't do that at school if a child was being bullied.

The RF was a very specific environment for MM and caused some unique frustrations for her. From my experience, how people behave under pressure and whether they take their stress out on others can be quite informative, particularly if they can pick and choose who is of status to receive or avoid that bad behaviour. I've definitely seen this play out in the workplace with managers who initially come across as very charming.

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:14

@LondonWolf
Totally agree ! The accusations have now truly descended into incoherent chaos - I shan’t be feeding that beast!

when is the book out? And is sooner on kindle does anyone know ?

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:16

MrsMaxDeWinter · 01/10/2022 20:09

You are sure of this, based on what exactly?

She has friends from her university days, she has friends from her Toronto Days, she has friends who were co-stars. They were all at her wedding.

What is it that you actually know that makes you say all her friendships are as you describe?

This @FlissMumsnet is the kind of comment that is popular here, nasty jibes about Meghan based on pure speculation and hatred.

Oh I live under a rock, personally. I really admire her for it actually. 😊I would love to know what it is like to sit in a line with a gaggle of empowered girls on a sleepover all dressed in monogrammed P.Js .. or lined up along the side of the pool asking followers to tell us apart from our bottoms. I must have missed out in life. Do you know where I might nab an invite?

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:18

😂

jeffgoldblum · 01/10/2022 20:19

God what happened? , I only went for a shower and put kids to bed!

LondonWolf · 01/10/2022 20:19

@Croque actual lol 😆

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:19

Can you buy "Good In Bed" doormats on Etsy? Mind you, I'm not sure how the neighbours would interpret that.

jeffgoldblum · 01/10/2022 20:21

@Croque 🤣🤣🤣, I'm getting one!

SilverLiningPlaybook · 01/10/2022 20:21

shedwithivy · 01/10/2022 20:14

Unfortunately I don't really think it is a believable defence to specific allegations of bullying, that some other friend or colleague turns up and says "well she was always nice to me and sometimes she brought in cookies" or whatever.

We wouldn't do that at school if a child was being bullied.

The RF was a very specific environment for MM and caused some unique frustrations for her. From my experience, how people behave under pressure and whether they take their stress out on others can be quite informative, particularly if they can pick and choose who is of status to receive or avoid that bad behaviour. I've definitely seen this play out in the workplace with managers who initially come across as very charming.

Absolutely agree with this.

Aspiringmatriarch · 01/10/2022 20:21

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:16

Oh I live under a rock, personally. I really admire her for it actually. 😊I would love to know what it is like to sit in a line with a gaggle of empowered girls on a sleepover all dressed in monogrammed P.Js .. or lined up along the side of the pool asking followers to tell us apart from our bottoms. I must have missed out in life. Do you know where I might nab an invite?

What are you talking about?

smileandjoy · 01/10/2022 20:22

MrsMaxDeWinter · 01/10/2022 19:58

This, this, this.

It Is so ludicrous how for 10 WHOLE years, the only stories about Meghan were what a nice person she is. Then she enters the Royal Family as the only person of colour, and suddenly, she mutates into this Angry Black Woman, and it is all revealed rather conveniently just before the Oprah interview.

Girl, please!

Also, I asked on the last thread -- and not a single person answered me: If it was Harry and Meghan BOTH bullying staff, why was the formal complaint made ONLY against her??

Nothing about this makes sense.

Off now to look up this Ninaki friend, sounds like a charmer!

It's not difficult to get a clear picture when you put all the dots together.

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:23

@Croque
haha! Maybe we can get a group order discount

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:24

Aspiringmatriarch · 01/10/2022 20:21

What are you talking about?

😓I know, I'm probably not stunning enough, perish the thought! Oh well, girl can dream.

LondonWolf · 01/10/2022 20:24

shedwithivy · 01/10/2022 20:14

Unfortunately I don't really think it is a believable defence to specific allegations of bullying, that some other friend or colleague turns up and says "well she was always nice to me and sometimes she brought in cookies" or whatever.

We wouldn't do that at school if a child was being bullied.

The RF was a very specific environment for MM and caused some unique frustrations for her. From my experience, how people behave under pressure and whether they take their stress out on others can be quite informative, particularly if they can pick and choose who is of status to receive or avoid that bad behaviour. I've definitely seen this play out in the workplace with managers who initially come across as very charming.

That's very insightful actually.

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:25

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:23

@Croque
haha! Maybe we can get a group order discount

Yes, anybody else like to join?

MarshaMelrose · 01/10/2022 20:25

She has friends from her university days, she has friends from her Toronto Days, she has friends who were co-stars. They were all at her wedding.

If these are all her long term good friends, why did they sit in the main body of the church, whilst people she'd only met once or twice sat in the quire? There might be a very good explanation for it so I'd love to know what it is, if anyone knows.

CathyorClaire · 01/10/2022 20:25

Strange how everyone clutches their pearls when H&M take a piss on themselves

TBF that's one thing they're expert at.

it's all so endearing when PC hisses at staff.

Not endearing at all. Revealing, yes.

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:26

😂

MrsMaxDeWinter · 01/10/2022 20:29

@smileandjoy indeed, indeed.

You have to be wilfully blind not to see it. Just learned on Twitter that Valentine Low was the journalist who referred to Archie as "frogspawn". The plot truly thickens!

It looks like we are going to have a parallel discussion on this thread, so would be really interested to read your take on this whole thing.

I am tempted to do another positive non-bashing thread, but the last time I did that, some of the Usual Suspects on this thread came on and did exactly what they are accusing us of in that they derailed the thread even though there were quite a few bashing threads they could have posted on.

So we may as well continue our rational, non-bashing discussion here 😁😁

Croque · 01/10/2022 20:29

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:26

😂

There are a few conditions: you got to practice philanthropy, offset your airmiles and collect rescue dogs, chickens and diamonds.

smileandjoy · 01/10/2022 20:29

LondonWolf · 01/10/2022 20:12

Looks like it 😁

Can we please, just carry on discussing and ignore the obvious attempts to make the discussion untenable because it has descended into some kind of melee? Ignore the accusations of some kind of behind the scenes conspiracy 🙄. I've typed and deleted several posts refuting these claims and responding to specific accusations because I know it's utterly pointless. I'm predicting parallel discussions on the same thread which might be somewhat entertaining Smile

If the same bad behaviour persists then it will certainly be exposed - on this and other threads.

jeffgoldblum · 01/10/2022 20:31

@Croque , please can I join , I can do half those things and I can practice the rest!!! 🤣🤣

jeffgoldblum · 01/10/2022 20:33

@LondonWolf , I'm still shocked about the umbrella story ! , fancy running and tattling to your mom like a toddler when you pushing 60ish!

Jibbajabba1 · 01/10/2022 20:33

@Croque
only if I’m allowed to publish my book about a cat. It is insightful and authentic about the relationship between a human and a cat. It’s lovely and designed to pull at heart strings. I howver do not have a relationship with a cat irl - they scratch things and annoy me and make me look bad. But apparently there a lot of cat people out there so mass appeal

Ohnonevermind · 01/10/2022 20:35

There was a time when PA was popular, but tantrumming like a toddler is rather wearisome in a middle aged man, PH take note.

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