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Feel sorry for Harry walking behind the Queens coffin

453 replies

FayeGovan · 14/09/2022 11:29

It must be very triggering for him, i feel for him.

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venus7 · 15/09/2022 19:15

antelopevalley · 14/09/2022 13:28

@SpinCityBlues I saw the original footage before I saw the film on twitter. It is sadly real.

What is it? Do you have a link?

pawkins · 15/09/2022 19:18

The media also reported that Harry left Balmoral without even having breakfast. It was later reported that Charles and William stayed at Burkhall and ate alone that night leaving Harry, Anne, Andrew and Edward to eat by themselves.

Their PR machine is on overdrive at the moment.

pawkins · 15/09/2022 19:19

Birkhall - autocorrect as usual!

anonacfr · 15/09/2022 19:42

William spoke about it today and said it was very difficult for him.
Whatever feelings are about the RF and its various members, I do feel sorry for William- Harry (deliberately or not) seems to have hijacked Diana's death as his own private tragedy.

Must be equally sad for William, who was her support in bad times and also lost her brutally.
He clearly cherishes her memory, and seems to share it with his children.

Mandyjack · 15/09/2022 19:46

FayeGovan · 14/09/2022 11:29

It must be very triggering for him, i feel for him.

I feel sorry for both Harry and William have to do that walk again but more so Harry due to all the abuse him and Meghan are getting

Mandyjack · 15/09/2022 19:47

anonacfr · 15/09/2022 19:42

William spoke about it today and said it was very difficult for him.
Whatever feelings are about the RF and its various members, I do feel sorry for William- Harry (deliberately or not) seems to have hijacked Diana's death as his own private tragedy.

Must be equally sad for William, who was her support in bad times and also lost her brutally.
He clearly cherishes her memory, and seems to share it with his children.

Can't see how you can say that about Harry. All the stories in the media haven't been written by him or Meghan they are constantly harassed by the media.

Mandyjack · 15/09/2022 19:52

kirinm · 15/09/2022 09:48

Gosh, isn't it completely expected that people can somehow make Mike Tindall and Zara Philips holding hands acceptable but Meghan and Harry doing it a BAD thing.

Losing a mother when you're a child causes trauma. Losing a mother when you're a child and a member of the royal family and made to parade in front of people because the baying mob that is the public demand it, is a whole different type of trauma.

I honestly find some people on here disgusting. I hope if your kids are ever put through anything like this - which they won't be - you'll have more sympathy.

The media and public who go along with their bullying of Harry & Meghan are disgusting, it's like a witch hunt. If she was to kill herself they'd say she did it to take the attention from the Queen. Zara and Beatrice did the same as Harry, holding hands with their partners but not criticism for them.

pawkins · 15/09/2022 19:59

It is simply awful. All these people supposedly so heartbroken their queen has died baying for H&M’s blood as usual. Then they busy themselves making marmalade sandwiches for dead queen. They are absolutely batshit.

Arbesque · 15/09/2022 20:30

pawkins · 15/09/2022 19:18

The media also reported that Harry left Balmoral without even having breakfast. It was later reported that Charles and William stayed at Burkhall and ate alone that night leaving Harry, Anne, Andrew and Edward to eat by themselves.

Their PR machine is on overdrive at the moment.

Or Charles and William ate alone leaving Anne, Harry, Edward and Andrew to eat together.
By the way where was Sophie in this tragic story?

LaDamaDeElche · 15/09/2022 20:31

And his brother? Did he not lose his mother too and have to walk behind her coffin?

LaDamaDeElche · 15/09/2022 20:34

FayeGovan · 14/09/2022 12:52

I guess i feel more sorry for Harry as he was youngest and has spoken about his mental health issues because of having to do it. Im sure it will be difficult for William too but he seems a different character to Harry, who seems more sensitive to me.

Interestingly i read something on the mail online saying how martin lewis was triggered by watching them as he lost his mum in a traffic accident at the same age as Harry and hes never got over it and cant watch them doing that.

Its just such a deep wound to have, losing your mum.

I feel so sorry for Willian with posts like this. Just because Harry has decided to air his pain to the world doesn't mean that William didn't/doesn't feel it just as deeply. The fact that he was older, and probably behind the scenes more was expected of him makes your point just so insensitive.

wentworthinmate · 15/09/2022 20:38

Don’t feel in the slightest bit sorry for Harry and glad to see him not allowed in uniform. He could have refused if triggering (just like those camera flashes!) but I suspect his dear wife told him to.

Vapeyvapevape · 15/09/2022 20:50

@antelopevalley what video's that ?

pawkins · 15/09/2022 20:50

Arbesque · 15/09/2022 20:30

Or Charles and William ate alone leaving Anne, Harry, Edward and Andrew to eat together.
By the way where was Sophie in this tragic story?

On the day your mother/grandmother died, it’s ok for the father to choose to eat/invite one son to stay with him?

Charles and William are equally petulant planning how to get the public on side. And some fall for it.

Nanny0gg · 15/09/2022 20:53

pawkins · 15/09/2022 20:50

On the day your mother/grandmother died, it’s ok for the father to choose to eat/invite one son to stay with him?

Charles and William are equally petulant planning how to get the public on side. And some fall for it.

Do you think they might have had to talk about things as King and Prince of Wales that the others couldn't be party to?

Harry was with the rest of his family

pawkins · 15/09/2022 21:13

Nanny0gg · 15/09/2022 20:53

Do you think they might have had to talk about things as King and Prince of Wales that the others couldn't be party to?

Harry was with the rest of his family

No I don't think that at all. The RF are like puppets and are told what to do/say/where to go/who to invite for walkabouts etc. They certainly didn't have to discuss anything privately without their management team with them and certainly not curing the meal on the evening of her death.

StormzyinaTCup · 15/09/2022 21:15

The media also reported that Harry left Balmoral without even having breakfast. It was later reported that Charles and William stayed at Burkhall and ate alone that night leaving Harry, Anne, Andrew and Edward to eat by themselves.

That came from Richard Kay the royal reporter for the Daily Mail, I thought no one was supposed to believe the 'bile' from that paper?

If we assume that's true then maybe PH declined the invite to join them just as he has with other invitations from his father and brother.

antelopevalley · 15/09/2022 21:18

We have no idea if Harry eats breakfast. Lots of adults do not.

mathanxiety · 15/09/2022 21:24

I thought at the time that Philip had pressured them into doing it. The reason to do that was to show the public that the boys were loyal to the RF and not to the Spencers (Charles Spencer had been opposed to it and harboured a deep grudge against the RF for the way they had treated Diana).
They were probably aware of how their mother had been dropped like a hot potato when she had stepped out of line.

antelopevalley · 15/09/2022 21:29

@Vapeyvapevape

elizaregina · 15/09/2022 21:44

@Readinginthesun

Honestly what a load of old cobblers.

I didn't see the Dianne rings comment.
I've "lightly"followed the subject in the past.
I noted it was reported that Kate wore Diana's earrings at the hall.
It's since been reported they were actually the queen's.
I just wondered where are these jewels.
Have they been laid out for both men/wives?

Because William found and married Kate first,how was it ensured that Harry's future partner had an equal opportunity to have special item's?

Now there is animosity,again how does this translate...as to who gets what..

Jewels and what they wear are a way they express themselves.

Hth.

Re Megan and her Netflix Mike...yes! It was a rumour..

I can,find the situation hugely sad, traumatic (and guess what) amusing.
Because there are amusing aspects that make me laugh.
Because I have a hugely difficult family, because I've had hugely awkward Weddings and funeral's due to family members.
Because this is the great leveller of life and humanity..
Because people think that money buys happiness and sheilds you from life's problems.

It doesn't and there is an EastEnders element to this.

Which actually makes them.seem more relatable.

Its ok to feel many things about any situation, nothing is totally one thing or the other..

HTH.

anonacfr · 15/09/2022 21:57

Mandyjack · 15/09/2022 19:47

Can't see how you can say that about Harry. All the stories in the media haven't been written by him or Meghan they are constantly harassed by the media.

I'm talking about Harry's own words- he mentions his mother a lot in public interviews.
There was one where he said that he felt the spirit of his mother had effectively sorted William out and that it was now his turn.
The idea that someone with a happy family life has got over the loss of a parent is very unfair- grief is not a competition.

Partayyyyy · 15/09/2022 22:48

cant belive you lot are even having this debate as if there not going through enough already without everyone trying to decide what they must be feeling give it a rest and go find somthing to do like read a book and have some respect honestly i dont know why i read this crap

colouringindoors · 15/09/2022 23:11

Very interesting perspective and explanation for the dislike of Harry and Megan:

twitter.com/royal_suitor/status/1570300740597600258?t=0jDJ1_pSy4hfwxp0XljzGg&s=19

Roxy69 · 16/09/2022 00:14

PipinwasAuntieMabelsdog · 14/09/2022 13:03

YABVVVVVVVVU OP. He is a grown, married man with his own children now. All this 'Diana's boys' business has led to him becoming the petulant manchild he is today. William had the same experience but for some reason is not given anything like the 'free pass' Harry seems to get. He made choices that made the end of his grandparents' lives much more difficult, as far as I am concerned he deserves no special regard above any other family member right now.

Couldn't agree more, how shallow to think that just because one brother doesn't spout all to the media he is not suffering. Harry and his wife will no doubt spill all for money later on.